Would you accept a boy who is shorter than you as a boyfriend?

It can be said that I don't have many hard requirements for my boyfriend, in fact, there are only three, the first one is good to me, the second is taller than me, and the third is that the age must be older than me, and I will not change these three rigid requirements.

How so? If a boy wants to pursue me, he must first pass the test in appearance, because I think girls are a little vanity, and everyone wants the boyfriend to be praised by the people around him, if it is shorter than me, maybe others will think that I took a younger brother out. In fact, I don't say this to discriminate against boys who grow shorter, because this is a congenital condition, and a large part of it is inherited from parents, and we can't blame anyone.

It's not that I haven't dated a shorter boy, but it's not exaggerated to be shorter than me, at that time I was about 160cm in my junior year of high school, and my ex-boyfriend was shorter, about 161-162, not much taller than me, and I was about 3-4cm taller than me in a sneaker. In the past, in school, there were a lot of opposition voices from around me, and my friends around me persuaded me that you are not like a boyfriend or girlfriend at all, and they asked me if you don't want to find a boyfriend who is tall and can give you a sense of security, and there is a voice in my heart, I really want to, but I really like this boy, love is greater than all external conditions, so we still filmed for a long time.

Later, as I grew up, I felt that I had to set such a hard condition. So now I'm not going to accept being shorter than me. But just because I don't like it doesn't mean that everyone doesn't like it.

You see, Li Yanan and Wang Zulan are good examples, even if they are short, green vegetables and radishes have their own love, some people don't like to be shorter than themselves, but there are many people who like this, so their happy life shows that when love really comes, it may break all your rules and regulations and those unwritten rules. Maybe in the future, there will be someone who will break my current hard and fast rules, after all, who knows what will happen in the future?

If it weren't for falling in love with my current boyfriend before I realized the height problem, I think I would have minded a boy who was shorter than me.

My boyfriend and I are about the same height, but we were fresh graduates from high school when we were together, and we didn't think about anything other than liking each other. It wasn't until I slowly matured and paid attention to these conditions that I realized my boyfriend's height problem.

But I love it, and I still want to continue to love deeply, so I don't bother to pursue it.

If I had to choose again, I wouldn't choose to find a short boyfriend.

First of all, a short boyfriend, it's embarrassing to take it out. You will find that you are very incompatible with each other as a whole, and the two of you stand together and don't pinch each other. You can't wear high heels yet, and the height difference is even weirder if you wear high heels.

Secondly, the short boyfriend has a hard time getting past his parents. For me and my boyfriend, because of the height problem, my boyfriend has not been fully accepted by my mother, every time I talk to my mother about my boyfriend, my mother will frown when she thinks of his height, persuade me to think about it again, and tell me that height will affect the genes of the next generation, and I am afraid that even children will not grow taller in the future.

Finally, the short boyfriend is visually insecure. Every girl wants to be protected and wants to feel safe, and the most intuitive feeling of this sense of security is the height of her boyfriend. We often describe some boys as "walking hormones", and none of them can get this description without a height advantage.

So, with these three things in mind, I wouldn't want to accept a guy who is shorter than me as a boyfriend.

I don't really accept a boy who is shorter than me as a boyfriend, but there doesn't seem to be a boy who is shorter than me, I think I'm quite short, I'm only 1.6 meters, if my boyfriend is shorter than me, I think it's unimaginable. I guess for a lot of girls, it's unacceptable to be a very short boy.

My roommate is the same, one of my roommates is one meter seven tall, for girls, it's already quite tall, I don't know why, she is particularly attracted to a boy who is one meter seven, there are all kinds of models, but even if she sees her, she won't agree to be together, because of the size, there is one she really likes to try, but because of the size, she gave up several times, especially tangled. And then my other roommate who already has a partner is the same, she is 1.65 meters, her object should be about 1.7 meters, just a little taller than her, even if they are already together, this roommate of mine is still sighing, and is still struggling with the size of her boyfriend. Then my other roommate is also the same height as me, and I have a boyfriend who is 1.9 meters, and my other roommates all say that she is a violent thing, and a 1.6 meter is looking for a 1.9 meter 9, so what should I do if I am 1.7 meters?

