Parents are biased, what should I do?

When I grew up, I realized that in fact, the so-called "sensible children" are just children who know how to wronged themselves to protect adults. I have the same miserable life as you, and I am better than you because I have no brothers and sisters.

If there is something "bad" in the habit, the family will blame it. It seems that you are born to owe someone else.

I think you've done a good job, but your family's conflicts have been backlogged for a bit too long, and if you don't solve them, it's hard to say whether they will erupt, and even if they don't, how long do you think you'll have to endure them? For a lifetime? Parents love their children, but it seems that most parents prefer younger children.

You should take the initiative to solve these things with them, talk openly and honestly, tell them what you think, don't worry about their attitude, and believe that as long as you are a parent, you will treat your children well, and they should understand you, understand your empathy and sense of responsibility. What you did was not wrong, and don't worry that complaining about your parents' injustice to your brother as an older brother will make them think that you are calculating, stingy, and ignorant. You should make it clear that the point is that their excessive partiality is unfair!

What you need is a statement, a statement that acknowledges your efforts! I hope you calmly think about what to say, don't be impulsive, and don't let years of hard work go to waste. The sooner you communicate with your parents, the better, and be bold to solve it, the more you delay, the more disadvantageous!

Also, people can't not explain because others misunderstand you, you must make it clear, no matter what the outcome is, what should be done can not be done, and the nature of saying and not saying is completely different!

Your brother won't be left alone in the future! Every year and every year, he may still be a little immature now, and he will be fine in two years!

Why do you think things so rough in the first place!

Besides, it's not allowed by law!

You are the big brother, now that the thing has been done.

Don't worry too much about it just yet! , Parents will definitely have a number in their hearts, but they don't talk about it, and when we pay, it's not just for the sake of return!

We will also be parents, how can you say that your children do not hurt?

Two children may love in different ways!

You may belong to the kind that makes your parents feel more at ease, even if your brother spends more money for him, his parents will still not be able to let go of him!

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read

It turns out that your focus is not on parental bias

But I feel that my parents are so good to my younger brother and have spent so much money, so my younger brother should support his parents in the future, but my younger brother is not a filial son, in case your parents are pushed to you, and you feel that your parents are not good enough for you, you have a little bit of jealousy in your heart, and you are not very willing!

But you have to know that whether you are biased or not, they are born and raised by you, and if you are a filial son, you shouldn't care about all this

Good people will be rewarded!

No matter what, be kind to your parents

They may think that you don't have to worry about it, that they believe in you, that's why they take better care of their brother, but what they do will be seen

Good people are rewarded!

How to say this, 1 person to do things, 1 way I personally think that there is something in my heart that should be solved After all, it is a family It can be said that people need to communicate I decide, you should often find time to chat with your parents or something, you can say your thoughts little by little Look at his attitude For example, you can say that they asked them to give their younger brother less money Otherwise, what should I do when I am old Talk more about these aspects The language should be polite It is best to help the old man do something when he goes home to visit the old man on Sunday Experience the old man's thoughts After a long time, when the old man is not annoyed, find an opportunity to say, Otherwise, do 1 or 2 things, and say that everyone is annoying, but it will be self-defeating, this is a little bit of my idea, the main thing is that you do it, you have to grasp the measure, and it is best to talk to your younger brother.

You go to the hospital to check the DNA, whether you were born to your parents or not!

Your parents are really too eccentric! The palms and backs of the hands are full of meat!

Maybe your parents think that your brother is young and you are older, so you should take more care of your brother, it is your mother's mistake.

Your mother is not a saint, it is inevitable that there will be biases, don't care about her, be filial when you should be filial, don't care what your mother does to your brother.

When the time comes, they should understand you.

Do what you have to do.

Children are flesh of the heart. Generally speaking, parents will pamper their children very much, but many times, it is difficult to balance the bowl of water. Therefore, what parents can do is to try to keep a bowl of water flat, and in the case of children, they should do the following methods to adjust themselves.

One isBe broad-minded and generous to others. Since the birth of my younger brother, my parents have focused on my younger brother. You must know that your parents gave birth to your first child, and when you were born, your parents also took care of you wholeheartedly and doted on you.

