How to find a topic to chat, how to find a topic to chat

It's all okay, my chat is very hot for a while, and it will be cold for a while.

There are two things to keep in mind when chatting with boys:

First, the sound should not be very loud and high-pitched! Boys hate girls who have never seen the world in everything.

Second, don't pretend to understand, don't talk about it, if you don't understand, you have to smirk honestly and say that you don't know, and then take the opportunity to ask him and ask him to tell you. He may take the opportunity to laugh at you twice, but he will usually tell you very carefully afterwards! And the more you talk, the deeper you go.

Boys like the feeling of being needed, and girls who are too strong and steal the limelight they don't like.

Another thing to pay attention to is that both men and women should pay attention to: when everyone is not so interested in your topic, you must change the topic, don't hold on to the topic you like, otherwise it is easy to be fought for the right to speak by other people next to you. When you speak, you really have to stare into the other person's eyes but don't keep staring, and occasionally react to other people's conversations, so that others will feel that you respect him and that he respects you

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A lot of people ask me to talk about chat skills, but I just want to say one thing: atmosphere is more important than skill. A good chat atmosphere is much better than using so-called chat skills, so I want to teach you how to create a good chat atmosphere more than chat skills.

If it's in reality, you have to pick an occasion, such as the library: say to him, can you lend me the book in your hand? Then talk about what he thinks of the book, and finally, if it's speculative, take the opportunity to ask him some other questions you want to know.

If you are a girl who is easy to do, usually you take the initiative to approach him and ask him for help with something within his ability, and they are generally very happy, so that you can continue to talk.

How do I find a topic when chatting?

No, then you're so pathetic.

This still needs to be practiced.

Every time I talk to them, it's natural.

For example, if you are joking about what happened, it doesn't matter if you hit them.

It's not the same as girls.

Beauty, I actually met a beautiful woman in this illusory space, haha is so talented, God treats me well!

First, first of all, you can find topics from the form of girls. For example, "You've recently lost weight. This is something that a lot of girls like to hear, even if everyone knows that you are telling a lie, but girls are still very useful.

Everybody likes to hear good things, and that's better than saying, "You've gained weight again." "Much better. Then, starting from this, it extends to ****, physical exercise, ** products, spending power, and so on.

Second, then, you can say, "Your clothes are so beautiful", if the clothes are really bad, say "This dress is really special", "You look good in whatever you wear", and so on. Extends to dressing, shopping. To understand their understanding of boys, suggestions for boys' clothing matching, and you can also learn how to match clothes.

Communication and chat skills

1. Speak up: Especially be honest about your inner feelings, feelings, pain, thoughts and expectations, but never criticize, blame, complain, or attack.

2. Don't criticize, don't blame, don't complain, don't attack, don't preach: on the contrary, it will only make things worse and become the executioner of communication.

3. Mutual respect: Only by giving each other respect can there be communication, when the other party does not respect you, you must also ask for the other party's respect appropriately, otherwise it is difficult to communicate.

4. Never speak evil words: Evil words hurt people, which is the so-called "disaster comes from the mouth".

5. Don't say things that shouldn't be said: Otherwise, it often costs a lot to make up for it, and it may even cause irreparable lifelong regrets! Therefore, communication cannot be unscrupulous and open-mouthed; But not talking at all can sometimes get worse.

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There is such a joke: a couple of lovers meet to eat, the man asks the woman what to eat, and the woman says:"Whatever"!

And the man said,"Then let's go for a steak! "The woman said:

Not good, that's fishy. "And the man said:"Then go for the cooked food!

The woman said:"It's not good, it's too monotonous to eat that! "And the man said:

Then eat meat fried rice! "And the woman said:"It's not good, it's too unemotional to eat that!

And the man said:"Let's go eat Japanese food! "The woman said:

It's not good, it's too expensive to eat! "The man said again:"Let's go to McDonald's!

And the woman said:"It's not good, it's not nutritious to eat that! "...

Later, the man couldn't stand it. He asked loudly"Don't know what exactly you're going to eat? "I saw that the woman was a little embarrassed.

Said a little shyly"Whatever''

M: So what are we doing now? Female:

Either way. M: How about watching a movie?

It's been a long time since I've seen a movie. F: What's so good about the movie?

Delays. M: What about bowling and sports?

F: What's going on a hot day? Aren't you tired?

M: Then find a coffee shop and have some water. Female:

Drinking coffee affects sleep. M: Then what do you say?

F: Fine. M: Then let's just go home. Female:

Look at you. M: Let's take the bus!

I'll send you. F: The bus is dirty and crowded, so forget it.

M: That's a taxi. Female:

It's not cost-effective to get so close. M: Okay, let's take a walk.

