Why are the post 80s and post 90s reluctant to go home for the New Year?

I haven't realized the importance of home, but the post-80s generation has already realized it.

Parents don't want to listen to the nagging, and there are marriage issues, these are all topics that the post-90s generation doesn't want to hear.

When I go home for the New Year, I can't be happy.

Then tell me why.

A lot of post-90s don't want to go home, I think there are two reasons, the first point is that there is a problem about love, in fact, many of the post-90s are basically about to start a family or have already started a family, many single post-90s are afraid of being greeted by their seven aunts and eight aunts during the New Year, and it is actually very embarrassing to face such a thing, so they don't want to go home. Another reason is that many post-90s generations are just starting out because they are unemployed and working, and they have no savings, and they will feel sorry for their parents when they return home. In fact, in my opinion, the meaning of our New Year is to reunite with our families, our parents are the most important, in fact, although they have great expectations for you, but the most important thing is your health and safety, so don't hold back and go home quickly.

Chinese New Year means that you are one year older, and when you think about this year, you will ask yourself what you have done this year? The most afraid is to go home for the New Year, I think this is what most young people think, originally going home for the New Year for the reunion, I am afraid that going back means that relatives and friends ask things and ask the West. I'm afraid to ask embarrassing questions.

When I go home for the Chinese New Year, the most afraid question to ask is, of course, whether I am married, whether I have found a partner, how about my work, and how much money I make? This is basically a relatively common question, but what I am most afraid of asking is whether I have found a partner, because on this issue, the thinking of the older generation is different from that of our young people, and there will be a big generation gap.

Of course, I'm most afraid of asking a question, that is, how much money is made, because my job is not very good, and making money is not too much, so it will be enough for me to live, but I don't want to ask my family because, well, do you think your parents are also old after all? It's not easy for them to save money, young people like us can only rely on their own hard work to make money, can't gnaw the old, suddenly feel very unfilial, and they can't go to their hearts, so we must rely on their own hard work to make money, although they are not doing well, but as long as they try to believe in themselves, they will definitely be very good in the future.

Chinese New Year, as soon as they ask this question, they can only smile, and then say not much, but they can't say very little, because parents also have face, and if they say very little, they always feel very embarrassed, so they must rely on their own efforts, and they can find a better job to honor their parents in the future, and they will have more face when they are asked such questions when they go home for the New Year.

Therefore, we must work hard for young people now, and there are students who have not yet entered the society, you must also study hard, and you will definitely thank yourself for your efforts in the future. Otherwise, in the future, I will be scolded by many people, and I don't want to go in my heart, it's just a very unfilial behavior.

In fact, it's not terrible for family members to ask anything, what is terrible is that they often ask what you want most but don't do, and you always feel that you have uncovered your scars, so you are afraid. Even if they had made a lot of preparations before, when they asked, there was still a sense of helplessness. Imagine when we were children, our favorite is the New Year, parents just ask about grades, in front of a lot of snacks and red envelopes, those are not enough to worry about, when we were children, we were carefree, even if we were sad, just quarrel for a while.

But as we grow up, we become calculating, and a small thing is like a butterfly effect, and it is difficult to calm down.

In fact, everyone has questions that they are afraid of others asking them embarrassingly and do not want to answer, and they can't avoid them? How do you effectively answer embarrassing questions to yourself? Then use your brain to answer humor rather than grace, I think most of them have their own way of answering, and here I wish you all a happy new year!

How can you still say this? The post-90s generation should have their own reasons for not daring to go home for the New Year, in fact, I am a post-90s person, and I can naturally understand that we post-90s dare not go home. It should include these aspects, first, most of the post-90s generation should have participated in the work and already have their own income, but the income may be too low to be able to buy a car or a house.

They feel that they are not good at mixing, and they have no face to go home for the New Year. The second reason is that the family, especially the seven aunts and eight aunts, always ask themselves at home if they have found a partner, whether they are married or something, ask east and west, ask this and that. In fact, it doesn't matter if you're in love or married.

All this has its own opinions and choices. I always ask, who is not annoyed? Besides, what's the use of asking.

