I feel very uncomfortable, and I really don t know what to do with such a boyfriend.

Updated on psychology 2024-02-26
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The words on Weibo, any comfort has not worked as well as you can see through it, so don't be sad all day long, obviously there is still a lot of road to go, a lot of pits to pass, a lot of passes to break, a lot of ** to shoot, a lot of articles to write, a lot of books to read, a lot of clothes to buy, a lot of prices to cut, a lot of challenges. I have to face a lot of people, I have to say goodbye to a lot of time, I have to count a lot of feelings, I have to miss it, I have to close my eyes and sleep, and I will still be a woman tomorrow.

    I can't let it go, it may not hurt to the extreme, but I think falling in love should be a pleasant process, and if I'm always sad with him, I think it may still be inappropriate. There is also the fact that girls are always half a beat slower than boys in their relationships, and he may no longer be in a relationship.

    Finally, the breakup is not as terrible as you imagined, but you are holding on now, if it is still like this or worse after marriage, how long can you last! In the end, it is you who can save you from the dire situation.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is estimated that the breakup will be even more terrifying! He will say, how good am I to you, how good is my mother to you, why are you still so hypocritical to break up? ......Typical machismo.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Grumpy and unreasonable, don't think about you, and it will still be the case in the future, you still plan early.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's divided, and miscellaneous can be like this.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's ......It's too scary, you have to know that he has the first time and the second time, the third time

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you feel that your boyfriend doesn't care about you, you should talk to your boyfriend and make it clear to him. Because a girl's sixth sense is actually very accurate, as long as you feel that your boyfriend doesn't care about you, then in fact, 80% of this thing is true, all you need to do is to find out to him, and ask him directly if he feels that he has not been caring about you recently. If he really wants to go with you, he will value your feelings, and in the days to come, she will gradually become interested in you; If he doesn't care about you because he doesn't like you, then there is actually no point in being together, and when it is time to say break up, say break up.

    There is also a situation where he is angry with you, angry with you or in a cold war, which makes you feel that he is not interested in you. In that case, you need to give him a step, coax him, be coquettish, pretend to be wronged, make him feel that he is needed, and slowly he will be interested in you, and then do something with him that can make him happy, and this matter will pass.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The truth is so, but in reality, once some people think that the relationship has been determined, they unconsciously return to the state before falling in love, thinking that it is a fact anyway, and they do not pay attention to the ritual sense of life. 2.Maybe he's really too tired, as a girl, be considerate of him, the burden of life, the pressure of work, sometimes can really make people collapse, these, may make him ignore your feelings, give him some time, let him relax, maybe he will take the initiative to find you.

    3.Maybe you're too clingy and he's kind of trying to run away. Everyone has their own space, don't pester you all day.

    Men and women are different, when a woman is in love, her whole mind will fall on her lover, but unlike a man, he will also put his friends first, and sometimes, he will light up his friends. 4.As the saying goes, distance produces beauty, if the distance is gone, the beauty is gone, I advise you to re-evaluate your relationship, the two of you communicate calmly, get along well, don't love it, don't force it.

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  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If your boyfriend doesn't care about you. Explain more temper and contradictions with him well, and then after the quarrel, he will realize his problems, and then he will be better for you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you take the initiative to separate from your boyfriend for a while and let your boyfriend reflect on himself.

    Only by giving your boyfriend that sense of crisis in the relationship will he be able to realize the seriousness of the matter.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    All you need to do is ask him if he feels like he's been paying attention to you lately, why he's letting himself feel the way he does, and if you're not sure if he loves you as much as he used to, it's best if you both change.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Is it because you're too sensitive, or is your boyfriend really not interested in you either? Saying such things, you should make a good heart, have a good chat with your boyfriend, and untie the knots in your heart. Is he under a lot of pressure at work during this time?

    Or what's the reason for not caring enough about you. You should understand why this is the case, don't be suspicious, the relationship between two people needs to be maintained by both parties. Problems are identified and resolved as soon as possible.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since you feel that he doesn't care about you anymore, then you shouldn't care much about you, so you don't care so much about him, don't care too much about his attitude towards you, this is not good for yourself, he doesn't care about you, you care about yourself is not good.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't know why you think your boyfriend doesn't care about you, because ah, a boy's thinking, he may be a little different from you, so if you have any requirements for your boyfriend, you can also tell the other party directly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think what should you do by yourself should study and study, you should go to work, you should play, keep your life first, if he cares about you, he will come to chat with you, ask you out, you will feel his love for you and want to contact you, if you feel that he doesn't need you, don't look for you, then what else to expect, continue to live happily on your own, and wait for the next one that is more suitable for you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then you can not pay too much attention to him, develop yourself directly, improve your charm, so that he will be attracted to you and will become more and more interested in you. The more you pester, the more disgusted he is likely to be.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I feel that my boyfriend doesn't care about you, so I suggest that you go down with him and see what the reason is.

