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oh no !!There is nothing bad about a divorced woman, she may have failed a marriage, she knows how to tolerate each other better, knows how to deal with family relationships, and may be more emotional and delicate than before. As for saying that some people look down on divorced women, most of them are men, because they feel as if women have already had a man, a "second-hand goods", leftovers from others, which is a very disrespectful attitude towards women, and it is because of this point of view that divorced women are in a difficult situation.
However, those are the views of pedantic and self-righteous people, and now people are young and impulsive, and there are many people who find that their personalities are incompatible and divorced after marriage, and there are many people who find a happy life after divorce, so there is no need to be bound by worldly views. If two people truly love each other, and they have fate, they will definitely come together. What they have to do now is to strengthen their beliefs, work hard to overcome difficulties, and express their determination to those who do not support them with their sincerity and efforts.
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The main thing is to think about the future, there is nothing to look down on. If there is a shadow in this man's heart in the future, it will have an impact on the quality of your marriage. As long as the two parties are okay, they can be combined, but who would not care about the opinions of others at all.
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In reality, divorced people, whether men or women, are likely to be looked down upon, because divorce is still a sign of failure in the eyes of many people, and people generally think that people who are not good at managing marriage will divorce.
However, whether you are divorced or not, you should remember that happiness is earned by your own hard work and careful management, not by others or gods.
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What the landlord said was looked down upon, isn't it around? Or boyfriend's family? If you really love each other, make sure that he is not crushed with you for a while and can really accept you. That's not a big deal. Prove your love to the world by your deeds – show them your affection.
Also, if your boyfriend's family doesn't agree with you, it's a big problem. You have to work together, and it's impossible for your boyfriend to settle the family alone. Because there are many issues to consider as parents, you should understand them, and you can't force your boyfriend to settle the family, either choose me or your parents, this is too extreme.
Of course. That's what I'm assuming. If your future in-laws can accept you, then what else is there to say, knot!
Whatever others say. In the end: do the bottom line!
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As long as you are good enough, what about divorce, divorce and remarriage.
If you get married, you will leave again.
What's going on?
Others say that you can't eat grapes, say that grapes are sour, and fall into the well.
They see that you can marry again after you are divorced, and there is a good psychological imbalance.
Because they are not happy in their marriage haha.
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How likely are you to be happy after a divorce?
After the divorce, you can still find your own happiness, and when you meet the person you love, you must also work hard to grasp and fight, and don't give up the second marriage because the first love failed and the marriage failed.
When you are in love, you will respond to each other's needs. Because during the love period, all you see is the other party's advantages, and after the love is over, it is the process of accepting the other party's shortcomings, which needs to be tolerated.
Looking at the world, how can there be a perfect partner and a perfect marriage, some are just wise and foolish with one eye closed, with the calmness and calmness of the hills and valleys in the chest, and the ability to make trade-offs will balance the common ground while reserving differences, so that the marriage seems to be quiet and unharmed for many years.
We always marry the good of a person, and the truth is that we have to live with the bad of a person.
One: Be sure to bring love.
It's lucky to get married for love!
When you get into marriage, you will understand that if there is no love, you will live a miserable life.
If you think about it, two people who are not related by blood, whether male or female, want to establish a long-term and stable relationship, except through love, there seems to be no other way.
If the quiet purpose of your marriage is to say that I don't love you in the first place, I got married when it was time to regret it.
At that time, I really didn't know if you delayed others, or if you hurt yourself.
Never marry for the sake of getting married, take responsibility for yourself and your marriage partner.
At any time, love should be the premise of marriage, don't enter marriage without love, otherwise when you meet love after getting married, you may be upset.
If it's not suitable, it's the best, there are no two people who are born right, they are two people who run in and grow together, and you don't even want to run in with someone you don't love.
Two: learn to live with each other's shortcomings.
What attracts us when we are in love is the advantages of the other party, marriage will magnify the shortcomings of the other party, and the process of running in between two people is the process of accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings.