Lunar New Year as an annual event for Chinese should have been a family reunion, happy and peaceful atmosphere, but for the 90s later said that the New Year is more like the New Year, with the large-scale entry of this generation of young people into the city and the improvement of education, coupled with the influence of open and free thinking, so the marriage is generally late, so the New Year will basically face the "greetings" of neighbors and relatives, boyfriend and girlfriend, house and car are their topics! And at the end of each year, Chinese people will visit each other, compared with the usual communication and contact more frequent, more people naturally have more news, gossip is naturally essential, young people become the object of pickpocketing! On the one hand, the reason is due to the mentality of competition between parents and children, and on the other hand, it is also due to the psychology of curiosity!

Chinese parents or children have a kind of anxiety, children are worried about going home to be urged to marry, to be compared, worried about being laughed at when they go home for nothing, and parents want their children to start a family, there is an intergenerational contradiction in itself! In addition, with the improvement of living conditions and the rapid development of society, young people are no longer very sensitive to the New Year, and now everyone generally has a "New Year's flavor is getting weaker and weaker" atmosphere, and it is understandable to feel that the New Year is not over, and it is no longer a necessity to go home for the New Year naturally in the hearts of young people!

One of the reasons why the post-90s generation did not dare to go home was that they had just experienced the ordeal of the year-end bonus exam, and they also had to experience the intellectual torture of their seven aunts and eight aunts, which was more difficult than the scriptures of the Eastern Tang Dynasty! Therefore, this is a very important reason why many people in the post-90s are reluctant to go back.

When I go back, I will ask, what is your year-end bonus this year? How much more is it than your salary? Are you satisfied with your current job?

If you are satisfied, have you bought a house? I haven't bought a house, so are you looking for a girlfriend? didn't find a girlfriend, you get such a little salary, it's not as good as who in my family!

Listen to it, say a thousand things and ten thousand, it will always turn to yourself, just to show the excellence of your children, you 666! Okay, I'm not going home, see what you guys ask?

There will be too many worries to go home for the Chinese New Year now! The third aunt and the eighth aunt will ask you how you are doing this year every Chinese New Year! How much money do you make, have you found a daughter-in-law!

It's a similar topic almost every year! This is too much of a blow for us single dogs! That's why we don't want to go home for the New Year after the 90s!

If you have money or no money to go home for the New Year, the song is sung like this, but the reality is that you are afraid to go home. For the post-90s, they are afraid of urging marriage, as well as unaffordable human consumption and the hardships of the journey.

It's time for the New Year again, it can be said that there are many post-90s who dare not go home for the New Year, and it is one of the post-90s who does not want to go home for the New Year, why do they say they don't want to go home for the New Year? I was born in '93, I'm 26 now, I've been working for five years, and I'm still single.

In the past two years, I can say that every time I come home, I always ask how I am, have the major life events been solved? What I want to say is how do I solve it, I am tired from work every day, and I basically stay up until 12 o'clock at night to work overtime. It's not all men, there are a few women, and they're all aunts, how to find a partner, of course, others have introduced me to it, but there is never a suitable one, it can be said that every time I come home, I am always urged, why don't you find a partner, you look at the neighbor's children are four or five years old, you say you are not in a hurry.

I really don't dare to go home for the New Year, this is when my relatives come to our house, or when I go to my relatives' house, I always ask me how I am, are you looking for a partner? How's the work? What is the annual salary?

You said that my job is okay, and the annual salary is tens of thousands of people, and I started to say, why are you so bad, who gets hundreds of thousands of dollars in annual salary, I really have no place to be ashamed, I want to get into a mouse hole. In the face of such a family, I really don't dare to go home for the New Year.

It has become a phenomenon that young people are increasingly afraid to go home for the New Year.

Even grabbed tickets and squeezed the Spring Festival, and many people are still terribly afraid of the Spring Festival.

Going home for the New Year is definitely an annual test.

The Chinese New Year is a great psychological devastation.

I am most afraid of the sudden silence of the air, and I am most afraid of the sudden concern of relatives.