Woman: Where are you going to go with an empty stomach? M:

So what the hell do you want? F: Look at you.

M: Then eat first. Female:

WhateverM: What do you eat?

F: Fine. Inspired?

Five years ago, I didn't have the courage to talk to girls.

In fact, it doesn't matter what topic you say, what matters is a state of mind, the more you care about the importance of the topic, the more you can't find a topic, this is my experience, because if you're looking for the perfect topic, the other person can definitely see your nervousness (don't take girls for fools, everyone has observation), so you should focus on how to relax yourself, there are actually a lot of topics to meet, but it's all nonsense (in fact, most of the conversation between people is nonsense), but talking nonsense is also knowledgeable For example, when you just meet her, you can praise her appropriately first, of course, don't always praise a place, don't praise too ordinary, for example, you can do this: Ah, buy new shoes! It's pretty good...

Of course, you can also start with a joke: this big watch is worn! This frustration ...

It's a lot, Founder, my experience is not to focus on the purpose of your speech, the relaxed chat environment is the most important thing, so that she can talk to you more, naturally she actually brings up the topic.

Conversations are sparked by simple questioning. Questions such as "Are you a ** person? "To **?

and so on as a heating process. Don't imagine that every minute there is a flash of language, that people's conversations 90 are nonsense, that there are only a few truths. The key to initiating a conversation is to let the other person speak, and not to lead the conversation into a dead end.

For example, an inexperienced young man asks him on a first date, "The weather is so nice today!"

And ask the other person: "What kind of work?" "Is it a ** person?

People are often only interested in their work, family, hometown, and ideals from the beginning to the end. Actually, even if something like "You're from?" Such a simple question also shows that you are interested in others, and as a result, others will be interested in you.

Another is to find common hobbies on both sides, which is easy to lead to a lot of common topics.

How to chat and find topics? If you don't know how to talk about it, look at it!

Add a woman casually, you can ask her if she can talk casually, the general will agree, and then tentatively understand her, you can ask her age, occupation, ** person, etc., of course, when asking, you should also pay attention to the appropriate set of almost, for example, ask her date of birth, she can say after she tells you, I am a day away from you (of course, it is a lie to her) so that you can get the woman to feel that you are destined to be a person.

Isn't it true that you know her? If you know, it's easy to do, you can ask her who are you first, right? I've heard a lot about you, and then you can start with someone you both know, and the conversation will go on, and hopefully it will help you! ~

I really don't know how to find a topic, and I can't stand it if I accumulate sugar and learn from the young ladies, but I'm afraid that your body can't stand it.

It's normal to chat and talk to a certain extent without words, but you keep chatting and don't ask the girl out, so the girl is very confused, and she doesn't know what you're going to do.

Now I'm using sugar, don't worry about I don't have a topic, the young lady inside is enthusiastic and open, there are a lot of topics when we are dating together, and the voice is very good when I am exercising.

There are a lot of topics to chat, you can ask her what she likes or not, what she wants, of course, the most important thing is to ask out to play in person to deepen the relationship, I like to talk about girlfriends on the wave travel software, they are more open, you don't need to be too good at chatting to make an appointment.

I won't be looking for a topic to chat, you can go to Sugar Ah, the young lady inside, will take the initiative to tease you and teach you experience.

It's easy to come out, but the sister paper of the y exercise together is very labor-intensive ticket.

me too, but I think this shouldn't be an overnight thing, you don't think too much, when you talk to people, talk more about trivial things, there will be a topic, I have a senior sister told me that those people who talk a lot are just repeating one thing very different people.

1. Future planning.

After the two of them are together, they can talk about their plans and plans for the future. Because when talking about this kind of topic, you can know whether the object has included himself in the future plan, this kind of topic is very happy to talk about, two people can talk about the future and their views on the future, such as how to form a family together in the future, what kind of life they want to live. You can also talk about each other's thoughts on the future, such as how to make the life of two people better and better, and which city they will settle in in the future.

Second, the first encounter scene.

After being together for a long time, the relationship will be flat, and when chatting, you can talk about the topic of why two people came together at that time. It always reminds couples of some small things when they first fell in love, and these little things will make people feel very warm and happy. When talking about the scene when they were together at that time, the shy face of the other party and the excitement at that time will come to mind, and such topics can enhance the relationship between two people.

3. Views on lovers.

You can also talk about your views on each other, so that you can not only express your love for each other, but also know what kind of image and status you have in the other person's heart. Some couples bury everything in their hearts and don't tell each other, in fact, such words have a very big impact on the relationship. When two people are together, they should be honest with each other, express their love often, and often reflect on their actions and practices to make each other feel happy.

Through such a topic exchange, you can make yourself better and make the other person feel your love.