My younger brother is now born exactly like you were when he was born, so it's not that your parents don't love you anymore, but that you have grown up and can be independent, and your second brother needs to be taken care of more.

The second isWe must improve ourselves and be grateful to our parents. Parents have always been upright and willing to give everything for their children, so in order to repay their parents, it is recommended to add more value to themselves, to be the best in their studies and the most outstanding in their work. If you have excellent children, your parents will naturally like you more.

Parents' love for their children is selfless, does not ask for anything in return, we should think more about the parenting grace of our parents, think more about the love of our parents, don't think about those unpleasant things, to be broad-minded, generous, parents are old, how long can they live? Our parents' dedication to us is something we can't repay, don't make our parents sad because of some details, that's not our attitude as sons of man.

As a mother, I don't think so! The child is a piece of meat that falls from the parents, eccentric words can only be said to be the child which is weaker, parents are more worried about them, maybe individual parents will be like this, but I won't, I love the child as life, my husband is outside, I am inside, from pregnancy to birth, to kindergarten to college, three children I have been accompanying, the child is very healthy, the process of taking them is very tired, and the time to sleep day and night is relatively small, as a child, it is not easy for you to know how to be grateful to your parents, Don't feel that your parents are partial because of a little thing, except for your parents, no one really treats you well, and your parents' love is the purest love in the world.

I don't care if my parents are partial to other siblings or not, I just understand that my parents are kind to me, and they should be and are not exhausted. Change your mentality, regardless of whether you are partial or not, as a child, work hard to learn, improve, and improve yourself, strive to be self-reliant and self-reliant as soon as possible, end asking for it from your parents as soon as possible, and then repay your parents as soon as possible, so that your parents can rest assured, and your children will treat you like you in the future.

In the past, in families with many children, most parents had varying degrees of preference for their children. It's just obviously not obvious. But only a few parents admit to having a preference.

As a child, there is no way, and it is useless to say anything. What you can do is not to have preference for your children in the future. I look forward to growing up and becoming independent soon!

You can earn money, eat your own food, wear your own clothes, and buy what you like. Only if you are independent of your life is your own, and you don't need to be constrained by others, otherwise it is "people have to bow their heads under the edge of the house".

Parents love their children, and this love is great and equal, and there may be some discrepancies in things, but there must be considerations for them. We don't want to be unbalanced in our hearts, we look at it with a normal heart, there is nothing, it will be endless, they are all children born to parents, how much worse can it be.

I am the best example, I have four brothers and sisters, one brother and one sister above me, I also have a younger sister, I and my sister are twins, because of the twins, my mother can't take it alone, so my sister brought it to my grandmother in six months! I didn't pick it up until I was 9 years old, so I don't need to talk about feelings! Not very close, my parents are more partial!

I have nothing to say to my brother and sister, but to me and my sister, forget it, my parents didn't care about me when I was 9 years old! Now that I'm 26, it's good for me, why it's good for me, maybe it started when the doctor said I might have cancer! Sometimes I understand the difficulty of my parents, and I also understand my parents, after all, I pity the hearts of parents all over the world!

It's not that parents are partial, but that parents express their children differently, the eldest is always the responsibility of the family, and major matters in the family are discussed and solved together, and we are just participating! Since childhood, parents have paid attention to the independence of the boss, cultivated the boss's responsibility, sense of responsibility, and took the overall situation into account! Often the second child in the family, is neglected, the old and the young are treated specially, delicious and fun think of the old and young first, at least need protection, need to be taken care of by brothers and sisters, in fact, no matter what status you are in the family, you must understand that the meat on the parents' bodies, the palms and backs of the hands are love, there is no need to be more serious about the weight of love, in fact, they all look at it the same, the way of expression is different, they don't have any mustard in their hearts, the love of parents needs to be understood and felt as children!

As a child, I am also very understandable, because when I was a child, I always thought that my mother was particularly partial to her younger brother. When I had two children, I realized that this is the last resort of all parents, and that restraint is not so good when the children are young. After the dispute between the two children, the two parents are also very embarrassed, and they also want to have a comprehensive result for the two children, but the children just don't get the results they want, and they are all unforgiving, and in the case of no way, they may feel that the eldest is older and can understand themselves, so they will unconsciously let the eldest let the second child.

