Breaking up with your first love I mentioned, how did your first love break up?

If you really think that there is no need to be together anymore, why force it anymore, doesn't it mean that the twisted melon is not sweet? Maybe it's because she willfully wants you to continue chasing her, or maybe she really doesn't want to be with you anymore, you can cool her down first, see her reflection, sometimes you should learn to give up, so that you can grow, don't always stay in the memories of the past.

What kind of first love is this, young man.

This girl can see that she is a little willful, a little childish, and has the same temperament as me.

When you're not together, you like him and pretend not to like it, you're together, you care a lot but you pretend not to care... Women are naturally shy and afraid to face it directly, so their behavior is often the opposite of what they think in their hearts.

I said I hated my boyfriend, but I loved it so much... I can't wait for the other party to live in my own blood, I love so much, I care so much, this is the love from the heart. However, women are generally ashamed to express themselves and are not direct enough to confess.

So that's why Chinese women are not as bold as foreign women. There are really not many women who can like it and express it directly. So, your girlfriend is probably the same as I said above.

If you rule out the above possibility, then you should consider what you say, she really doesn't like you and doesn't care about you. This situation can give you a suggestion, first give 4 chances, sincerely ask her what she thinks, and then, ask her what her opinion is about this relationship, she said to break up, then give her 4 more chances, she still insists on breaking up, then I'm sorry, you really have to say goodbye, no matter how hard the result is, you have to accept it.

Mortals can't do things like gods, don't drag the mud and water, be refreshing and simple. Especially men.

A woman's world is a man's world, and a man's world is a world (not a single woman).

Do you understand what this means? The world is big, and there is everything, including women. Got it?

There is nothing reluctant, there are definitely many opportunities for you to learn and grow in a person's life, so, you are reluctant to break up this time, afraid of pain or what, so how do you face more reluctance and more pain in the future? If you are a man, you should be strong, learn to grow yourself, and let yourself have more ability to withstand more pressures in all aspects in the future.

Dude, you're unrequited love, not first love. If you don't marry her and have masochistic tendencies, go ahead. It's not feelings that you can't let go, it's habits.

If you are willing to give up, you will have to give to you.

First love is originally young, so let's leave a good memory for each other.

Hope it helps you (* hee-hee......

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No one is reluctant to belong to the first love! But look at the people around you, how many of them can achieve positive results in their first love? Because it is the first time to fall in love with the opposite sex, you may not know how to love each other!

You say that you always give blindly and do not reap happiness. In fact, love is not like a scale, the pay is always not proportional to the gain! If she really wants to play ambiguously with you, you just throw your sleeves and stop it... After all, you don't have to waste your strength tossing yourself like this!

Find the next person who can give you happiness!

Only one party's relationship can't last long, you already want to get back together, but she doesn't agree, why bother yourself? If you let go, she will regret it when she thinks of you in the future, and you, you have to think about it, if you don't let go of this one, how to find the next one Come on.

Giving up is perhaps the best option.

Love is warm and romantic, and first love will leave a good feeling. Because of Li Trembling, in our minds, first love should be the most beautiful and complete state. ......But the reality is not always as we hope, and in many cases the first love will end in a breakup.

There are many reasons why this is the case. Specifically, it includes the three aspects of being too young to make the right choice at the time of first love, the fact that the first love focuses on feelings, which leads to the fact that the two parties in the relationship are not suitable in terms of realistic conditions, and the change in personal thinking as they grow older, which eventually affects the relationship.

1. Although the first love is beautiful, because the first love is too young, it is easy to break up because of improper choice.

When I first fell in love, I was not very old. People in this age group have not reached the state of true growth in all aspects, so it is easy to have problems in the specific choice of Dongtong. ......When it comes to love, there will be a first love that is very beautiful, but it may lead to a breakup for one reason or another.

This is one of the reasons why many first loves end up in a breakup.

2. First love focuses on feelings, but they may break up because the actual conditions are not suitable.

Love requires not only feelings, but also realistic conditions. ......Specifically, if two people in a relationship do not match in terms of personal conditions, or if their lives are affected by poor economic conditions, then even if a first love seems extremely beautiful, it will eventually end in a breakup. ......For first love, only focusing on feelings and not paying attention to the difference in real conditions are the practical reasons that lead to breakups.

3. As you get older, your thoughts change, which can have an impact on your relationship.

As one gets older, one's thoughts change at different times. Although this situation is very normal in the process of growing up, it can have a very big impact on love. ......Specifically, after falling in love, as you get older, your thoughts may be very different from the beginning of your relationship, and your attitude towards your first love will change, which may eventually lead to a breakup, which is an important reason why many first loves end in a breakup.

First, the first love is generally just together when you feel that the other party and yourself are very suitable, often blind, as long as the other party has a little to satisfy your fantasy of the other half, basically will not hesitate to be with each other, just like the often said love makes people impulsive, you will not even have a little idea, you will want to spend your life with each other, but as time goes by, you will find that there is a gap between the three views of the two people, and the most vertical roll finally feels that it is not suitable to break up directly.

Second, the first time in love, no experience, to the other party to the fullest, and eager to give everything to the other party, when the problem comes, we think that love is everything, quarrels, crying, bruises. Add your thoughts and expectations of love to this relationship, and those thoughts are not life, some will be very unrealistic, and it is difficult for the other party to meet his expectations. In addition, he has no experience in love, and his tolerance for problems in the relationship is very low.

If both people are unwilling to resolve and compromise, then a breakup is inevitable.

Third, the first love gave the most sincere emotions at the same time, but also the most immature or the most naïve appearance to the other party, but the other party can not accept such a burden-bearing feelings, at that time we did not have too heavy a sense of responsibility, and did not understand that this precious thing is difficult to meet in this life, met too early their own mind can not support to bear such heavy feelings. But there is only one chance for chain celery, and when there is enough maturity and experience to withstand this sincere love, the original person has already been separated, and some misses are destined to be a lifetime.

Fourth, people who fall into first love are often emotional, but also very impulsive and irrational, and it is easy to misevaluate themselves because of the other party's obsession, that is, the other party is so obsessed with themselves, they must have absolute charm to let themselves meet better people, in fact, it is just the first love that causes emotional loss, and has nothing to do with their real advantages, and even found out after many years that it is good to find a partner on their own terms, but it is a pity that they missed the person who is willing to love themselves humbly.