What if your in laws come to your house and deliberately don t change your shoes?

It may be because it is inconvenient to exchange blood, there is foot odor, or there is athlete's foot.

It is also possible that after walking for a day, more tired, sweating, afraid of dirty your slippers, so you will not change your shoes, no matter what kind of situation is not harmonious, in fact, it is not a big deal, it is a big deal to do a hygiene, unless it is the kind with mud or mud with water quality, etc., it is better to clean it up a little, and it is nothing if you don't change your shoes.

I think my in-laws came to your house and deliberately didn't change their shoes, so don't stress them anymore. Because it must be the husband's parents, when they leave, it is nothing to wipe the floor a little more and exert a little more effort, and everything will be prosperous at home. If you are looking for something, the whole family will be unhappy, and if you don't want to do it, tell your husband about it, and he will go back to do it.

Don't get angry, this will cause family conflicts, and it will also cause the whole family to be disunited, and you will be more angry in the future. If you want to live well, you have to think about it, which is more conducive to family and happiness.

Forgive them, because older people may not have this habit. So there's no need to care, be generous, be kind to them.

If your in-laws come to your house and don't return their shoes, they won't change them, and when they leave, you can just mop the ground again, and the elderly are generally not used to changing shoes.

If you don't change it, you won't change it, you can clean it again after leaving, after all, at this time, it is your own in-laws as a kind of respect, sometimes there is no need to ask too much, so at this time you can prompt the other party to change shoes, if the other party does not change, there is no need to pay too much attention.

If your in-laws don't come to your house often, once in a while, don't change your shoes if you don't change them, and you won't be angry.

You can politely tell the old people to change their shoes, and give them shoes ready for them, and they will change them after listening.

Hello! Here's what you can answer.

1.If my in-laws come to my house and deliberately don't change my shoes, I smile and say, "No need to change them, I only have 2 pairs of slippers at home, and I can't change my shoes." ”

2.If my in-laws come to my house and deliberately don't change their shoes, I will say, "Mother-in-law, your shoes are so beautiful, don't change them, they fit on your feet."

It is advisable to tell your husband in this case, because he is easier to say, and you ask your husband to tell them that they will stain the ground and that every time they come, you will have to mop the floor again.

You can take the initiative to take the slippers and ask your in-laws to change them.

Filial piety and filial piety The word "shun" comes first, and it is not permanent, and you can also let your husband or children say it.

If you don't change it, you won't change it, what's the big deal? When they're gone, the vacuum cleaner is all over the place.

Otherwise, it's OK to drag it down.

It's no problem for the robot vacuum cleaner to turn around.

It wasn't intentional, was it?

My in-laws also come over occasionally.

Anyway, I don't need to ask for anything special from my family.

They change when they have it.

I don't talk about them without me.

It doesn't seem polite to buy disposable shoe covers.

When guests come. You are welcomed when you are at the door. By the way, I will send slippers. Speaking of which. Just put on these slippers.

Or when they come to the door. You immediately welcome and say I'll get you slippers.

The general guest will be considerate.

It won't be rude to say this.

It is recommended that you leave all your slippers at the door, and if someone comes in you say: Come in, come in, no need to change your shoes, no need to change your shoes. The guest must excuse himself and say how embarrassed it is!

So you can say I'll get you a pair of shoes. It should be easy! Believe me!

After the guests are gone, let's clean up.

People come to you once or twice a year, and it doesn't matter if it's hard, as long as everyone is happy.

Oh, the latest business opportunity: mopping slippers, newly opened, go to ** shop" point to the store "enter No. 8 Lane 9, and then there will be a store.

That's right, buy shoe covers, you can buy disposable shoe covers, you can also buy cloth shoe covers.

If you are very concerned about entering the house to change shoes, you can ask for shoes when the guests enter the house, and take the initiative to prepare slippers, and the guests will cooperate with the change of shoes into the house. However, for distinguished guests to change their shoes, it can be based on the habits of guests.

