Am I stupid to give up someone who loves me very much?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-26
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

    Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

    Love is not possession!

    You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

    The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

    knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

    Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

    When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

    In love, one thing is said and another is done;

    The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

    ddddd

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How many infatuated people have been stumped by the word "love"? It's so hard to love someone, I brewed a cup of bitter wine of love with my own hands, and in the end I choked with my own tears and swallowed it, love has become a ...... hurtBut in this process, we will gradually realize the true meaning of "love", think about it, we are deeply in love with that person, as long as he (she) is happy, what else do we care? Or got?

    Or lost? It's not important anymore Let's pray for the one we love, go on freely, and bless him (her) ...... with a sincere smileBecause our "letting go" does not mean "giving up"; Because we are still holding on to this true love, loving him (her) in another way, and at the same time you are free, the other person is also happy, isn't that good? Life is short for decades, bitterness and happiness are a lifetime, be kind to yourself, maybe in old age, we look back at the past, all these passing clouds are just a flick of the fingers of the small ......Good luck.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not stupid, if you don't love her, it's right to give up on her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It will be very sad and sad, there is a lot of reluctance in my heart, and at the same time there will be a faint relief, liking a person is happy, and giving up a person at the same time may be a new beginning for another relationship, there is nothing wrong with liking and giving up, the most important thing is whether that person is suitable for you? Are you worth paying for him? Can you get the affection you want?

    Everyone may like such a person when they are young, even if he is not good to you and ruthless, you will do anything for him, even if you don't get the love you want in the end, you will not have any complaints, some people think that this kind of person is very stupid and naïve, knowing that there is no result, why do you still insist? At this time, it shouldn't be to find a fruitful love again, it's much better than paying blindly like this! Some people think that this is true love, although they like it, they don't have to be together, such a relationship is perfect, in fact, they are right, insist on it depends on their inner thoughts, if you think this relationship is worth it, then you insist, if you think you want to give up, this time to give up may be your best choice.

    Maybe when you first give up, your heart will be very sad, and you don't miss that feeling all the time, but you think about it from a different perspective and give up, which means that you are relieved of this relationship, this time is also the omen that you should start another relationship, this world is so wonderful, and the relationship is like this, maybe in the next corner, there will be another boy in your eyes, and he is the person you are waiting for This is also a kind of fate, but also a kind of luck, Have you ever encountered it?

    I also used to be obsessed with a love, struggling and not wanting to give up, but the final result was that I was covered in bruises, and my heart was tormented, at that time I knew that I was stupid but I had to go to the moth to put out the fire, now I think about it, I feel that the persistence at that time is like, if I am given a chance to choose again, I will definitely respect my heart, not to be attached to the fruitless feelings, so that I may live every day very happy and relaxed. Truly live up to my youth.

    At that time, I just ended our relationship and felt very sad in my heart, I always felt that the sky was gray, I couldn't see a little light, I always locked myself in the room, I didn't want to talk to anyone, people are so fragile, when the relationship encounters an impact, I will close my heart, I don't perceive the changes in the outside world, and I think I am the most unfortunate girl in the world, abandoned by love! I always look at self-pity, but people can't always be immersed in the past, don't look forward, and after I gave up this relationship, I found that I could live very well, and my world was full of light, as long as I could see it, this relationship, my turning point came to my side, everyone can live a very happy life, it depends on how you treat this relationship and choose to give up or insist, happiness and pain, just in a thought.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I couldn't breathe in pain, but I still smiled and blessed. If you don't have the courage to join hands with him, then give up saying goodbye. But after really letting go, you will find a different self, and letting go is a kind of forgiveness for yourself, and it also allows you to go further.

    I can't say why I like him, but I know that because of him I rejected a lot of people, I didn't go to the class reunion last year, but the day after I saw the reunion again, I proposed to another person to break up, because I wanted to pursue my heart. I took the train for a few days, going from city to city, just for that deeply buried love.

    He had a girlfriend when he liked him, and I don't usually have much patience, but I was patient enough in this matter to wait until his girlfriend broke up due to a long-distance relationship, and then got back together. And I don't know how many people I turned down during this period. Knowing the reason why I couldn't withstand the pressure of my family one day, I started blind dates one after another.

    I found the right person to marry. It's because of a class reunion. Let it all fall apart.

    I was cowardly, even on the spur of the moment, and allowed myself to become almost nothing. But he still didn't have the courage to turn it into cellophane, even during the breakup, he didn't make an effort. The end result is giving up. Then I heard the news that he was about to get married.

