The troubles of my emotional life have broken me down! Enlightenment!!

First of all, you should believe that husband and wife are fate, [there is good karma, there is evil karma, and it is impossible to be together without fate] This is what Buddhism talks about [six realms of reincarnation] is because in the previous life we were together, there was help, there was harm, there was a good side, there was also an evil side, because all aspects of karma are deeply entangled, so we have to meet again in this life. Together again. You said you were hurt about your ex-boyfriend.

When you see something on his computer that you don't intended. This means that he has also been hurt. So you can make up for the problems where he was hurt, which does not make you afraid that he will accommodate him, and the husband and wife should understand each other.

The main reason is not who is afraid of whom, not who accommodates whom, but two injured hearts, who want to live a good life in the future and forget the previous injuries through mutual trust, mutual care, mutual understanding, and mutual care. That's what you're for. You can think about how many years a person can live, and now that life is good, why not live well, as long as you are less selfish, you are still afraid of a bad life.

If you are always hurt by your ex-boyfriend, you make it difficult for him everywhere, or test him, for a long time, that man can't accept it, when you break up one day, you think that the second boyfriend is really better than the first, you will feel guilty in your heart [I can't regret it] If you find another one, it may be worse than the first, this is called retribution, this is called fate. If you don't know what happiness is, you don't know how to deal with problems, and you don't know how to cherish good days. You can't hurt you because someone else is hurting you, you can take out your anger on another person, I think that's immoral.

It will affect your personal image and spread it out to you badly, and a person doing things, especially a woman, should know to pay attention to these issues. The harm to this man is your fault, after reading what you said, I am moved to persuade you, if your brother and brother meet such a woman, you are a bystander, what do you think of this woman, because you can live well, because he did not hurt you. Everything depends on you, don't be dissatisfied, you should say whatever you want, it's better to do that.

If you think about leaving, others say that this man is good to her, you leave two men twice, and others will say that it is all other people's fault, and this woman is not a problem, at that time, what else do you say, who to talk to, who still believes you. I'm a man, and I wish you happiness and peace of mind. If there is something wrong with my words, please forgive me and understand that I am really telling you well.

I can't see that you have any bad phenomena, and I wish you happiness to the end.

Don't be so suspicious, you should devote yourself to managing this relationship at this time, and you can see that your boyfriend is honest with you, and he can let you know all the past to show that he is attentive to you. At this time, you should let go of the baggage in your heart and the shadow in your previous heart to enjoy this relationship. Otherwise, if you keep doing this, you can only disbelieve in love even more.

You lack communication, there are some things that will make each other's relationship more solid, if you love him and want to be together, you must try to communicate. It's much more useful than trapping yourself in there and thinking nonsense.

Think more about the happiness you get along, don't worry too much about the consequences, think about it, even if you don't turn out well in the future, isn't it just a breakup, whoever leaves can live, the key is not to let yourself regret it, if you are always like this, no man can endure it for a long time, then you will regret it even more, it will be more difficult for you to love others anymore, create some romance, write a love diary, make a love album, etc., be kind to yourself, be kind to others, divert your attention, don't be so drilly. It's hard to change, let's cheer on yourself, in my humble opinion.

Since we get along, we must trust each other!! You can tell him that you love him very much, but if you grasp him with something, there is absolutely no room for repentance.

You have said that the beautiful women around him are like clouds, if he really changes his mind, he will not be so accommodating to you, tolerate your bad temper, and will be cold to you, the truth is that he really loves you! You just live a down-to-earth life, I wish you happiness!

Trust is the foundation, but also to give the other party a little personal space, can not be pressed, and to hold the mentality of fate, can not always think about the past, the past has passed, to look forward.

You ask your new you if you really like him. If so, go ahead and learn how to trust Him and tolerate Him. It would be better if it wasn't divided early.

Love is built on mutual trust, and love without trust cannot last long. The failure of one relationship should not be an obstacle to the next relationship, you can learn from the previous relationship, but you should not spread the shadow of the last relationship to the present, which is unfair to everyone. You say that there are so many beautiful women around him, but he is choosing you now, isn't it?

You have to be confident in yourself, he chooses you over others, it means that you have advantages that others don't have, you have to believe in his sincerity, don't be afraid of being hurt and retreat, hurting him will hurt you. If you can, go on a small trip with him, adjust your mood, and add a touch of sweetness to your love path.

ps: Love is tolerant, but not indefinitely, don't let his sincerity become the heart of two people, no matter what the future holds, since you love, you have no hesitation, think too much will miss what you cherish, don't let yourself regret it!

How long have you been, if it's been a long time, then let's be separated, if it's less than a year, then let's try it for a while, because it's good that this period has passed, and I've been through it.

See a psychiatrist and ask a professional to enlighten you.

Believe him Even if you get hurt Won't you regret if you haven't tried I think you love each other But because you hide in the turtle shell and don't get out, in the end your results may not be very good So try to relax And your life can't always be disrupted by the existence of feelings You say that you are a cheerful girl Then give full play to your characteristics Adapt to this kind of life Adapt to its existence Beat your heart and light up your life Isn't it great You have to work hard You can't go on like this It won't be a matter of love for a long time Maybe your life is full of problems.

In fact, you said that you were not affected by the previous relationship, and you said how good he was to you, you just felt that he still didn't do well, women are like this, including myself, the more pampered, the more difficult it is for men, the beautiful women around him are like clouds, so what, if he really loves you, no matter how many beauties, he will not be disturbed, stick to his love! Don't miss out on a companion who can't be caught in a haystack.

There are many people who have been hurt emotionally, but the mentality problem can be adjusted slowly, you have to remember, be kind to the people around you, be kind to yourself, and learn to cherish If you adjust the mentality well, I believe you will make the right decision, whether the shoes are suitable or not, only the feet know.

Feelings are easily hurt and want to open a little.

I have to say that this network is also "clever".

Your situation is very similar to what I was at the beginning, except that I took the "cold" treatment at the beginning, and it turned out to be too cold, and it became a thing of the past.

Your current situation is better than mine, looking at her attitude, you are still nostalgic.

What you need most now is to calm your mind, of course, I don't need you to calm down, just calm down a little bit of anxiety, otherwise it will be too easy to get excited.

The good news is that you didn't give up, she didn't stay away, and you had a two-month buffer consensus. However, you can't wait for these two months, and you can only wait for the past.

Continue to contact in the way you used to be tacit, don't get too excited, just like a clear stream crossing a shallow valley, which makes people calm, memorable, and nostalgic. Always let him know that you miss her so much, love her so much, and so deeply reminisce about the bits and pieces you are together, the joy and happiness together.

Go ahead and find your love back!

Bless you, brother!

I look at your statement, before the breakup, it seems that she loves you more than you love him, and after the breakup, you realize that you love her too, right?

As a girl's point of view, I think she is very entangled now, first of all, she definitely loves you and has you in her heart, but she said that she doesn't know who you and him can make her happy.