A group of seven aunts and eight aunts, who don't usually have much contact, came out of ** out of nowhere, chattering around you, and caring about you "meticulously".

Looking for a partner? ”

The object is **? What are you doing now? ”

How's the work? Makes a lot of money in a year, right? ”

Obviously, 10,000 sentences of "It's about your" are about to erupt in my heart, and on the surface, I have to smile lightly and carefully answer the topic of the elders, otherwise I should be said to be "impolite and uneducated".

Well, the boring chit-chat is finally over, and it's time to eat.

Toasting the elders is another sad hurdle.

I don't know what I'm talking about, and I'm always trying my best to cater to it, just so as not to ruin everyone's interest.

Be pretending to be more pretending to be more pretending to be more pretending. You can't even eat in peace.

Do you think that's all there is to it?

Have you asked a relative's bear child?

All kinds of pestering you, all kinds of vexatious trouble, splashing and rolling, you can't lose your temper yet.

These bear children like to ask you for a mobile phone to play, you don't give it to you, you don't give it to others, they will say: "Isn't it just a mobile phone." It's okay to play with the kids. "Well, the phone suffered, and the mood suffered.

In short, it's the heart of the capital that is tired.

More and more post-90s generations are afraid to go home for the Chinese New Year.

There are mainly the following aspects, first of all, I am afraid of urging marriage, and when it comes to the New Year, the seven aunts and eight aunts come to visit, the first topic is that you are married, do you have no object, when will you bring the object back home to see, and so on, for some young people who do not have the idea of an object, it is really head-catching.

My second aspect is afraid of spending money, now the New Year, although the taste of the New Year is getting weaker and weaker, but the money spent is more and more, many young people complained that a year, their own months of salary have been spent, because the need to buy New Year's goods, new clothes, etc. are very expensive,

I am a post-90s generation, although I am still looking forward to going home for the New Year, but there are indeed some classmates or colleagues around me who are resistant to going home for the New Year.

First of all, one reason is that it is really annoying to go home for the New Year now, because after returning home, you may be nagged by your parents because you are not married or your career is not very good, and then urge you to get married. Take myself as an example, although I am not particularly old now, but my parents have begun to urge marriage, and my older brothers and sisters are even more annoyed by urging, and every time I go home for the New Year, I will be chased by seven aunts and eight aunts to ask if there is a partner, which is really annoying.

Also, although it is now the New Year, people are on vacation, but for some people in the workplace, the New Year is not a holiday or there is a lot of work to do, especially now that some companies can not lack people during the New Year, he will offer a high price for you to go to work during the holiday, and some people feel that it is better to earn more money by going home for the New Year.

Hehe, there are more and more people who are afraid of returning, and there are several reasons. First of all, I am afraid that I will be urged to marry when I go back, and I will be compared by my neighbors and relatives, who has children running all over the ground, and who has bought a house and a car. Second, the cost of going back for the New Year is indeed not small!

Third, it is difficult to find a ticket for the Spring Festival, the plane is expensive, and the way home is long. Fourth, it may be that you need to rest and recharge during the holidays, and you can't stay at home to make up for sleep when you go home for the New Year.

The Chinese New Year is originally a tradition and a festive event, because of the changes in people for various reasons, many young people are afraid of the New Year. The main thing is that he thinks that his career is not successful, and there is an undecided marriage, and he is repeatedly urged by family and friends. Low income and high consumption, after the New Year, the wallet directly falls to the limit.

I can't help it!

Now the post-90s girlfriends are embarrassed to go out, and they are afraid of being urged to marry when they go home, blind dates or something. Everyone brings their girlfriends to a party, and you go alone, are you embarrassed? The young couple show affection and happiness, don't they look greedy?

So I just can't see out of mind and don't go back. Another is that there is no money, hard work for a year, in addition to eating and drinking, the rest of the money is given to the landlord, how can there be spare money for yourself, go home and a large amount of consumption, party, shopping, New Year's money for children, think about it. In addition, some people like to compare, see that people are driving home, they have everything, and they are embarrassed to go out, so they simply don't go back.