When it comes to falling in love, can t girls be a little older than boys?

Updated on society 2024-04-15
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, there's nothing wrong with it, it's just an uncertain notion of people, my boyfriend is 3 months younger than me, but we are still together; He's a lot shorter than me, and we still soak together every day. If you love, age can't be a gully of our feelings, this threshold actually doesn't exist, don't worry, as long as you like it, it will be fine.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes! Love is ageless, love if you want!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hey, the girl I like is 9 years older than me, and I'm a firm believer that age isn't an issue.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, my mom is four years older than my dad, as long as you like it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Okay, my friend is younger than me, it's fine.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    As long as you like everything OK, now people don't have to have so many worldly problems! As long as you feel that you are doing the right thing, you must stick to it!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It doesn't matter, if you love him, he will love you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes! It's really fine.

    I don't know what you think, it's really every problem.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Someone who is destined, I also asked this question today, I was against it before, but fate really plays tricks on people, I just met someone who is 1 year younger than me, and when I really get along, I find that there is nothing Hehe, it feels the same.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It doesn't matter.

    Just like it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    As long as you feel good, haven't you been with her, and it's not someone else, no matter what they say.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why can't you be 10 years older?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No one said no.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My girlfriend is older than me.

    What's wrong with that.

    Her childish thinking was worse than mine.

    Sometimes she listens to me.

    Age is not an issue.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm also older than my boyfriend, but I always say small, I don't think it's anything.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It would be nice for men to be assertive.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Height is not a distance, age is not a problem!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    My girlfriend is a year older than me.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I like it too, but I think so.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Girls fall in love. Boys are a little older than girls. Yes, too.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In love, boys are older than girls, I think it's better, so boys know how to take care of girls, generally like each other, I don't think I care too much about age, but in general, boys feel better when they're older, because the file is closed for women to age fast, if the two of you are together, the boy's age is older than your line, so it won't be obvious that the girl is old.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, boys are better than girls, and if they are not oaks, they will be scattered like a sedan chair to see if you are compatible, as far as I know, generally boys are bigger than girls can be matched.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't think the most important thing is the age issue, the key is to see whether the emotional foundation of the two people is suitable in all aspects.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I'm going to like girls who are older than me, and I think it's better to have a relationship with a girl and a boy.

    1. It is easy to be controlled.

    As mentioned earlier, women tend to be more emotionally mature than men. In fact, not only in terms of emotion, women are often more far-sighted and mature than men. And a woman who is older than herself is much more mature and sensible than herself in all aspects.

    Therefore, a man who is with a woman of his age, Nesong often feels very unfree in daily life, and often feels that all aspects of himself are controlled by this woman, and he can only obediently listen to her, and any careful thinking of himself will be discovered by her, she doesn't know how many times smarter than herself, and she doesn't dare to resist her at all.

    Second, it feels like marrying a mother.

    People often refer to this emotional phenomenon of liking women older than themselves as the mother-love complex, that is, the Oedipus complex. Many men who like women older than themselves may often lack maternal love or mother's love in their childhood life, and it may be because they are too dependent on their mothers and have always been a child who has not grown up, so they will have feelings for those mature big sisters when they grow up. These men who have married women older than themselves often feel that they have married a mother in their lives, and they are more nostalgic and dependent on their mother's love, which is actually quite happy.

    There is no age or even gender boundary in loving Li Sleepy Zheng Qing, you love someone not because she meets any standards or conditions for you, but just because this person is her. Whether she is older or younger than you, whether her conditions at the moment will change over time, it is enough for you to love her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Sister and brother love is a very normal phenomenon, and there are many sister and brother love people who live well and happily, as a boy, it is completely acceptable to sister and brother love.

    Sister and brother love, the age difference can't be too big. Generally speaking, it is more appropriate to have a 3 or 4 year difference in sibling love. Although there is no standard age gap in sibling love, Bi Ji people often say:

    As long as it's true love, age isn't an issue. However, the age difference between sisters and brothers is too large, whether from a physiological point of view or from a psychological point of view, there will be more or less problems, the success rate will not be too high, and the happiness index will decline.

    Generally speaking, the psychological age of boys is about three or four years younger than that of girls, and sibling love can just make up for this difference. When girls are older, they can raise boys in life and work to make them mature faster. At the same time, girls will be more tolerant of boys, and will not quarrel because of a little thing, and this relationship will be more long-lasting and stable.

    It can also make two people close and successful.

    Sister and brother love, if the age gap between two people is too large, it may form a difference in three views, and emotional discord will inevitably occur. At the same time, girls enter the society relatively early, and with a certain economic foundation, the pressure on boys in the economy may be greater. Boys may be criticized by others, thinking that boys will take the money of older girls and become a little white face of a woman with superior conditions, which will damage their reputation and be under great mental pressure.

    Sister and brother love, boys should give girls enough security, women and boys younger than their own age, how much will be insecure, so as a man, you must give women enough security, such as more tenderness, more consideration and care for her, etc.

    Sister and brother love, need the recognition of family and relatives and friends, as a girl, should be integrated into the man's circle of friends as soon as possible, especially to get the recognition of the man's family, the affirmation of friends, establish a good relationship, so that the boy feels that it is right to associate with you.

    Sister and brother love, don't have psychological pressure. It is necessary to dilute the age gap and increase the investment in emotional regret socks. Don't be swayed by the world's eyes.

    As long as the two of you feel happy and happy. In real life, some people can't look down on others in their eyes, and think that the love between sisters and brothers is that girls eat tender grass, and boys want the interests of girls. Only when both men and women truly start from their feelings and love each other can they build self-confidence and stabilize the foundation of their relationship.

    Let the sister and brother love grow up healthy and happy, in order to reach the other side of happiness.

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