Everyone tries to find a perfect person, but unfortunately, in the end, you will find that there is no perfect person in this world.
I always believe that even if a person is good, I still think that he must have shortcomings.
When you are in a relationship, you only care about the good in the other person. Even, you will magnify the advantages of the other party ten times and a hundred times.
However, when it comes to getting married, it's very different.
All you see at this time is the other party's shortcomings, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become, and you are so angry that you can't wait to get a divorce and find another one.
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If the marriage is not happy and you can't live on it, you have to go to the step of divorce, and Changju will change your defense, then please take care of yourself for the rest. Spiritually independent, financially independent, positive, judgmental, courageous, and optimistic in the face of difficulties, you will be happy in life.
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A woman will be happy if she is divorced, and it is right to cherish marriage.
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No, divorce will be happy.
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Divorced, you're free.
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1. If a confused woman's last marriage failed and divorced, then she felt the most confused on the emotional road in the future, and the emotions she had paid were in vain, almost exhausting all her enthusiasm and hope for her emotions. A failed marriage is still quite a big blow to women, and in this case, few divorced women can be happy. Because a woman's trust in emotion and marriage is already very low, she doesn't know what kind of attachment she can have to happiness, and she feels that she can't get what she is pursuing, so she feels very lost and has no happiness at all.
Second, the economic conditions of women are very happy after divorce, of which economic conditions occupy an important factor, because their economic conditions do not mean that they are not good, their monthly income is rarely able to meet the material conditions they pursue, and they cannot reach the richness they want in life, so they will not feel happy. In fact, many women have a better mentality after divorce, and they are not forced to be in love and marriage, and their lives always have to go on, and they can't live because of divorce, so women are also strong and work to earn money to support themselves. Some women have high requirements for the quality of life, but their own economic conditions are not good, and they have not found a lover with excellent economic skills, in this case, she feels unhappy.
3. If a partner woman can't find a suitable partner after divorce, then she will feel unhappy when she lives alone, this kind of single life is very hard and tiring, and there is no lover to care for herself and take care of herself. I lack a real support, I feel that this kind of life is very tiring, and my heart is tired, and a woman in this situation is not happy. Fourth, work to earn money divorced women have to rely on their own hard work to earn money, then this kind of life is unhappy, because the work is very hard, life is not rich and even embarrassed, in this case, women need to work hard and bear a lot of pressure, all in order to earn money to fill the needs of life, in order to work hard for life.
So much so that she gave up the happiness in the ideal she was pursuing, and the divorced woman in this case is very happy, and she has a bitter stomach to swallow.
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Divorced women will compare the strengths of their ex with their current one, without exception.
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Of course, a woman after a divorce can find her own happiness, but she must adjust her mentality, divorce is not terrible, she should have a good mentality after divorce, she must get out of this shadow, she can contact her friends more, get along with the opposite sex more, and don't live humbly.
At the same time, you must also have confidence and believe that you can find your own happiness again, because there are still many boys in the world. For example, when relatives and friends introduce you to someone, you can get along with each other to see if both parties are suitable and give yourself a chance.
There is also to open your heart, if there is an excellent man, and this man takes the initiative to pursue you, then you can start with him as a friend, of course, you must also explain to the other party that you are a divorced person, to see if the other party cares, if not, it means that this man is worthy of dependence.
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As long as you have a normal attitude, don't be too picky, just find someone who likes you, and you will be happy.
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Women who really have happiness will always have a smile on their faces, and they will often mention their husbands and children when chatting with others, which shows that this woman has happiness.
Because this society is not the same anymore....
No bread and only love is not good, first of all, your boyfriend does not have the sense of responsibility that a man should have, such a person is unreliable, does not plan for the long term, even if they are together, they will quarrel over family trivialities in the future, and the long pain is better than the short pain. Besides, he promised to buy you a mobile phone, but it didn't come true, which means that you are not the most important thing in his heart, and he will listen to you if he loves you, change these, and plan for your future.