It s very unpleasant in my heart, is it really so hard to find true friends?

Your ideas are not extreme. Time is indeed one of the factors that measure the quality of the relationship between two people, and there is also fate. Real friends don't quarrel together, and the two of them take a step back and it's fine.

If there is a person who does not regress or is stubborn, then you have to think about whether he has taken you as a confidant. A real confidant, so to speak, the first time you see this person, you may know that this person will play a very important role in your life force in the future, of course, everyone has shortcomings, tolerance is a must, if you feel that you can't tolerate, then tell you, you can't become a confidant. There are also some people, even if it is 10 years or 20 years, well, they may only be ordinary friends, or even worse.

So you first need to know what kind of people you're suitable for to stay with. I'm a junior in high school this year and don't spend much time with my friends. I used to spend a lot of time with my best friends, and I would come home at 12 o'clock as soon as I talked, and I had so many things to say, which was a great feeling.

I think it is important to be sincere and generous.

You may think like this because you are too extreme, friendship is sometimes very selfish, she doesn't like you to play with others, chat, she is a little jealous, don't think about it. It's not that serious. Friends are like that, and I was the same at the beginning, I didn't like to let my friends play with others, it was just a kind of jealousy.

Nothing else, friendship is also very important, you snub others, but others don't think like that.

Cherish friendship and don't think crookedly.

If you haven't been friends for more than 5 years (because you're young, 10 years by my standards), don't fantasize that they treat you as a friend. Time is the basis for testing friends, and if you are 18 years old and do not have friends who have been with you for more than 5 years, you need to review your own problems.

You are still young, you make more friends, for a longer time, and you can compare what a true friend is. Friends are slowly met in the process of dating, how can you immediately have true friends You need to slowly and sincerely communicate.

Real friends are a bit hard to find friends:

1.The one who brings you out of the trough when you're sad.

2.Someone who laughs with you when you're happy.

3.Remind you of people who are not proud when you are successful.

4.Someone who gives you confidence when you encounter setbacks.

5.Someone who helps you in time when you need it.

6.and those who forsake thee neither when thou hast been rich nor rich.

Remember: a true friend is generous, and the person who accompanies you all your life is your lifelong wealth.

Cherish it.

It depends on what age you are.

The older you get, the more difficult it becomes, this society is becoming more and more realistic, to find a true friend is not only to open your heart but also to learn to avoid harm, but also to know how to cherish, it is a technical job.

But I'm only 16 years old and I want to be with you for the rest of my life, so I'm very lucky, and I wish you the best of luck in finding true friends.

A true friend should be the kind of person who can share weal and woe with you, regardless of the gains and losses, and can talk to you; Although there are very few such friends now, as long as you do it with your heart, you should be able to make such friends. A true friend is the one who can't be broken up, a friend is the person who is sad and wants to see the most, a person who doesn't need to say sorry when you bother, a person who doesn't need to say thank you when you help, a person who doesn't change his name when he rises step by step, a person who cares about each other at the ends of the world, and a friend will come to comfort you when you are sad. When you are in trouble, friends will come to your aid.

When you are happy, friends will share the joy of happiness with you. When you fail, your friends will pull you along and keep going. Friends are not stumbling blocks, they are accelerants.

Confidant people, who can talk to you is a kind of belief that the wind can't blow, the rain can't fall, and you can always make yourself happy Just like your own family, be good to you sincerely, and will not pick you up because you are successful, nor will you laugh at you because you are disappointed, and stay away from you. When you encounter difficulties, do your best to help you understand you very well, and friends who understand you very well will stand up and help you solve your problems when you are most suffering. Comfort, encourage, and support you when you are sad and failing.

Help each other, trust each other, improve each other, be considerate of each other, and understand each other. Be there for you whenever and wherever you are. Laugh together when you're happy.

Cry together when you're sad. Definitely not taking advantage of you, not remembering your mistakes, your mistakes. I will only remember your goodness, and will not care who pays more and who pays less.

Never give up, never care who pays more than whom.

If you are not willing to treat others with sincerity, how can others be willing to confide in you? So if you want a true friend, you should let others feel your sincerity. But how many people dare to treat others sincerely?

Many people always say that they can't find friends who treat each other sincerely, and the reality is indeed like this, many people because they have experienced some things, so they begin to be overly defensive and unwilling to trust the people around them, so they always pay attention to what they talk about in their interactions with others, and do not involve themselves, but they are called unable to make sincere friends. If you want others to dig out your heart and lungs for yourself, but you are not willing to express your sincerity to your friends, how can we make friends.

In today's society, how many people have been betrayed by those around them, how many people have been abandoned by those around them, how many people have been hurt by their former friends, and who can easily open their hearts to strangers.

We have all learned to be guarded, hypocritical, and superficial friendship after experiencing some things, but we are all lonely people, and we all hope to have a friend who is really close to our hearts, but we all close the door of our hearts and do not allow others to enter.

The people around you, each one has a story, each one has an unhappy past, every one of them may have been hurt, and most importantly, each one of them may be our enemy, reality is reality, you are surrounded by your colleagues, they may compete with you for a position, they may also betray you for themselves, how dare you be true friends with them, how dare you believe that they treat themselves sincerely.

