It s hard to choose between who loves me and who I love

Wronging oneself or wronging others is the essence of the matter!! After all, men are different from women and have more responsibilities. Whether you can bear it like a man depends on your performance.

Upstairs is right, don't forget why you liked your girlfriend in the first place, since you have chosen, it is a lifelong responsibility. Feelings can be cultivated, but the damage done to others is irreparable, and besides, it is still a person who loves you deeply. Learn to cherish, friend.

How can it be the same as me, I am in this situation now, but I think that when I fall in love, I should choose the person I love, and when I get married, I must choose the person who loves me.

I feel the same way, because I am in a similar situation to you--- and I am still messing around! I always want to free myself, but I pity him (after all, he loves me very much), and unlike you, the person I love is also married and seems to be happy.

I won't bother him anymore (because I love him, I think I'll be happy for him as long as he's happy), I'm afraid that I'll break free, and I won't have the chance to meet someone like him again. So I'm afraid. I'm in pain, I'm tormented.

If you haven't married yet, I think you should free yourself, and I think it's a big mistake for you to introduce someone you love. Why bother! One is in pain. And to get another one who is just as tormented as you?

At first, I naively thought that I couldn't be with the person I loved, and it was not bad to marry someone who loved me (listen: it is happy to be loved), but I found that I was wrong, very wrong.

I've also encountered such troubles, you are a boy, so you have to choose someone you love!

I'm also like you, I don't know what to do, the only difference is that I don't know if the person I love really loves me, I'm afraid that I will be deceived, this kind of thing is in vain to ask anyone to decide or yourself.

You like to hurt the person who loves you and you waste three years of her youth

And you and the person you love are in love, then you should choose her, and that's good for all three of you.

In that case, you can just step on two boats, and I won't say much about the specific plan! But if you find out, it's likely to be split in two, but it's better than two people in pain.

The one who loves you, maybe you don't; The person you love doesn't necessarily love you. In the long run, it is still recommended that you choose the person who loves you.

You don't need a reason, it's because he or she loves you.

If the person who loves you doesn't annoy you, I suggest you choose "the person who loves me".

To love is to give, to be loved is to enjoy, and the lucky person who "loves me" and "I love" is the same person.

There is also a large part of the "love me" and "I love" are not the same person, love is very hard, choose a relatively simple "love me" life will be smoother.

It depends on your character, if you are willing to give for the person you love, whatever you want, then choose the person you love. But if you like to enjoy and be held in the palm of your hand, then choose the person who loves you!

I think I should still choose the person who loves me, because if I choose the person I love, I will unconsciously lower my posture in front of him, and I will make myself more humble.

The person you love should be chosen. Even if the person you love doesn't like you, you have to work hard to express and pursue. Even if you are rejected, you are worthy of yourself.

You can't choose it, if you really can't choose, you don't choose, choose a stranger, slowly cultivate feelings, and when you look back, you will find that the person who loves you is really good, the person who loves you is full of love for you, the person you love, you are full of him, one is active, one is passive, you choose yourself.

If the person I love also loves me, then I must choose the person I love, if he doesn't love me, then I will choose the person who loves me, at least he will be good to me.

Compare the two points or choose a person who loves you, because only the other party loves you, can make the relationship between the two of you more harmonious, if it is the person you love, but the other party does not love you, this is no result.

If I had to choose, I think I should choose someone who loves me, because choosing someone who loves me can make me feel pampered and happy.

If you can only choose one of the two, choose someone who loves you, so that at least you will feel that the other person cares about you. The best outcome is to find someone who loves each other.

If you want to get married, I think you should still choose someone who loves you, because marriage is very complicated, and a person who loves you is willing to tolerate you and give you everything.

The best choice is to have them all, love doesn't have to be so clear, sometimes it's good to be confused and follow your heart.

Then it depends on the person who loves you, do you hate to see him, if you don't hate it, then find someone who loves you more, so that the love you will receive is doubled, and you will fall in love with him over time.

If it were me, I would choose someone who loves me, not choose someone I love, because choosing someone I love, there will be too many uncertainties in life, but someone who loves me will make me happy.

Generally choose to love you, if in the long run, you should love each other!

The people who love me and the people I love, I will definitely choose the people who love me, the feeling of someone to love, very happy.

The person who loves you, you don't love him, although you can feel that he loves you everywhere, but you have no motivation to give him your love, even if you go back and try to love him, you will feel that you are returning the favor, and you will feel tired.

Someone who loves me. The person I love must also love me in order for me to be happy, but the person who loves me can be happy even if I don't love it.

What's so hard to choose, you're really too much, of course, think about the person you love, if that person also loves you, this is the best choice.

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well! When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along with for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not necessarily be together; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever! No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you; In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

One thing to tell you is that whether you choose to be with the person who loves you, or choose to be with the person you love, first of all, the other party must be able to love you deeply, understand you, and care for you.

Choose to be with someone who loves you, and one day you will be touched and you will understand what true love is, and the past is just a flash or mirage.

Choosing to be with someone you love, sometimes you feel relieved in your heart, and when you give in to your feelings for a long time, you will feel tired one day. You will have a big question mark about the love you give, and if the other party also takes good care of you, then you will feel that you are the happiest person in the world!

Happy every day!

Love is hard, lovers are bitter.

Choose the person you love, then there will be the pain of waiting for love, the sorrow of hesitation for love, if he also loves you and moves for you, this love is worth it no matter what you give. If it's just unrequited love, forget it. It's torture, after all.

Choosing to be loved will be a kind of happiness, because someone loves you and cares about you, so that you will not be lonely, he will feel distressed and nervous for you. Always being made to cry and sad by the person you love, and the person who loves you will always do everything possible to make you happy, this is the difference.

If you can't get the pity of your lover, choose to be loved. If you can't accept the person you love, then choose to leave and don't love anyone. Hurting the person who loves you will be more sad than hurting yourself, because he loves you so much that he can't bear to hurt like this.

Lost his own handwriting.