How do people make good trade offs, and how should they make trade offs in life

In fact, the trade-offs in life are inevitable, every choice means giving up, but not choosing is not good, just do what you think is right, and, don't regret it, stick to it, no matter what the result is, don't complain, because people must be responsible for the results caused by their choices, so that life will be happy! Of course, don't be too reckless, think carefully, and look up some information to help you choose when necessary.

The road not selected.

The road not taken divides into two paths in the yellow woods.

Unfortunately I could not set foot at the same time, and I stood at the junction for a long time, and I looked at a road until it disappeared into the depths of the jungle.

But I chose another path, which was barren and very lonely, and it seemed more attractive and beautiful;

Although on this trail, there are few travelers' footprints.

The leaves were all over the ground that morning, and neither road was unpolluted by footprints.

Ah, leave a path and see you another day!

But I know that the path is endless, and I am afraid that it will be difficult for me to return.

Maybe somewhere in many years, I will look back with a soft sigh:

There are two paths in a wood

And I chose the one with fewer people, and from then on decided the path of my life.

Talking about trade-offs》 Many times, we will find that life is not like an exam, many difficult questions, and there are no standard answers.

In particular, the widely discussed, morally relevant choices are often confusing and confusing.

For example, the tram problem is indeed classic; Many people must have heard of it, so let's simplify it: should we sacrifice a person who is not in danger in order to save the people who are going to die?

The complexity lies in the inseparability between "whether to abandon less and keep more" and "whether to block the natural development of things".

When faced with trade-offs, we should distinguish between right and wrong first, and then distinguish between the important and the important. Profit is to put others before yourself, and harm is to put yourself before others; Take the light of the harm, take the heavy of the benefit: that's right. Otherwise, it's wrong.

And there is no right or wrong choice, only a difference between the important and the serious. In the case of multiple-choice questions, if the answer is all wrong, it is all right. If you have to choose one out of many, and you don't choose any one, it's wrong: then you have to choose any one, it's right.

Right and wrong are easy to distinguish, and it is difficult to distinguish between the important and the serious. It is difficult to distinguish between right and wrong, which is even more painful. After all, there are often public opinions to learn from right and wrong, and the severity is all measured by selfishness.

Generally speaking, there is often no right or wrong choice without an accepted answer, and it should not be subject to moral judgment and legal sanctions. Since there is no right or wrong, you can choose according to your heart's priorities: this is the case with the tram problem.

Some people are precious gold, some people are precious jade, and they all value the treasure and the loved one. Obviously, the weight of a thing depends both on itself and on the person who weighs it.

But the name in the heart varies from person to person. If you use your own standards to weigh the weight of others' trade-offs, there will definitely be deviations. Therefore, when we seek common ground, we should also pay attention to reserving differences; Don't be within the right range and harshly question the answers of others.

However, the ancients said: "Great virtue is not more than idle, and small virtue is in and out, but also." "If the decision is so important that it may affect the natural evolution of humans or other living beings, it should not be taken lightly. If human beings act too much and too heavily against the heavens, they will surely bring harm to themselves.

There will be retribution for the great good that benefits the heavens and the great evil that hurts the heavens—this retribution is not in the present generation, but in the future. And the punishment of heaven for human beings is small for the manifest and great for the hermitted; Among them, the most important is to shorten the time of human existence.

The trade-offs in life are large and small, and there are all kinds of trade-offs. And regret, like an incurable disease, can only be prevented, not **: the choice has been decided, and regret is useless. If you are not confused about big things, you are wise; As for the little things, don't be too shrewd.

The wise man will be hazy in his little things; Those who are ignorant will be observant of small things. Covering the service is the root of ignorance, and the hole of hazy wisdom is also. (Uttered in "Caigen Tan").

Trade-offs are crucial in life. Lu Xun's abandonment of medicine and literature changed his life and began his literary creation. If he hadn't made such a trade-off, he might just be a doctor who heals people and healed people, and he wouldn't have become a generation of writers.

Successful people succeed because they know what to do and what not to do. What should be insisted on, and what should be discarded.

It is not an easy thing to choose, it should be: to give, to give up first. And if you give up, you will eventually get it. And whether you are reluctant to give it up, and how to give it up like a hidden wisdom, and how to get it, it all depends on yourself.

Therefore, the trade-offs in life are very important for everyone.

Summary. Many things, only after you have really experienced them, will you understand and understand, you are not willing to give something or give up something, how can you get it easily. This world is mutual and equal, and it is impossible to blindly only get, so only if you are willing to give up something, you can get other things.

In fact, life is a series of trade-offs, there is a give-and-take, and there is a give-and-take.

My dear <> am happy to answer for you, people should make trade-offs, they must understand trade-offs, and know silence. Silence is not weakness, nor is it compromise, it is to look down on many things that have rotted Zhaobu Duan, understand many people, understand what things should be taken, and which things should be honored. <>

Thank you. Many things, only after you have really experienced it, will you understand and understand that if you are not willing to give something or give up something, how can you get it easily with Zhongsheng. This world is mutual and equal, and it is impossible to blindly only get, so Peihong can only get other things if you are willing to give up some things.

In fact, life is a series of trade-offs, there is a give-and-take, and there is a give-and-take.