How do you respond when a boy calls you out for a drink?

Updated on educate 2024-04-25
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When I was in college, I really encountered such a situation, and my response was: Go.

    One evening, when there was no class in the evening, two nice male friends invited me to dinner and drink. Let's talk about the relationship between these two boys and me, one of them is a senior of our year, I met through participating in the club, he is my minister, because of the same personality, so the relationship is not bad. On the other hand, we are in the same department, and in the same class, but not in the same class, we still attend classes together in big classes, we are in the same club and the same department, and it is also a relationship of personalities, which makes us good friends.

    The reason why these two big boys can become good friends with me is still my main reason, I have been a big grin character since I was a child, refreshing, straightforward speech, so that friends of the opposite sex who come into contact with me, feel that I am different from other girls, and they are more relaxed and less restrained with me, so these two have become good friends with me.

    They called me to dinner and drink that day, and I asked if there was anyone else, and they said no, just the three of us. Then I'm relieved and go straight to them: go. We found a random restaurant, asked for a few dishes, and drank some of them.

    Afterwards, I proudly told my boyfriend about it, but I didn't expect my boyfriend to seriously say that I was not allowed to have a next time. I wondered why, couldn't I drink with my best friends? Boyfriend's made me feel very sorry for him, he said

    You're a girl, or a girl in a long-distance relationship, and you go to drink with two single guys at night, have you considered my feelings, you may be gossiped about by others if you do this.

    I think what my boyfriend said is very right, I really didn't think about this matter, and I also learned a lesson, and if someone calls me to eat and drink in the future, I choose to refuse or bring my family, and I won't agree so heartily.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It depends on the relationship between the boy who asked me out for a drink and himself.

    If it's a boyfriend, you can gladly accept it. You don't need to refuse, unless you're not local or you're forced to work overtime, but you can accept the offer. Because he calls you as his girlfriend, he will call you someone else.

    If it is a classmate or colleague, it depends on the situation. If you don't want to go, you won't go, but you can still go if you want to. But you have to stay sober, and you can't get carried away when you get to the drinking party, after all, there are also classmates and colleagues who cheat you.

    If you have small hair, you can also go. Maybe I have something on my mind and ask you to come out and chat.

    If it's a friend, and there are friends of friends inside, it's recommended not to go. After all, there are fresh faces, and it is inconvenient to go and talk, and if you drink for three rounds, it may cause trouble, so it is best to refuse. You can promise your friends to treat each other alone next time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If your boyfriend tells you that I went to drink, then the fool will reply that the other party is not allowed to go or is not allowed to drink, then you must keep this sentence "If you drink your body, you will lose me, a little fairy." Hearing such words, the boy's heart will also be very soft, and in order not to lose his beloved girlfriend, he will not drink it.

    As the saying goes, it's best not to spoil a woman, and when a couple is dating, girls must learn to be coquettish, because a girl's coquettishness is something that boys can't resist, and a girl's coquettish can help solve 80% of the problem. If you say such things to your boyfriend, the boy will not be able to refuse you because of some unspeakable factors, then he will agree to some of your requests, and he may not drink because of your words, but accompany you at home.

