How did the post 90s generation go home for the New Year?

As a post-90s college student. I usually choose to go home during the winter break. I would buy a train ticket home a month in advance and take the train home for the Chinese New Year.

And the train tickets for that time period are discounted, which is very affordable. When I get home, I spend a lot of time with my parents.

As a post-95 contemporary college student, of course, I looked at the air tickets on various ** on a month or two in advance**, and immediately started decisively as soon as the price was reduced, and then waited for the holiday. However, many times the price reduction of air tickets is not very large, so if I can stand it, I will probably choose the train this year, and enjoy the scenery along the way hahaha!

The way for the post-90s to go home for the New Year is to take a plane or high-speed rail with good conditions, and take a train with average conditions, and buy a ticket in advance no matter what you take, otherwise you will not be able to go home. Bring something to your parents, grandparents, relatives and friends before you go home, although now that people are living well, the average family lacks nothing, but this is a way to express their concern, even if the old people say they don't care, but when they see what you buy, the smile on their faces will always be bright. When you go home, you can spend more time with your parents, because the time you can spend with them is not a few days a year, and don't wait until they are gone to regret it, so cherishing the time with your parents is the most important thing in the year.

You can go back how you want, and how you want to go back, you choose by yourself, but for the post-90s, many of them are single, and they are probably not willing to go back to face the seven aunts and eight aunts, and they ask if they have a boyfriend or girlfriend, or marriage. No matter how rich you are, it's good to go home for the New Year, go home to see your parents, and go home often.

I am also a person born in the 90s, and I am still a student now, and going home for the New Year is about the same as winter vacation.

I went home early, the tickets were easy to buy and discounted, and the big bags and small packages were full of clothes. It's not far from home, so I always choose to take a bus, because it's the rush hour for college students to go home, in fact, it's not easy to grab a bullet ticket.

When I go home, I usually don't go empty-handed, and I buy some souvenirs to bring to my mother, but my mother often complains about not spending her money. I think the same way myself, if I don't make money and go home, I won't have the face to go home for the New Year.

As a single post-90s generation, it is inevitable to be urged to marry when I go home for the New Year, and in order to escape the clutches of the seven aunts and eight aunts, I often go out to party with my friends and do not talk to them about my plans.

Sometimes I deliberately delay going home, and I hurry back to work after the New Year.

After 90, it is relatively simple for me to go back to my own home, my parents have everything, and I buy everything I want, so I mostly go home empty-handed, because it is not convenient to take the car, I have to transfer the car several times, and I can't take away the things, but when I go to the man's house, I have to buy everything, drag the big box back, his house is farther than my house, so I don't want to go to his house at all.

As a post-90s generation, how should I get along with the elders at home when I go home for the Chinese New Year?

As a post-90s generation, first of all, for parents, there will not be too many material needs, in fact, what they want is a stability, in fact, now that they have a certain ability, their parents hope that you can still show dependence on him, so that he can feel that he is still useful to you, rather than old and useless.

So, during the Chinese New Year, take more time to spend with your parents, seek their advice on big and small things, even if you have already decided what to do, ask their opinions more often, and let them feel that their experience and experience seem to be useful to you.

When are you going to get married? When do you plan to have a baby? Do you want to have a second child?

Faced with these questions, do you feel a little embarrassed that you can't give a satisfactory answer? Well, I'm more embarrassed. As a veteran single, I wasn't even qualified for certain questions.

After these questions, they are often educated. And some of the ideas of the elders are sometimes not acceptable to us.

So, what to do? I have a few observations: First, discern the original intention of the questioner.

If it is out of concern, then take Hu Chang to answer with more sincerity, and you can also appropriately elicit some of your own thoughts. If it's out of the psychology of reading jokes or even finding faults, then just give a short answer. But if he doesn't go too far, let him go!

In case of anger, it is recommended to say silently in your heart: "New Year's Day." "Of course, if his pants are rotten and he has no regard for his relatives, he can fight back.

But remember, don't explode into foul language. If you feel embarrassed or embarrassed, it is recommended that you think about the situation of the respondent. Second, understand more about why elders have this kind of thinking.

The elders grew up in a very different environment and life experience than we did. Therefore, when you hear some ideas that we can't accept, it's best not to rush to refute them, let alone scoff at them. In fact, sometimes when you calm down and think about it carefully, some of the words of the elders still have some truth.

However, if you find out from the words of the elders that he may have been cheated, it is recommended to make a reminder. Thirdly, the elders love the industrious little bees. I can help with tea and water, wipe the table and sweep the floor, or go to the kitchen to help.

Of course, this should have been done, but there was an opportunity to avoid some embarrassment by the way. By the way, if you are too prominent, it is easy to attract attention. It's up to you whether you want to control it or not.

Fourth, you can first understand the preferences and recent trends of a certain elder, and then talk about it. It's best to talk until he can't remember what to ask you. Be careful, please have water ready.

Also, if you're not good at chatting, it's best not to try it easily.

If a person lives a lifetime, even if he lives a flower, it is nothing more than family harmony and a virtuous wife.

As a post-90s generation, when I went home during the Year of Jianzhi, I sat with my elders and played poker or mahjong together. And they will also sit and chat with the elders, and the elders will also eliminate these post-90s introduction objects.

When you go home for the Chinese New Year, you must be patient with the elders at home, and your attitude towards problems must be sincere.

When you go home for the New Year, you should live in peace with your elders, know how to greet politely, and it is best to bring a little gift, so as to express your filial piety.

