Leaving aside the relationship, it is very heart wrenching, and you dislike and regret it together?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think you're in love. If you really love him, you will tolerate him and be able to accept all his shortcomings. It's going to be very painful for two people like you, and I think long pain is better than short pain. If you are really entangled and dislike him, then make up your mind to leave him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't love it, break up quickly! Why do girlfriends know so clearly??? Forget it, don't worry about it, it's not your favorite person anyway, you can't give it up just because you're used to it! I can't give up having a cat!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Everyone has many faces, and since you know him, you should also know something about him. Don't just listen to what others have to say, experience it yourself. If he really smokes, drinks and has a bad temper, don't go back!

    Ugliness is not a problem at all, appearance is not the most important thing, the main thing is that this person is not reliable, and can share the tediousness of life with you in the long life in the future. If you have a bad temper, you will not be too happy in your life in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Even if you are so hesitant, then separate for a while to see if you still can't let go of him, and if you still miss him, then be together, otherwise you will break up

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is not sympathy and pity, that is not love, if you can't tell the difference, then don't be together, so it is easy to misunderstand, and you don't understand him to fall in love, love is not a playhouse.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It shows that you don't love him, dislike him, regret it, or just got together, hurry up and break up, it's good for everyone.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How tired are you when you have a problem with your mentality? If you have to be assertive, love is happy, and there is still point in being together in pain.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Time is the best solution to your problem.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, you yourself don't understand whether you really love him, and I personally feel that this is not love either. It's just a kind of good impression of him, really together, what kind of shortcomings? What kind of advantages are in front of you, and you are not willing to accept all this you have, so you regret being together, and regretting not being together.

    People have to learn to grow up slowly, and there are losses and gains. Give up your current life, maybe the future life will not be as good as the present, or maybe the future life will be better. No one can say what will happen in the future, I hope you can make your own decisions and take advantage of your life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You are called long-term love, you have been with your male girlfriend for a long time, and you will subtly care about all his behaviors, in fact, most of your male girlfriends. The characteristics are very similar to you, and you will slowly like him in your mind, and you can't extricate yourself from his feelings, but if your boyfriend is or this ambiguous, the object has no feelings for you, girl, you should withdraw in time, if he has a new girlfriend, you will be very uncomfortable, and your relationship will get worse and worse, if he is a dedicated person, he will. Guarding his girlfriend and not coming with you, if he is not a dedicated person, he hooks up with you ambiguously and is in love with his girlfriend, then do you think such a person is worth associating?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In this tangled situation, you should choose a long pain rather than a short pain, and leave him completely.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Men are not bad and women are not loved. I guess that's where you are. Resolutely separated, indecisive is not able to deal with emotional problems.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, he must have been impulsive. Because impulsiveness will do things that are regrettable. If you think about it and analyze it, you generally won't do anything you regret!

    Well, there is no regret medicine to take in this world! People are impulsive, and they have to bear the consequences of their impulses. Take responsibility for this can't be helped.

    So it's useless to have any psychology, since the decision is made like this, that's it. Then there is another possibility, that is, he decided to make this decision because of that uh, misunderstanding, this is also possible. If it's because of a misunderstanding, then it's useless to think about it, you should find a way to go, and it's okay to wash away this misunderstanding.

    It can be done. After all, there are many misunderstandings that may arise in this society. So it's divided into two situations, if it's a misunderstanding, then if you want to buy it back to school to make up for sleep, if it's not a misunderstanding, then bear the consequences for your choice.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After brushing it off, it is normal to occasionally flash the good things that someone has had and made you happy. You may not regret it, but just miss the moment that made you happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Regret must be something someone owes you and forgot to ask for it! Aside from the relationship, some things are inconvenient to say!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Broke up with someone? If you break up and regret it, it means that you are too impulsive to do things.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you don't want to have contact with people who don't agree with each other, it's not difficult. It's not that you have to break up with them, pretend to be strangers, and if they don't respond to an event, they say that they can't participate if they have something, so after a few times, it will slowly fade away. Keep a certain distance from them, gentlemen's friendship is as light as water, just don't get so close.

    With these people, you just have to stick to your principles, what you can't say, what you can't do, and that's it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Especially the post-80s people, they want to keep in touch more, because there are fewer and fewer people they know in the future, and there are fewer and fewer friends who can move around with each other, and friends can also be divided into several kinds, confidants, mutual support in their careers,,, and they can also go shopping and have a meal when they have nothing to do,,, so I don't know why you want to cut off contact with them so much? Is it because you have something unsightly or do you feel inferior? It's just one of my opinions, don't mind if you say the wrong thing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is nothing that I don't regret later, since I don't want to be with them, I don't contact them at all, and I feel like a stranger when I see them. Cut off all ways and means that can be contacted.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's still too late to break up now, and even when you can break up. Stay away from them and don't care, the voice of chickens and dogs is heard, and the old and dead don't get along, this is the break of friendship.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Regardless of colleagues and classmates, if you get along, you should communicate more and get along sincerely, and if you don't get along, keep your distance. Just be yourself, why bother making yourself nervous, and you haven't done anything to be sorry for others. Everything goes with the flow, don't force everything, don't be too wronged yourself, just have a clear conscience.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There is nothing in the world that you regret or do not regret. If you want to get rid of the relationship, it's still too late.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't be nervous, relax, it's nothing, if you don't want to continue to be friends, just don't contact, if you look for you again, you can say something, just don't go, don't be afraid of what will happen to them, the current society is not what it used to be.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Answer, just slowly distance yourself.

