How do you get out of love?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Broken love is like an offside goal in a football game, when you run off the pitch to celebrate, only to find the linesman raising the flag and blowing the whistle. Nothing, start over!

    In the face of falling out of love, we should let go of this relationship rationally, let it pass in the past, no matter how sad you are, it is irretrievable, you have to learn to let go.

    Hold it, put it down. The so-called letting go refers to the state of mind, everyone in the world will have a lot of things, and at the same time will lose a lot of things, lose and lose, don't be nostalgic, be willing to let go. In fact, it's not that you can't forget, but you don't want to forget, knowing that the past is unbearable to look back on, so that the trauma is not easy to heal, which will only increase the burden on yourself.

    If you always allow yourself to remember what you have lost, to regret or mourn in vain, you will not let the wound heal. But if you understand that the reason why you don't forget is because you don't want to forget, because you subconsciously enjoy that little bit of pain, then you are asking for your own suffering.

    Therefore, you have to be strong and have the courage to face reality, we don't need to cry for the spilled milk, it's futile. You lost her, but you have a wider world, and the world doesn't stop moving because of your little misfortune, and you should keep going.

    Fate is a thing, you will naturally get it when you arrive, and you must treat everything with a normal heart!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Damn man, stealing your emotions and doing this to you. I'll help you curse him. Why are girls always hurt?

    Dear friends, don't be this kind of man who takes the initiative to dump you. You are still young and have a long way to go, and your life has just begun. You're a student and you're going to meet a lot of people.

    Five years of long-distance relationships is not easy, and you may both have put in a lot of emotion. During that time, you may have gained love, but you will also lose something, such as fate on the other end. So now that you have lost this fate, it is God who has given you more opportunities to seek more fate.

    I understand how you feel, you can't put it down, can you? The key to this kind of problem is how to look at it yourself, maybe you can let go of it with one sentence and one idea. Five years of relationship, this man doesn't want it if he says no, you have to be simpler.

    Don't ask him for anything. Directly stop contacting, leave a back to him, you want to live happier...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Why do that? The more you do this, the more that feeling is unforgettable, my advice to you, don't do anything, what you have to do is to do your thing, what to do, don't do anything, don't look at it and don't force it, stay still, don't force yourself to forget, so you can't forget.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Escaping is not necessarily avoiding.

    It's not necessarily the hardest to face.

    Being lonely doesn't have to be unhappy.

    It doesn't always last long.

    Losing doesn't necessarily mean not having it anymore.

    Turning around is not necessarily the weakest.

    Don't rush to say that there is no choice.

    Don't think that there is only right and wrong.

    There is not only one answer to many things.

    So we will always have a way to go.

    You can find a reason to be sad, and you will definitely find a reason to be happy, and people who know how to be at ease can find ease.

    He who knows how to forget finds freedom.

    People who know how to care find friends.

    The cold weather is not cold, the cold heart is cold.

    The growth of a person is accompanied by some loss, and the maturity of a person is accompanied by some scars.

    Fortunately, there is hope, and you can always wait;

    Fortunately, between people, distance produces beauty;

    Fortunately, in life, there is more happiness than pain;

    Fortunately, in this world, there is still a lot of beauty;

    The good thing is that by the time you're mature, you're not left with nothing!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can find someone around you who loves you and distract your energy first, maybe you have forgotten after a long time. It is said that it is better to find someone you love than to find someone who loves yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    5 years is a long process.

    Your boyfriend has broken up very firmly, and the relationship is really over, and it is irretrievable.

    Falling out of love, people nowadays have basically experienced it, and falling out of love is not a big deal, which only proves that you are not suitable.

    There is no right or wrong in the relationship, only whether he is worthy of your love, do you think he is worthy of your love?

    If you give up the motivation to study and ruin your future because of someone who is not worthy of your love, do you think it is worth it?

    I can very well understand how you feel now, the loss of love is indeed very painful at first, but it can also slowly wash away the emotional stain as time passes.

    Cry for a few more days, then pick yourself up, and if you still can't figure it out, I'll be happy to chat with you and help you share a little bit of your pain.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Study hard, let him look at you differently, as long as you have money, there will be a good love... The failure of love just makes you understand that you need to love yourself more!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You have to live a good life, there are many good boys, but he doesn't count! Become better than him and make him look up to you. If you are depressed, he will look down on you even more ......

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The heart hurt because of love can only be in love, and you can try to like other people.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Waste of time, contact me to enlighten you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'll send something to you with hi.

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