When you first started working, what was the loneliest moment?

My project was photographed off by the company's leaders, and at that time, I felt that it was my own low and I didn't even look at the fruits of my labor, so I took it away. ‍‍

Studying in Japan, working three jobs in the summer vacation, I was so tired that I broke the hotel plate in one night, was scolded to death by the boss, and had no one to talk to in a foreign country, very lonely. ‍‍

I ordered a table of Malatang, and the 4 colleagues who came out to play together didn't eat, and I finished eating silently alone.

Later I left that company.

During the Chinese New Year, most of my friends have returned to their hometowns. Except for myself, who worked overtime in the company, no one greeted me, and that was when I was the loneliest. ‍‍

In the company, you face the computer every day, you are tired every day, and you feel lonely when the leader does not recognize your achievements. ‍‍

When my colleagues were hypocritically telling themselves that your salary in the field was not as much as ours, and no one told you the truth, I was really helpless at that time. ‍‍

I have my own company that has to come up with a project every time, and if there is no project, there is no way to survive, so when the project cannot be discussed for a long time, I can't help you, and I feel very lonely. ‍‍

In September 08, I reported to the new company, because my mother came to see me off because I was far away from home, and the newcomers didn't understand anything when I went to the company, so I was excluded, and there was no one who spoke for myself, so I felt lonely. ‍‍

When I encounter problems and doubts that I can't solve, I especially feel lonely and helpless, and once I messed up a project in the company, I feel that I am a very failure, and I feel lonely. ‍‍

When you first joined the company, you were excluded, no one wanted you to do projects or anything, you felt so incompetent, and there was no one with a sincere person to take you. ‍‍

Before work, when we were students, we had a similar age, the same social status, and the same spare time, so we also had more common topics, and it was easier for everyone to get together because of similar interests.

After work, work from 9 to 5 every day, two o'clock line, you can only deal with colleagues, at work, many people are of different ages, focus on different interests, it is difficult to have a common topic, even if you want to make an appointment with some old classmates and good friends, it is difficult for both sides to be on the same plane, either you are busy or the other party has no time. Maybe you have more and more contacts on WeChat, but there are not many people who can really chat, and it seems that you have increased your circle of friends, but in real life it is getting smaller and smaller.

I became independent.

When you are still in school, when you encounter grievances and difficulties, you have friends and parents behind you, all of whom are your solid backing, and you can really feel the warm arms, even if it is hard, you are not afraid.

After work, you will find that you should learn to bear independently, encounter more and more things that need to be carried by yourself, even if it is difficult, gritting your teeth will pass, begin to plan your future, see how heavy the burden on your body needs to bear, although you will feel extremely lonely at this moment, but at this time you are also the most powerful, when you step into the workplace the moment you know that you are no longer a child.