As the old saying goes, there are still fingers that are not ordinary, so it is impossible for parents to be able to share the love of each child so clearly every time. As children, sometimes we really have to try to understand the difficulties of our parents. As long as our parents' love for us has not changed in the general direction, I don't think it is partial.

You need to rebuild your self-confidence, reshape your values, and re-understand your family of origin in a new environment.

This may be the only way to change your life.

When you grow into a person of normal mind, you can choose to support them, and that is called filial piety.

In order to avoid this situation, we recommend that the following things must be done: first, do not discuss the situation of the two people in front of the child; Second, do not compare the advantages and disadvantages of the two children; Third, when educating children, put an end to "your brothers and sisters are better than you!" "You can't be like your brother and sister, can you?"

Something like that; Fourth, when expressing love, bring the two of them together; Fifth, usually buy gifts, try to meet the preferences and needs of the two children fairly.

Hehe. Parental partiality is innate. I used to quarrel with them, why did they treat me so badly since they gave birth to me!

It's better not to give birth to me. Then my mom will say, "You think I'm willing to give birth to you!"

I knew that you were a daughter and lost money, so I didn't give birth. If you are born and can't be killed, you will go to jail. Hehe, and my family is very rich, so I should have assets of thirty or forty million.

It's all my sister's. After graduating, I worked outside by myself, and my sister had a house and a car, and the family bought her a BMW sports car. When I was studying, I said to me since I was a child, just for you to go to university, and you will fulfill your obligations.

It doesn't matter if I live or die in the future. Well, they did. This year, I was hospitalized with a serious illness and spent my own money.

Since the first day of hospitalization, I have ordered takeout by myself, and I struggle to get up and go to the door to buy a bowl of food when I don't want to eat takeout. My fellow patients always ask me: What about your family?

Why didn't your parents come?

The second week of hospitalization finally came, and throwing things off was a shame for me. I said I was sick and didn't want to quarrel with you in the hospital, you didn't want to come and I didn't need to come if you didn't want to come to see me. An aunt next door asked my mother directly

Did you give birth to this daughter or did you pick it up? Haha, I have already counted the partiality of my parents, and I originally hoped to get the warmth of family affection, but later I was desperate and completely dead. When you die, any of their eccentric actions will not cause you mental harm.

Now I am indifferent to any hurt, scolding, and indifference to them, and I ignore them and treat them with silence. Just like they said that raising me has done its duty, and I will also provide for the elderly in the future, but only fulfill the responsibility of providing for the elderly. I never received the warmth, and I can't figure out how grateful I was to them.

What's more, they also have a spoiled and arrogant eldest daughter who didn't die.

I'm the same, but I'm about to get married, stay away from these people from now on, marry a husband who loves you, mother-in-law is better than mother, believe in yourself, keep your eyes open to find a good husband, don't listen to your parents to marry, my parents want to marry a man who is very ugly in the family conditions, I found a husband who is generally good to me in the family, hehe, my parents that lion opened his mouth, my sister wants a bride price of 50,000 for marriage, and 100,000 for my husband, my husband loves me, give them, we didn't buy a house in the county, Specially owed foreign debts to buy a house in the city, just to stay away from these people, to my marriage that was noisy at home, Chinese New Year's Eve did not eat, to my husband and brother-in-law at that time, I gave them ten years of work, not a dime, my sister pocket more than 300,000, they pension and I want to take 100,000, to marry the money that my husband gave me, I am really angry, who told me that I grew up from my grandmother's house when I was a child, the more I want to find warmth from my parents, obedient and well-behaved, the more they think I am worthless, raised by outsiders, The more my sister is at home, the more rare she is, coax her, I, no longer have extravagant hopes, no parents, I still have a mother-in-law, husband, grandmother, grandfather, so don't be sad about things that are not worth it in life, see it clearly and stay away, my parents' partiality, my sister's shrewdness, alas, my uncle, aunt can't stand it, I don't say, the ugliness of the family can't be publicized, outsiders don't know, the person who really loves you is on your side, I don't need other sympathy, live my own life, be a good wife, a good daughter-in-law, Good mother of the future, come on.