And this roommate of mine is particularly proud, which can be seen that the general girls still have a natural liking for tall boys, and they are not unacceptable for short boys, but it will reduce the favorability.

So tall boys will have an advantage, small boys may discourage some girls Even if you are very talented, most girls will generally reduce their favorability for short boys, if there are tall boys and short boys pursuing at the same time, there is no doubt that they will choose short, but if it is true love, you should not mind this factor.

Height is one of the first things a girl will consider when she has a boyfriend. When your friends find out that you have a boyfriend, they will ask you, "How tall is he?" What does it look like?

A lot of people will be concerned about height. Girls like to grow tall when they have a boyfriend because they have a sense of visual security, and a tall figure represents a strong and powerful physique.

With a tall figure, girls will have the feeling of being a bird, and there is a feeling of being protected and cherished. If the boyfriend is shorter than the girl, the girl is next to the Roc to spread his wings, and the boyfriend is in the bird. Such a height gap will also affect the emotional direction of two people, and girls will not get a sense of security and dependence, and eventually there will be a crack in the relationship.

If the boyfriend is shorter than herself, the girl will also have an uncomfortable feeling when she takes him out to meet her friends. When you take your boyfriend who is shorter than you to meet friends or participate in some social activities, you may be looked at strangely by others. Some people will talk about her behind her back, "Her boyfriend is so short!"

The two of them don't match the height. "She's not a good match, why should they be together? ”。

The girl will be under pressure at this time, and her boyfriend will feel embarrassed to lose face. The boyfriend will be angry about these remarks, and it is naturally very good if two people can look at this problem calmly, and they can communicate with each other to express their inner thoughts and propose good solutions, so that the relationship can still develop. If your boyfriend has been minding this matter, after all, the objective fact that your height is there cannot be ignored, which will cause conflicts between the two people, and misunderstandings will follow, which will affect the feelings of the two people.

Most girls simply don't look for a boyfriend who is shorter than themselves in the first place, so that they can avoid this kind of relationship problem and don't have to be pointed at by others. Isn't it good to live happily, why do you want to find a boyfriend who is shorter than yourself to make yourself more troubled.

The basis of marriage is that the two are happy with each other, the two hearts are hungry and love, not the tall and ugly people, as long as the hearth is eye-catching, the beautiful Yinchong girl will also accept a boy who is shorter than herself. Pay attention to the beings in the world, and we will find many such things.

As long as the two are passionate and happy, the relationship is deep, and the boy is good enough, even if he is shorter, he can be a boyfriend. Of course, the key lies in his own Ming Xunwei, if you have confidence in boys, it is a problem to be tall and not good.

I think it's acceptable for a girl to be able to take a boy who is shorter than her self-esteem as a boyfriend. If you're a girl, if you like this boy, his certainty is no longer a disadvantage, at least for Yu Sakura, this boy must have advantages.

What can be blind, in reality, there is also a configuration that does not take high and young, women are high and men are low, which doesn't mean anything, boys have talent to slow down, girls really fall in love with this boy, then girls will lower their conditions and agree to be boys' girlfriends and wives.

Hello, it's certainly acceptable. In reality, there are many boys who have to be short for their girlfriends and their old partners. Of course, everyone has their own preferences, and it doesn't mean that everyone is like that.

This question depends on the individual, if the girl likes the boy's thoughtful talent or net worth, then height is not so important at this time.

If two people really love each other, they don't care about each other's height, which is not the most important thing.

It's acceptable, because the selection of the object is based on the consideration of comprehensive conditions, so there will be! There are all sorts of situations.

The two of you are more accepting of each other than yourself, and you can be the other half of each other, because you have strengths and weaknesses that is all about loving one.