    Sometimes men are very aggressive, careless, and will not be as careful as girls, or very passive, wooden, which may be misunderstood by you as not paying attention, which is not a matter of principle.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then you have to enlighten him well, let him be interested in you, and you yourself have to be good to others, you can't let people unilaterally selflessly pay, if you are not good to others, don't expect others to be good to you as a matter of course. Everyone is mutual, we must care for each other and understand each other!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I feel that my boyfriend is not interested in you, and you must find the problem, the key is to find this problem? Sit down with the other person to solve the problem, if the other person is not willing to sit down with you to solve the problem, it means that he doesn't like you anymore!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That falling in love should also pay attention to strategy and method, at the beginning, it may be very good for you, after a long time, it will slowly calm down, and the pair of boys, may have to adopt the feeling of wanting to catch and indulge. Give him an occasional state of immediacy, and maybe his heart will be nervous, and he will always be with you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Maybe your boyfriend doesn't realize that he doesn't care enough about you, and it will make you feel bad in your heart. Men are more careless, you can tell him directly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It should be the reason for your boyfriend's personality that your boyfriend doesn't care about you, so if you love each other, you can also take the initiative.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not that he's not that attentive to you, he just doesn't think of you as the first priority in life anymore. Because you get it, you are there, you will not run, you will not disappear, you can wait until you are free to love you, which is also a kind of willfulness of men.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I feel that your boyfriend doesn't care about you and doesn't mention breaking up, and he's also a man who lacks a sense of responsibility, emotional things are the most inexplicable and impossible to fight for, people who don't love themselves won't love anything, I feel like it's better to let go at the right time, women, you must find someone who cares about yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is also possible that you think too much and are too sensitive, the most important thing is to look at your boyfriend's usual performance, because your boyfriend's usual performance is the most important thing for you, everyone has everyone's things to do, everyone has everyone's work to be busy and may ignore themselves.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If your feelings are right, it means that your boyfriend may be half-hearted about the relationship, you have to talk to her seriously, if the two of you are together, it is not good to have any privacy.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    He doesn't care about you, you have to see if he really likes you

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you feel uncomfortable after knowing your boyfriend's past, here are a few ways to consider:

    1.Communication: Talk openly with your boyfriend about your feelings and concerns and let him know that you need him to help you overcome uncomfortable emotions. He may have some good solutions, or he will understand your feelings and try to alleviate your upset. Whoa.

    2.Seek support: Talk to a trusted friend or family member about how you're feeling, and they may be able to give you some comfort and support.

    3.Self-growth: Try to let go of the past and focus on the relationship in the present. There are a few techniques you can try to learn to help you relax and focus on the current relationship.

    4.Seek professional help: If you're feeling very distressed and can't resolve it on your own, you may want to consider seeking help from a psychologist or counselor. They can help you deal with your emotions and anxiety and help you find ways to cope with uncomfortable emotions.

    Most importantly, remember that everyone has a past, and whether you like it or not, it will affect your present and future. The key is to learn how to deal with these emotions and feelings so that you can build a healthy Guanma Tsunade pants tie.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Love is very wonderful, especially when two people are in a crush, although neither of them says it, but it will be shown through many details, such as through the following details.

    1.When two people look at each other, their eyes will be full of warmth.

    Human eyes do not lie, two strangers look at each other and two people who love each other, the feelings shown in their eyes are different, if two people are secretly in love with each other, then when two people look at each other, their eyes will be full of warmth, full of pampering each other.

    2.Two people will be more concerned about each other's behavior.

    My roommate used to have a crush on a boy in our class, and my roommate paid special attention to whether what he did was disgusting to the boy, so every time there was a boy, the roommate would dress up very well and pay attention to his words and deeds. For that guy, every time he saw my roommate, he would pay attention to his words and actions.

    3.Two people who have a crush will spoil each other more in their behavior.

    If I take a pen and accidentally scratch my roommate, then my roommate will chase me to the dorm. But for the object of her crush, the boy hasn't had time to apologize, and the girl has already begun to say that it doesn't matter, this is because among the two crushes, both parties will spoil each other more.

    4.Two people who have a crush will find each other first in public.

    When we had a class reunion, my roommate was the first to find out where her crush was, and only when she found herself was she relieved. Because I am particularly worried that some of my behaviors will disgust the object of my crush, I will care about where the crush is, and part of the reason is that I miss each other more, so I want to see each other in time.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you feel that your boyfriend doesn't care about you, you can show your dissatisfaction appropriately, and when your boyfriend realizes it, he will pay more attention to you!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Feel that your boyfriend is not interested in you, this is actually a manifestation of your inner lack of confidence, to make your inner self-confidence sunny and optimistic and positive, do not have suspicion and doubt about these so-called things, give yourself a strong self-confidence, let yourself become more determined and resolute, only in this way, your boyfriend will be impressed by you, and will not be unconcerned about you, this is just an illusion generated by your lack of self-confidence.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think what should you do by yourself should study and study, you should go to work, you should play, keep your life first, if he cares about you, he will come to chat with you, ask you out, you will feel his love for you and want to contact you, if you feel that he doesn't need you, don't look for you, then what else to expect, continue to live happily on your own, and wait for the next one that is more suitable for you. Girls don't expect and rely on each other too much, but they are more attractive.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If even when you are in love, he doesn't care about you at all, it means that he may not like you very much in his heart, and only when he likes someone very much, he will remember all the words that the other person has said. It is advisable to choose to break up. When you meet someone who is really good to you, you realize how ridiculous your persistence looks now.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I feel that my boyfriend doesn't care about myself, I think it's not enough to know each other when I get along with each other, in fact, if two people get along, there must be some common interests and hobbies, and my boyfriend's dislike can only show that they do lack some fun to get along with each other.

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