It's not just that you don't have true friends, I believe in many people, even if you have many friends, you still feel that your heart is lonely.

In fact, on the one hand, we want to be treated sincerely, and on the other hand, we are afraid that our sincere treatment will fail. It's really a matter of our attention, you have to know that what you do may be different from you. In the face of a relatively new person, to show your sincerity, you need to take your relationship seriously.

is able to understand what you are doing, in fact, it is a relatively run-in process of getting along.

For true friends, we are all very capable of handling it. True friends have the quality of caring for each other, in fact, even if you don't have the same common interests, as long as you can do good things, you can treat them sincerely. Just like my friends, we knew we didn't fit in in some ways.

It may not be appropriate for us to do things together, but we will still take care of each other. I know that his personality is like this in a lot of things, so I'll help him with some of the aftermath. He knew that some of my relationships would not be handled well, so he was more tolerant of me.

Furthermore, true friends need to be maintained. In fact, many friends around you can develop, but you see if you are willing. The difference between a true friend and an ordinary friend is whether or not they can talk about things, in fact, it is determined slowly for friends.

You have to learn to tell others that others have your "secrets" and that you have your own limits, which are very simple expressions of the upgrade of your friends. Start with some small things, and slowly you will know whether the person on the other side can be trusted.

Maybe it may be your personal delusion, everyone has true friends around them, maybe it is because of their own momentary sadness or some misunderstanding to have such a feeling.

When you are young, you will have a particularly good playmate, she plays with you every day, goes to class together, eats together, and the two of you are inseparable, so it is also very good to have such a friend who has played since childhood. Two people know each other and sometimes they quarrel over something, but neither of them separates.

Maybe because of the complexity of society, in this society, if you don't have money, it is very difficult to survive without status, some people may be confused by money, and some people will even harm their friends because of interests, but I think this is particularly inappropriate.

True friends will give you a sense of security, so that you feel that as long as she is around, there will be no big problems, you will trust her unconditionally, there are many true friends, it depends on who is the most important in your own heart, you have to cherish the friendship between you, don't make trouble because of a little thing, because there are few people who can make you comfortable and say what is on your mind.

Maybe you are getting bigger and bigger, everyone is experiencing more and more things, some people contact you because of face, some people contact you because of your position, you have to distinguish everyone's purpose, if you want to find a true friend, then you show your sincerity and treat that person well.

I believe that many people are making friends with sincerity, don't think crankily every day, thinking will only lead to your life getting worse and worse, and there is truth everywhere in the world.

This feeling of yours is right, for a long time, I also felt the same way, I always felt that I had paid a lot, but others still did not regard you as his good friend, I always felt that I had paid, and I would always get a hug, even if it was a word of thanks!

Kecheng thought, in his eyes, people have never regarded you as a good friend, when you bother him every day, he can't bear to get angry, it is already the best state, and he will still treat you as a good friend.

The premise of a good friend, you must be at the same height, there is no money to borrow from each other, this is the premise of a good friend, if you can't meet this premise, then when you go to pay, others will definitely think that you have to ask for him, and people will become unreasonable to you.

An old friend has recently made a little money, and you can clearly feel that he is not as fun as when they were together before, so slowly, your relationship will fade.

The best state is when you are on the same level, and that's when true friends begin!

Not only does love depend on fate, I think whether two people can become friends is also related to whether there is fate. And whether you can become true friends depends on whether you get along harmoniously, appreciate each other, and trust each other. If you don't treat the other person as a true friend, how can he treat you as a good friend?

No one is stupid, as long as you are good to him, he can feel it and will respond to you.

If you want to find true friends, you must first distinguish how those people around you treat you, and know what is a true friend and what is a real villain. Don't be foolish enough to believe that everyone is your best friend. Everyone has many facets, and if you want to find friends, find people who are like-minded with you and have the same three views.

Because you have a common language and a common goal, it is easy to agree on the same point of view and resonate with friendship.

If you really can't find a good friend, don't blindly be very nice to someone, and don't treat everyone as a friend. Because often when you treat others as friends, others may not take you seriously. You have to learn to protect yourself and make yourself stronger.

Just because it's hard to meet a confidant in life doesn't mean you can't really meet it, it may just be that fate hasn't arrived.

So now I often feel very lonely, because there may be roommates and classmates around me, but there are no true friends, and in many cases I want to go back to the past, back to high school, or even back to elementary school, because at that time, everyone has no scheming, they will neither appear on the surface, but also behind the scenes, and will not wait until there is something to help you to look for, let alone hypocritically greet, but in my heart is constantly slandering you, so in many cases, I really think that the more people grow up, the more lonely they become, because the people around you have locked their hearts, so sometimes even if you give your heart, you won't get anything in return.

In fact, I have always believed that there will be a return if you pay, but gradually, I began to find that the truth is no longer like that, because in many cases, even if you pay, you will not get a return, and maybe these have something to do with your own character, but at the same time, it is undeniable that the people around you are no longer as kind and lovely as before, sometimes they may isolate you, but you don't know why, so the human heart is something we can never guess, and true friends are even more difficult to make.