See if it's true love, see if this boy has the strength, many boys in life are shorter than girls, Wang Zulan and his wife.

I think very few girls can accept this, because it feels very incongruous, and there are very few of them.

This is certainly possible. As long as they like each other, height and appearance are not necessary.

If the girl loves the boy enough, she will be able to accept the boy who is shorter than her.

Some girls are more acceptable than their own boys, but there are fewer such girls.

If the boy is very good, height is not a problem in the end.

A: As long as you can accept it.

Yes, as long as he loves you enough.

Yes, look at Wang Zulan and his wife.

In real life, almost no girl will find a boyfriend who is shorter than her height. For girls, girls will attach great importance to the issue of security, because many girls themselves are insecure, so they want to rely on the other half. If the boy is shorter than herself, many girls will feel that the boy can't provide them with a sense of security, so they will be more concerned about this problem.

Second, the height problem cannot be absolute.

Although girls attach great importance to the issue of height, the issue of height is not everything, and when a boy can provide a girl with an advantage and a sense of security in other aspects, girls do not really care about the height of the boy. To some extent, a person's height is a congenital problem, and we have no way to overcome our own congenital problems, so we don't always need to use our height to talk about things, and there is no need to use height to make excuses.

3. Boys can provide value to girls in addition to their height.

This value is mainly emotional value, if a boy is taller than a boy, the boy needs to be more stable in doing things, and at the same time need to reflect a certain personality charm. Girls don't really look at the guy's appearance, and when a guy is attractive in other ways, the girl will like the guy too. For boys, the issue of height is indeed very important, but the issue of height is not the whole of feelings.

What does it mean that girls don't mind their boyfriend's height"? It's just that a boy who wants to be with a girl is not only taller than himself if he is not short, but also has his own charm. If boys are too short because they don't have self-confidence, then girls can choose those who are short.

1.Height is a kind of capital.

A boy's height is a very important part of a girl, and having a guy with high emotional intelligence will make the girl feel a lot more intimate and will like her boy more. Of course, this advantage is not too much but too little. There is a saying that it is better to say that it is better to do it well.

So when a guy says he's too short, the girl gets angry. And being tall or not short is a kind of capital.

2.He can give you a sense of security.

Guys with low height don't have self-confidence, so when looking for a partner, they may find a boyfriend who is shorter. Because short boyfriends are more confident, they have more capital to play with friends. Therefore, girls will also be more willing to find a shorter boy.

Of course, many shorter boys will be more awkward to get along with girls. Therefore, girls should also consider this issue when choosing a boyfriend.

3.See the good in you.

There is a joke on the Internet that the biggest characteristic of a boy is that he is not handsome but good-looking. Of course, being good-looking is also an advantage. So if you want to find a guy who is not short in height but has other advantages, then you have to choose one with his own strengths.

Know that everyone is unique.

4.In him, you will see self-confidence.

Many short boys will have low self-esteem, thinking that their height is not confident enough at all, so they will not be confident. It may not be because he is short enough to have enough self-confidence to face his other half! So when his height is not tall enough compared to himself?

5.can make you feel more secure.

Everyone has a sense of security, and people who are insecure are like a house without security. When a man has a sense of security, he can feel at ease in this world and will not be affected by the problem of height. At the same time, it will also enhance your sense of security, isn't this kind of relationship sweet?

In fact, everyone's height is different, and everyone has their own pursuits!

6.on him.

I'm sure most girls like tall guys. So if your boyfriend isn't tall but attractive, you'll love it. Short men tend to be less confident in terms of self-confidence.

So for short people, being short can make people feel a sense of superiority. Many people feel that they will not suffer if they are not tall in real life. In fact, when a girl chooses a partner, she depends on his attitude towards herself.

It also depends on whether he loves you or not!

7.to give you the feeling.

The height problem is a problem that many girls are more concerned about, but if they really want to be with you, it is not impossible to affect you, so this is a very important reason. For a guy, if you think you.