    If the boyfriend says that he went out to drink, then the girl can also reply to him like this "I want to go out to play", if it is night, the boy is very nervous when he sees such words, after all, it is very unsafe for a girl to go out to play, besides, his beautiful and lovely girlfriend, going out alone and being seen by other boys will also be jealous. So at this time, my boyfriend may also stay at home honestly and stop drinking.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, if a boy calls you out for a drink, if you don't want to go, you can politely refuse him, for example, to reply that he is not available today, or is not available now, next time. If you want to go, then you just go back to him, ok.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    How do you respond when a boy calls you out for a drink? If you want to go out, you can tell him, okay, go right away, if you don't want to go, you can tell him, I can't go today, there is something I need to do at home.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Look at what kind of friendship you have with boys.,If you grew up wearing a pair of pants from childhood to adulthood.,Childhood sweetheart.,And you know he's a good person.,If you won't let you suffer, you can go out for a drink or two.,After all, a brother is still very relieved to be around.。 In other words, it's not enough to be anyone, as long as it's a man, you have to refuse me, I don't know my heart, I have to have a sense of precaution.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When a boy calls you to drink, then you must choose to refuse, because if you are called to drink, this boy must have bad intentions. It's better for girls not to go out to drink alone, and girls don't go out to drink, because after you drink, this boy doesn't know what to do to you when you get drunk?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When you are called out for a drink, if this boy you are having a good time, and you are very confident that he will not do anything harmful to you, you can go out with him, and if you feel that you are in danger, you can completely refuse to go out, and you say that I will not drink, and there is something to do tonight.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm definitely not going to go, but I don't react, because I don't drink at all. So how could it be possible? There is also the fact that if this boy is just an ordinary friend with himself, then he should not go.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When a boy calls you out for a drink, you still want to go or not, refuse if you don't go, and agree if you want to go.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When the boy called you out for a drink, I felt that if I met someone I liked, of course I happily agreed to him, if he was ordinary, it was not interesting at this time, and I would go to drink with him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When the boy calls you out for a drink, I'll respond, I'm not free today, next time! I won't go this time!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    How do you respond when a boy calls you out for a drink? If you want to go, you can go with him, and if you don't want to go, you can find some excuses and refuse to go out.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think if you're a girl, it's better to say no, because no matter what your relationship is? If you drink alone, the girl will always suffer, and if you are friends, you should also bring your sisters with you, so that you can take care of it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When a boy asks me to go out for a drink, I first think about what the reason is, and call me out to see what preparations to make, if it's for friends, if it's a good acquaintance, you can go out, but if it's not a very familiar friend, you have to think clearly before making a decision.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When a boy tells me to go out for a drink, then I will choose to refuse, because as a girl, it is better not to go out to drink.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    How do you respond when a boy calls you out for a drink? Generally speaking, if your relationship with him is very iron, I think you will go out, no matter if he is in a bad mood, if you can still be his.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What happens to you when a boy tells you to go out for a drink? Well, I have to see how many people there are, if it was two people alone, I wouldn't go. It's not good to use our chapters, right?

    That's not what many people want, and there are a lot of women of the opposite sex. Girl. If there are girls, you can also go together, but if you.

    If you don't want to go, you must not study, I don't want to go, because of this. It's not good to drink in a bar.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think if you're a girl, you won't go out. After all, drinking is not something that girls should do. But if you're a boy, good friends can also go out for a sitting. But definitely drink a little less.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If this boy is on good terms with me, I'm willing to go with him, but I don't drink myself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's usually a refusal, because sometimes it's seven, nine, nine, five, four.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    How do you react when a boy calls you out for a drink? You have to think that you are still young, you are not an adult, you are not an adult, you are not able to support yourself, why do you go drinking with those children who are not careful? Where to eat?

    Parents' drinking, how undesirable your parents' are, you have to think of this, you have to study hard, this is the right way.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you feel that this boy is very upright, you can get acquainted with him and drink, if you feel that this boy is not particularly upright, if something will happen during the process of drinking, so don't go out, or it depends on how old you are.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    How do you respond when a boy calls you out for a drink? I think when boys tell me to go out for a drink, I go when I want to go, and I go when I don't want to. and rejected him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you are a boy, you can go with him. It is also possible to bring people together. Because he can call you to drink, it proves that he has a good relationship with your friend!

    If you're a girl. It is recommended that you still not go. After all, drinking can make mistakes. It will also be gaffe. to your image. It's going to be bad.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If your boyfriend tells you that he has been drinking, then you have to tell him to drink more water after drinking, and then to rest early, get a good night's sleep, and then wake up tomorrow and be very uncomfortable.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    He likes you, but you repeatedly reject him, making him drink in desperation.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Persuade him not to drink alcohol on important occasions in the future, because after drinking, the brain control is poor, and it is easy to over-emotionally cause unnecessary conflicts.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you like him, tell him, drink less, drink too much, I'll get upset, if you don't have that feeling, tell him, don't drink too much.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Words as a couple: honey, you drank. Pay attention to your body, drink more tea, eliminate alcohol, and accompany me as soon as possible.