    A friend asked me if I regretted giving up my marriage partner because of impulsiveness and willfulness. Abandoned the development of a city. I can't say that I regret it, I can only say that I paid for my youth, all the good and bad are borne by me, who hasn't made one or two wrong decisions when he was young.

    It's a shame that I didn't get together with the person who loved me, but I don't regret it, the two of us just didn't have the right time.

    It's good if it's painful. Say goodbye to the past with a smile, so that when I meet the real person again, I can devote myself wholeheartedly to it, in my previous state. I'm really sorry for being so unfair to someone else, like I did with my ex, but I'm grateful to him and for everything he did to me.

    Now they're doing well. I'm also fine, just short of meeting at the next intersection.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What does it feel like to give up someone you've liked for a long time?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Pick up your phone and be afraid of missing a message.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's apologies, it's debts, it's not knowing what to pay it back with. It was as if it was late at night, and I couldn't sleep because of the guilt.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's like taking a knife and ripping off a piece of flesh from your chest. Be cruel to yourself like a heartbreaker! At the same time, I will feel very helpless, or very helpless, and feel that I am the most pitiful and saddest person in the world, and I will think about things like I don't believe in love or anything at that time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It will be heart-rending pain, so it is called forbearance and love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Feel? At first, it hurts, your heart is empty, and you feel like your life has lost its focus, and gradually this feeling will slowly decrease until you don't love him or you meet another person. Because time can change everything.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm an example of how my heart hurts, and I've been crying for a long, long time today, but I can't do anything about it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A: As a love song goes, if you have it, you will have the whole world, and if you lose it, you will lose everything. It should be very loving, so feel that he (she) is everything to you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You will be very uncomfortable, you can't say this kind of discomfort, you will have heartache, every time you think of ta, you will want to see him, but you can't see him, you will feel that the world is not happy at all, so don't give up your love, if you miss it, it will be a lifetime.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    At first, it will be painful and difficult to extricate yourself. Over time you will start to forget, but it could be 2 years, 5 years, or even longer.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If it is your favorite, you will feel miserable, your life will be empty, you will miss her all the time, you will always remember the good times you had together, and you may smoke and drink to kill your sorrow......sI can't help but always want to contact her!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I just gave up on someone I love very much, and I feel that I can't describe all the mixed tastes, and what I'm most afraid of is that I can't do it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's like a toy you liked very much when you were a child, and your parents gave it to other children, and you didn't dare to cry if you wanted to.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you give up willingly, that's the feeling of liberation; If you're forced to give up, it's a heartache and you want to die.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No more worrying about what topic to bother you with today, saying goodbye, but praying that I will meet you at the next intersection. I guess that's it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Thinking all the time, thinking about the heartache, knowing that the other party's heart is dead, and still wanting to redeem it, may no longer be necessary.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends on what kind of person you are.

    If you've ever been tempted, you're sure to have a heartache.

    If you're just having fun, it's probably a relief.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It hurts, but it will always pass, since it doesn't belong, why force it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Summary. If you want to open up, why do so many people in the world want to fall in love with one, and it is the kind that the other party doesn't care about at all, and you will meet another better one if you let him go.

    I love him and I can't help myself, some people say I'm stupid, but I don't want to give up.

    If you want to open up, why do so many people in the world want to fall in love with one, and it is the kind that the other party doesn't care about at all, and you will meet another better one if you let him go.

    There is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone Kisson is wrong with the person you love is not worthy of your love Feelings are needed for two people Not unilateral Don't love too tired and too failed Leave Chunhui and self-esteem to yourself.

    Loving a Layan person doesn't have to grow old with her! If you really love someone and she doesn't like you, let it go! Wheel oak royal her Xinfu is like Li your Xinfu! Love doesn't have to get her! I hope you will be generous.

    Don't be sad Since the fate is over, let it pass, stretch out your arms and embrace the breeze to feel the spring, summer, autumn and winter Cheer up to welcome the new day, you just have no chance with her on the road of life, there will be people who are destined with you to walk through the road of life with you. Believe it and take a break. Make the most of this time and do what you want.

    If you think it's right, do it. If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits.

    Slowly, the knots in Shan Hong's heart melted. Laughing and arguing about life, we must also cultivate an optimistic and open-minded healthy psychology. Cheer up, look to the future, don't stare at the love setbacks in front of you Don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

    It is recommended that you reduce unnecessary outings. Pay attention to health and safety, please give a morning brother praise and support. I hope my grandson can help you, dear, do you have any other questions here?

    If you're satisfied with my answer, open your eyes and give me a thumbs up! Give a attention, I wish you a happy life, good health, all the best, and happiness everywhere in life!

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