If you have money or not, no matter how far away from home you have to go home for the New Year, and if you don't dare to go home for the New Year because you haven't found a home, this makes your elderly parents feel embarrassed to see other people's families reunited and lively and lonely at home. Although you will be nagged by your parents when you get home, and you may even force yourself to go out on a blind date, it is precisely because of this that you can feel the warmth of the family, rather than being alone and watching your colleagues go home happily for the New Year, you will inevitably feel sour in your heart.

In fact, no matter whether the other half accompanies them, there are elderly parents waiting for them at home, and they can be willful and relaxed when they return home. If you don't have time to go home, you should also make it clear to your parents that it's because of work and not because you're not looking for a partner to avoid them.

Should1; If you have money or not, go home for the New Year.

2；The current post-90s generation is generally like this, so don't care.

3；In any case, after a hard year, it can be regarded as giving yourself a break and going home to accompany your parents.

Yes, it's good to face the phenomenon of big family urging marriage during the New Year, and the New Year still has to be passed, and you have to go home to accompany your parents during the holidays, don't force yourself because of these external pressures.

You should go home for the New Year, the New Year should be reunited, you can't go home because you can't find a home, don't care about other people's eyes, rest assured, your parents won't say anything about you.

Of course, you should go home for the New Year, the post-90s people are about to reach the age of marriage, and if you don't take advantage of these years to go home to accompany your parents for the New Year, there will be no time in a few years.

That's right, what's wrong with no home, what's wrong with no object, do you still need a reason to go back to your home? When is there a standard for returning home? Be all abroad.

Why shouldn't you go home for the New Year? You are only born in the 90s, you have a lot of reasons not to get married or fall in love, because you are still young, you can continue your studies, you can be busy with work, start a business, and marriage should not be a reason for you to be afraid to go home.

Because it is not interesting to go home for the New Year, the New Year is becoming more and more devoid of New Year's flavor, and it slowly begins to deteriorate. The purpose of going home is no longer to be reunited, not for that new clothes, not for that good meal.

In the past, I was very happy for the New Year, with new clothes to wear, meat to eat, and New Year's money. Some of his little friends' parents also came back from afar and brought him a lot of good things. At that time, I was very happy, and I only had happiness in my heart.

It's different now, but when we can eat meat as much as we want, when we can eat whatever it tastes good. We don't like to eat anymore, it turns out that all we are pursuing is those pleasures, and we are satisfied after our wishes are fulfilled.

And there are a lot of worries that make you feel reluctant to go home for the New Year. As soon as you get home, there will be a lot of people asking you what you are asking, and you don't know why they are asking you, and you don't want to answer. They don't seem to know what privacy is, and they can't wait to take a look at you.

You just want to escape from this place, escape from those problems, maybe you come back just to be reunited and see your parents and elders. But when you go home, you find that you can only be surrounded by trivial things, and you can only be surrounded by them until you solve them.

Because for our post-90s, the outside world is more exciting, compared to the peace at home, we prefer to go out for the New Year is just one of the 24 solar terms for us, although there is a New Year's reunion, but it can't stop our yearning for the outside world, so the New Year is not so important in our 90s. So most of the post-90s generation don't go home for the New Year.

The most feared should be those who don't go to school and have a job but haven't gotten married, those seven aunts and eight aunts ask if they have a partner, and when they are ready to get married, etc., these are also the things that we post-90s are most afraid of. These are some very annoying things, for their own purity, most of the post-90s do not want to go home for the New Year.

And now some of the post-90s have their own ideas, and some of them have started their own entrepreneurial paths, because they are afraid to go home and ask that, so most of them are reluctant to go home during the Chinese New Year.

This benevolent brother can recommend you, read more headlines every day, pay more attention to the news every day, and you will understand whether the post-90s generation wants to go home for the New Year, or is it okay if they don't want to go home for the New Year?

Even if your news is closed, you should know that the news that came out some time ago said that the 90-year-old young people, even if they don't want the year-end bonus, have to resign and go home early, so that they can accompany their parents.

You said that you don't want to go home for the New Year in the 90s, brother, are you born in the 90s, don't you want to go home to accompany your parents?

What is the festival that we Chinese attach the most importance to? That, of course, is the New Year.

Ten years ago, when transportation was not very developed, people would crowd the train, and some even bought station tickets, and just squeezed twenty or thirty hours home.

How good the traffic is now, many people have cars, and plane tickets are cheaper, bullet trains, high-speed rail, and you can go anywhere you want.

Do you say that there is still anyone who is not willing to go home on this reunion day, don't they go home and stay in the factory and watch the deserted city for the New Year?

Now the oldest post-90s is 28 years old, and the youngest post-90s is 18 years old. So we can divide the post-90s into two stages, one stage is to have entered social work, and the other stage is to go to college, for the latter stage of people, they do not want to go home for the New Year, like us who are going to college in the 90s, there is no place to go if you don't go home for the New Year, and your parents will not allow you not to go home for the New Year.

For those who have entered the social work of the post-90s, they may not be reluctant to go home for the New Year, but want to take advantage of the New Year to earn another amount of money, some companies have overtime during the New Year, if you choose to work overtime, then the salary will be higher than usual, and many people may choose to continue to work for this overtime pay.

Basically, such people are workers, and their family conditions are relatively poor, so they can earn a little more.

There is also a possibility, that is, because the oldest post-90s generation is now 28 years old, if he doesn't have a girlfriend, he will be forced to get married on a blind date when he goes home.