    As a better friend of the opposite sex: drink some tea, it can really eliminate alcohol, you have to take care of your body. Don't worry your girlfriend!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's not good for your health to drink less at a young age, so you can forgive it this time, and I won't take it as an example.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    He drank, which means you don't care much if he drinks or not? Tell him that drinking alcohol hurts his body, and that he should drink less or not at all.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    He may mean that he can't accompany you or can't reply to your messages in time, then you will have a good rest.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you have a car, it's best to find a substitute driver. So as not to cause unnecessary trouble due to violations.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You have to tell him that drinking less alcohol is not good for his health, and that he should drink more water after drinking so that his head will not hurt.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Then you reply to him, how much have you drunk, and get home and rest quickly

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Let him drink plenty of water, pay attention to rest, or you go and see him.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Summary. The reply is as follows: 1. Drink less, it's normal to fall in life, self-blame will only increase the pain, complaining will only increase the burden, sadness will only destroy self-confidence, and helplessness will only add to depression.

    Why not pat the dust off your body, stand up bravely, and meet the challenges of tomorrow! 2. Forget all the unsatisfactory in life! Sadness and troubles do not belong to you, break free from the past, try to get yourself out, the past is just the accumulation of life, the present is the most important, please grasp the present, enjoy the present, not drunk.

    3. It is rare to get drunk a few times in life, everyone is drunk if you are not drunk, and you must be happy in life.

    The boy offered to tell me how he replied when he drank.

    The man said that he was drinking, he just wanted to get your attention, then at this time you can him: pay attention to safety, don't drive after drinking, remember to call a substitute driver, what can I help, you just ask, get home, tell me to let me know that you are safe. In fact, a man is like a child in front of the person he likes, wanting to be valued, wanting to be loved, and wanting to be cared for.

    The reply is as follows: 1. Drink less, it's normal to fall in life, self-blame will only increase the pain, complaining will only increase the burden, sadness will only destroy self-confidence, and helplessness will only add to depression. Why not pat the dust off your body, stand up bravely, and meet the challenges of tomorrow!

    2. Forget all the unsatisfactory in life! Sadness and troubles do not belong to you, break free from the past, try to get yourself out, the past is just the accumulation of life, the present is the most important, please grasp the present, enjoy the present, not drunk. 3. It is rare to get drunk a few times in life, everyone is drunk if you are not drunk, and you must be happy in life.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If it's a good friend (very good, very good), you can go, but you can't drink too much, after all, the other party is a man. If it's a netizen, don't go. If you go, bring a strong male friend (who you can trust). In case something happens, I can help you.

    Ignore him, this kind of person, don't blame it, just ignore it, otherwise you will come and go, and you won't be able to get rid of it.

    If you want, you can.

    If you don't want to, you can choose to be euphemistic.

    It can be said that it has been busy lately, so let's take a while.

    Explain that he likes you, translated into Chinese is walking in my dream of missing you, if you don't want him, then you will say thank you, if you are interesting to him, you will say, me too girl, if you feel embarrassed to refuse, just say i don't know how to say about this ,tank you

    He naturally has a good impression of you.

    If you like him too, it's better to go with the flow and say that he is the same for you, so that you can also clarify your relationship.

    If you don't have a crush on him, then you can reject him directly, lest she have illusions about your frank relationship, so to speak, I think you will be wrong, I am just an ordinary person.

    That is to say, you have a good temper, on the one hand, you are gentle with others, and you will not get angry easily, on the other hand, you can maintain a calm mind when others repeatedly disturb and provoke, do not care, easily do not get angry, and are lenient and do not care. Sun Xinxin.

    It feels comfortable and respected.

    Of course, there is a bottom line when I say that I have a good temper, not an unprincipled good temper, and an unprincipled one is called being obedient.

    You said. Hahaha.

    It's harder for me and the smoking one to quit.

    It's harder for me and the lazy one to quit.

    If you're not sure, tell him to be friends first. After a long time of contact, you will get to know each other and see if he can be your dependence.

    Beg. It's normal, it's a problem that most men have. The point is that the tone of the word "general" should be strengthened, and it depends on his understanding.

    Lai, just say, don't take the cold salad is not a dish, you let me cold salad show that I am your dish, in fact, it depends on his usual attitude towards you, if he has a good personality, if he is just the kind of person who plays, don't rely on it, we are good girls, and I am afraid that there will be no radish? Sad sister's shoulder to lend you to lean, I liked a boy at the beginning, but my good sister also liked him, he looked at us and pinched, I am not without a suitor, do I have to want him, such a man, don't do it, but this is just my personal experience, I just want to say, follow the idea in your heart, who is young and not crazy, don't let yourself regret it.

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