First of all, if the other party doesn't care at all and enters the door, it is a matter of personal quality, since it is a guest, then it is good to work hard afterwards and clean it yourself.

Secondly, before the guest enters the door, as the host, you can take the initiative to hand over a pair of slippers for the guest to change, so that in addition to allowing the guest to change shoes, it can also make the guest feel your hospitality. (Poor quality guests are not included).

Furthermore, if the guest asks whether to change shoes, be sure to reply in time and bring slippers to the guest, or when there are many people, you can consider directly letting the guest enter without changing shoes. (You can also buy the kind of shoe cover that you can step on on, which is convenient, but a little wasteful).

There were also some people who praised my house for its cleanliness and came in with shoes on.

Guests come to the house as guests, do not change slippers, here are divided into two situations, one is given to the guest slippers, the guest does not change, the other is not to give the guest slippers, the guest relies on self-consciousness. Let's take a look at both scenarios.

In the first case, the guest was given slippers and the guest did not change them.

There are two situations here, the first is that the guest takes off his own shoes, does not change his slippers, and goes directly barefoot. In this case, you can tell the guest that the ground is cold, be careful of the cold or wear slippers, or it has not been cleaned for several days, and the floor is dirty, it is better to wear slippers. The second is that the guests do not change their slippers and wear their own shoes, so they should tell the guests that the ground is slippery, it is safer to change slippers, or change slippers to wear more comfortably.

In the second case, the guests are not given slippers, and the guests are required to rely on their self-awareness. In this case, you should take the slippers to the guest or tell the guest that the slippers are in**, and say to the guest, come, the slippers are here, you can see if it is suitable to wear this pair.

When guests come to the door, as the host, they should still take the initiative to be enthusiastic, and when they encounter things that they are not used to, they should be a little flexible, and the way of handling things should be tactful, and the tone should not be too blunt, not too direct, so as to avoid embarrassment for guests. If the guest is really vexatious, then intervene in the blacklist and refuse to come to the door next time.

This is so easy to do, I remember that on the day my family first moved, many relatives and friends came to play at home, and there was a friend who was the first to enter the house, and he came in before I could get my slippers. I said, brother, do you want to change your shoes? He said that there is no need to change it, there are so many people, it is not good to let everyone change the slippers, you should not have so many slippers, anyway, there are many people to dirty the house, after today, you can clean it again.

Then I didn't speak, but I was always uncomfortable, because if he didn't change his shoes alone, he would definitely not change all of them, and what would my house be ruined about? I worked hard to clean up before inviting everyone to play, and my living room is carpeted, if people don't change their shoes, how much will I suffer when they leave? So changing slippers is just a small thing for guests, and it would be cruel to me not to change them.

I don't think it's a good way to tell people to change their shoes. It is direct and embarrassing to others, and it will make others think that your family is too stingy, and you only want to come to your house, but you have to let people change their shoes before you can enter the door, obviously both parties are a little embarrassed.

There is basically a shoe cabinet in the position where each of our families enters the door, and a lot of slippers are prepared in it, unless it is a special room pattern, then the shoe cabinet may not be in the position of entering the door, but it doesn't matter, as long as someone wants to come, put the slippers by the door in advance. As soon as the guests enter the door, you quickly block the door and bend down to politely take the slippers to the guests, and say to them that you have worked hard, your feet must be tired, hurry up and change into slippers to be comfortable. Just such a tactful speech, catch him off guard, no kind of guest can stop your enthusiasm, no matter how stubborn he is, he can hear that you mind him wearing some into your house.

But what you said so politely and quite reasonably, so they can't pick out the thorns, so they won't offend people, kill two birds with one stone, and they don't have to wait for a fierce cleaning.

The way is what people think, I brought shoes to the people who came in the back on the day my family moved, and I had already prepared dozens of pairs of slippers waiting for them there. Everyone came and I hurriedly handed them slippers, and then politely said that it was really hard for you, thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule, it's too hard for you, come in and change into slippers to be comfortable. The guests and relatives who came behind all changed their shoes, and then the friend who came in first finally ran to change his shoes himself.