    Although they are elementary school classmates, they have different views, so they can communicate less or not contact, as long as they are assertive and adhere to their own principles, they will not be affected.

    There's no need, as you described, too scared.

    In real life, there are all kinds of people, and you still have to learn to get along.

    Things and likes, people and groups.

    If you can't get along, you can be estranged.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There's nothing I don't regret later, it's just a life relationship and so on, maybe it's because I have too many requirements for others, or people can't understand my own story, all stories are still fate, why take it too seriously?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    As long as you realize it, it's never too late. As long as you have it in your heart, you will resolutely implement it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You just have classmates with them in elementary school, and you haven't done anything at a time, there is nothing to regret, as long as you don't have contact with them in the future, it will slowly not matter, if you meet again or they find you again, you just have to make it clear to them, now I have my own job, I don't have time to be with them once, don't contact them again in the future.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you don't connect with them, they tell you not to go out to play or eat or anything, and soon it doesn't matter, people have feelings, and if you do this, they will soon feel the changes in you, and they will naturally break off.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    From now on, you don't have to have any contact with them, and you don't participate in any activities related to them

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you feel that such a so-called friend really has no intention of continuing to socialize, then you can cut off contact, and it will pass over time.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After all, classmates, I don't know why you hate them. But if you want to completely dissociate yourself from them, you can only keep refusing, or lying, or borrowing money from them.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There is no regret medicine to sell in the world, so there is no need to regret it, the key is now and in the future. If you don't want to contact them now, it means that you are a hesitant person, not a person who is all the way, and you will be completely cut off.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You don't have to worry about these little things. After so many years, everyone's elementary school classmates will become good friends. There will always be changes when people grow up.

    That is, everyone's three views are different. If there is a discrepancy between what is on the outside and what is inside, then there is no need to be friends. I had to cut off their contact.

    So you don't have to worry anymore either.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Friends don't care so much, as long as they get along.

    Just do not agree with the three views, it is superstition, don't care too much.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    People are based on fate, together is gathered, not together is scattered, although it is a classmate relationship, but if it has an impact on your life, it is better to separate, like to gather, all people are with their own like-minded people together better!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Better late than never.

    If your friend is interested, will he look for you next?

    You've done enough.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The Tao is different, and it is not conspiratory.

    Live yourself, everyone else is a passerby.

    There's no need to do anything out of the way. Just forget about others and focus on your own life.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's already heartbroken.

    What is the chance of redemption?

    Neither of you knows how to cherish each other and care about each other

    After falling in love, I only thought about each other's differences, and never thought about her goodness.

    Give it up·· You can't do it anymore.

    It's better to change your temper, or else... The next one is the same.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    For those who have missed something, maybe you don't have to try to keep it, if you are wrong, you are wrong, right and wrong in this world, gains and losses are always five or five odds.

    No matter what choices you make and what path you want to take, you will definitely regret it in the future, because there is always something we want to leave behind and remember everything we have lost.

    It's nothing if you miss it, and a person's life is always gained and never lost.

    If you want to regain what you have lost, you may be able to recover something, and you may be able to get some comfort, but you will not be able to recover what you have lost.

    Too much of what we care about is always unexpected, and it often makes us feel overwhelmed. We can't make what we want to be with us forever.

    There are too many uncertainties in life, and everything is fragile in the face of time, including life, including feelings. So there is the end of the hero, so there is a song that ends and people disperse.

    There are some feelings, which have deteriorated in the past, some people can make us unforgettable, and some things can make us unforgettable for life, but we have all changed, we can't go back, and then we are looking hard, and the rest is just a pity, not everyone will have a result in everything they have paid, and some things always can't see hope, or even don't know if there is a beginning.

    It's okay if you can't make it, and it's okay if you don't see hope. But do you believe in hope? Do you believe that everything will be fine? In any case, we should be grateful for what we have received, and no matter what we have gotten, at least we have experienced it.

    We don't have to be too emotional about people or things that we can't grasp, if you lose it, you lose it, who can guarantee that it should belong to you.

    There are some things that you care about instead of obtaining, the world has changed, unforgettable, dreams, expectations, roads, and some things that you think should be cherished, so what?

    Is it that the things in this world cannot stand the waiting of time?

    I thought I would feel sorry for someone for a long time.

    I thought I really couldn't let go of something, but now what?

    It turns out that starting a new day and learning to forget is as simple as that.

    It turned out that we were all too young back then, and we were always very emotional, and we would always rather keep one thing than let go.

    But it's still grown up, isn't it? Or learn how to live well alone, don't you? It's still going down step by step, isn't it? It's all in the past, isn't it? There are two words called once, isn't it?

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you insist on it, she still says it categorically"Not necessarily"

    That proves that she really doesn't have feelings for you anymore.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Let it go, what's yours is yours, it's not that you can't force it, why bother practicing yourself, you will find better!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    There is no regret medicine in the world. Since many things have been done, there is no way to undo it, so let it be.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's a thing, it's a thing, it's a thing, it's not a thing, you can't force it.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    You are wrong. But the real reason lies on your girlfriend's side. Does she still love you? If I love you. You should do everything you can to get her forgiveness. If she doesn't love you anymore. You should let go of it.

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