I have nothing to repay him, and only by trying to cherish this friendship is the best way to repay

Friendship is not valuable, not in the friendship itself, but in how much the other party can repay you when you pay to the other party, the more true the return, the more lasting and valuable the friendship will be.

Do you really need to repay your efforts? It can only be said that the phrase "pay does not necessarily have a return" is very true, but pay needs to be rewarded, because return is the motivation for us to continue to pay. So if you have been giving unilaterally, whether it is love or friendship, it will not last.

Because feelings also need a balance, and if the weight of one side exceeds the range, the balance will be lost.

Efforts need to be rewarded. "If you are really good to a person, you have to pay everything, if you are really good to a person, you will not ask for anything in return, and if you are really good to a person, you don't need to reciprocate," it is basically those who are impure, selfish and greedy, and just want to rely on the body and money of the giver without paying a slight, and let the giver be a cow and a horse to serve him come up with the cliché of tricking simple and kind people, and those poor kind people are still making a spring and autumn dream of dedication there!

Therefore, kind people, it is completely necessary for you to keep your eyes open and observe the other party's character and way of doing things before you pay.

How's the friendship? How about love? The warmth and utilization between people are like the upstream and downstream of a river, the exchange is the same source, the world has never been clean, how can people simply only want to choose one?

As with love, find true friends. Difficult.

How do you say this? I'm also a mystery.

What is friendship among friends is that they do not care about the gains and losses of interests, and they are purely from the perspective of feelings. If you care, it's not called friendshipBut there are many kinds of friendships, just like friends, there are sincere friends, there are hypocritical friends, and there are friends who drink and meat.

But it is inevitable that you are sincere to him, but he is false to you. If that's the case, let him be abandoned! What does it mean to not ask for anything in return?

That's deceptive, and the relationship between people is interdependent, and if you say something ugly, you take advantage of it. Of course, it is undeniable that there is a feeling that does not ask for anything in return, but before the original relationship is gone, you still have to see if this person is valuable to you, this person is worth dating, and you don't have a heart-to-heart relationship! For example, would a professor have a real friendship with a beggar?

No, even if there is contact, the professor will just laugh after the fact. The beggar also knows the identity and will not look for him, unless he is a person who has grown up since he was a child, it is relatively simple, but when he grows up. One side is poor, unmotivated, lazy, and self-aware.

People still take his help for granted, and every time they go to another person to borrow money or do something, they say it. Our friendship, affection. Let me ask, those who say that they don't care about the return, will you not care?

Can you not care? And there's still friendship with this! Therefore, no matter what reason, what feelings still have to be divided into who is right and what is right!

Friend, so don't listen to what others say, but look at your own feelings, what your own heart thinks. He is worth your effort, so don't think about the gains and losses, if you are not mistaken, then the effort will definitely be rewarded. No matter how much you pay for people who are not worth it, in the end, the bamboo basket will be empty.

Not only do you lose money and goods, but your feelings also have to be hurt, so why bother? A person worthy of association, in the process of communication and mutual assistance, friendship slowly sprouts and grows. In the end, it becomes a deep relationship, and it will definitely not be counted, and you will not think like this when you think about it.

But now that you think about it, it means that your friendship or relationship is not very strong. It doesn't stand the test. Friends, don't be deceived and hurt by some people under the guise of friendship.

Today's society is very complicated, and sometimes it is not because we are stingy and upright, but because we are forced by reality. It is necessary to be kind and tactful. We don't want to be hypocritical, but sometimes, without hypocrisy, we can't live happily in this society!