In life, we often encounter guests at home, some guests may not go to change slippers when they enter the door, at this time we as the host can be tactfully reminded that there are slippers here to wear a little more comfortable, so that he feels as if it is very natural.

Or just give him a pair of slippers the moment he walks in the door, so he knows what he means. If he has already been reminded or refuses, he thinks it is better not to change. If this guest doesn't usually come, then it will be fine.

In fact, if the guest is very familiar, you can directly let him change, because they know each other very well, if it is a more ordinary friend, usually rarely come, then euphemistically remind the refusal, don't care too much, then wait for him to leave and then clean up.

Sometimes it's a bunch of guests who come together, and you still have to clean up after a lot of people, so it's okay to have a good attitude.

1.Your father-in-law Bai is a strong Du person, who likes to take the will of others and is very domineering.

Dao Dao, don't care about other people's returns at all.

Feel. 2.Your husband promised to be a person with a strict family education, in other words, he is a person with a good family education.

3.Your father-in-law still takes care of you, so that you don't ask, because he thinks that your energy should not be focused on these little things, so he wants to help you solve them.

In short, your father-in-law is a warm-hearted person, precisely because he doesn't treat you as an outsider at all, and he is used to being strong at home, so he doesn't take into account your feelings at all, because your mother-in-law and husband have always been so obedient, and he takes it for granted that you are like this.

Although your in-laws don't leave enough space for you, don't complain, think more positively, since you can't stop it, it's better to treat it as if you don't see it, and leave the affairs of the family to them completely, and you will be happy to be idle, and focus on shopping malls, watching movies, and traveling with your husband. In this way, they not only satisfy their desire for control, but also relax themselves, and the family is harmonious.

You can communicate properly, and if your in-laws don't stay with you for too long, then you don't care about it a little bit. After all, if there is a conflict between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law, it is still your husband who is very difficult. So the daughter-in-law sometimes has to think more about her husband.

If you are wronged, you will get a lot of tolerance and love from your husband.

I think your father-in-law is more capable of doing things, and he loves Zhang Luo, you can communicate with him, tell him what he wants to buy is to ask for your opinion, and you can also express your own opinions.

Your father-in-law is terrible, more than your mother-in-law, and I've seen this before.

There is a way, and what is not returned.

Good trick, answer for reference, that is, ask your father-in-law if there is anything in the future, ask your own questions, or let your husband ask for you, the young couple has discussed, so that your mother-in-law will be annoyed, and she will naturally stop your father-in-law for you.

It's not you bai yet

I don't pay for it, since the decoration is paid by my father-in-law, then I have to listen to others, and if I have the ability, I will have the confidence to call the shots.

Answer: You also said that he just doesn't give you money, and he takes the money to buy it himself, I want to ask my father-in-law why he gives you money, and he wants his father-in-law to pay for the decoration of his house, and he also said that it is like this, only those who pay have the right to speak, since they don't want to pay, then be obediently angry.

My mother-in-law is also like this, when she first got married.

I also have no way to rely on her for everything, now everything is in charge with my husband, she said that she did not refute her on the spot, but we have the final say on what to do, my husband said that she is old, you are old and enjoy happiness, don't worry about anything, just eat and drink and have fun, and slowly she will compromise when she sees that we don't listen to her, and no longer cares about our business.

I'm also having the same problem as bai, it's annoying! You are much better than me, at least my mother-in-law brought the dao, and I will return.

home, it was his father-in-law who brought his friends, and he promised to be in the absence of her husband!! When he came, he ordered me to fetch a cigarette for his friend. It's really too much......Oh, by the way, people don't change their slippers yet, the floor I just wiped was trampled on everywhere with dirt...

If someone else comes, I will say it directly, but this is my husband and his own father, and I said it directly, even if I say it euphemistically, it will hurt and anger... When he came to my house with his friends, he ordered me to feel like a slave yes ......Moreover, who knows what his friends are like in their hearts, in case one day my family loses something or I am violated in .........

They are not married and cannot empathize with us ...