Is it true that a woman is virtuous if she is not talented?

No!! Only when a woman is talented can she understand right and wrong, so that she will not be ignorant, and she will not be at the mercy of others Those people who seem to be plain, if you try to understand them, you will find that they also have all kinds of troubles It depends on what your definition of "talent" is? "If you read too much of a book, you will have too many ideas" Yes, I haven't heard of it!

People who read a lot are accepting other people's thoughts, and most of them don't have their own thoughts! Moreover, people who read a lot are tired because there is too much knowledge (morality, reason, etc.) that binds them! "The more ideas I have, the more I want" "I want to get something, how do I do it, how do I do it, is it okay to do it......It turns out that it is so troublesome to get this thing.

Oh my God, it's better not to do it! Trembling, like thin ice. If you want to get too much, you have to not think too much.

If you think too much, bad thoughts will lead you to not dare to do it! "A woman is virtuous if she is not talented", a man becomes bad when he is rich, therefore, if he marries a man, he must marry a poor man, so that a man will not become bad! Do you think this statement is correct?

Actually, I personally agree with this sentence! But I also know that this sentence does not work in modern society, after all, the foundation of society has changed! I sometimes feel that our current society has raised the status of women too high, and women's ideological emancipation has gone too far, making our social foundation - family relations very weak, which is the so-called overkill!

And the direct cause of these can be directly attributed to the fact that women are over-educated, and the idea has become complicated!

Trouble, thanks!

No, nowadays, whether male or female, it is much better to be talented than talented.

A woman's lack of talent is virtue - Zhang Dai's "Public Sacrifice of Mrs. Qi" in the Qing Dynasty.

Original text: Mei Gong said: If the husband is virtuous, he is talented, and if the woman is not talented, he is virtuous.

Meaning: A woman does not argue with others because of her moral cultivation, not because she is not degrading that a woman cannot be talented.

What is female morality, the word itself has a strong discriminatory color, it is a proper noun in a patriarchal society, and it is a product of gender inequality. Fundamentally speaking, it does not arise from the inner pursuit of morality, the evolution of human nature, but is imposed by the outside world, and it is the condescending judgment of one group of people against another group of people.

"A man is virtuous, and a woman is virtuous." Strictly speaking, it was not Chen Jiru who said it himself, but was included by Chen in the book "Words of the Elder Ande". Therefore, it should be what Chen quoted from the "elders".

Although this sentence was born in the late Ming Dynasty, it has long been rooted. The traditional concept of talent and virtue is its soil.

"Virtue is more important than talent" is originally the belief of the Chinese, regardless of gender. In addition, the Chinese always advocate that men should be based on "virtue", and would rather give up "talent" and have "virtue", so it is said that "men with virtue are talent".

As for women, the Chinese have always attached no importance to their talents, but to their "women's virtues", and they are afraid that "talents can hinder morality", so there are such words as "women are virtuous if they are not talented".

For women in the past, the most important thing in their lives may be to get married and have children, but for women in the new era, this is no longer the case, because now women are becoming more and more independent and stronger. There are even some women who are more powerful than men, but no matter what, one day they will still get married, have children and start a family, so many women will not pay attention to these things, and they may not be happy after getting married, and even some are thriving in their careers, but they will be looked down upon by their in-laws. Do these three things, otherwise it may make your status in the in-laws' family lower and lower.

1.Close yourself.

First of all, the first point is not to close yourself in this family because you get married and start a family, and lose your original social circle, many women have their own personal lives at the beginning, and they have to have their own friends and their own life circles, but because they get married, they put all their focus on their own family and husband and children and cut off a lot of contact with friends, including the previous circle of friends slowly can't be integrated, but this approach is absolutely wrong, Because no matter what time it is, everyone has their own independent space, and everyone has their own circle.

If you don't go out at home every day, and get entangled in these trivial housework every day, life will not only be boring after a long time, but you will be depressed, in case you are angry at home and wronged or something, it is because you have cut off your circle of friends, and you don't even have a person who can listen to you and listen to you, how uncomfortable it is, and even if Liang Chong is her husband, she should not want to let her wife stay at home like an aunt every day around the pots and pans.

2.Give up your job.

Many women want to be a full-time wife after getting married, give up their jobs, give up their careers, and imagine washing dishes and cooking for their husbands every day after getting married. Because if once a woman gives up her career and gives up her job, she gives up not only a job, but also her self and the ability to be financially independent, if you don't have your own economy in this family, and always spend the money earned by men, after a long time, you will be subconsciously looked down upon in the eyes of the South and their families, and they will feel that you have nothing to pay in this family, only know how to spend money. Even if you quarrel with your husband, your husband will say, "What qualifications do you have to quarrel with me every day, what qualifications do you have to quarrel with me?"

Gradually, his family status will be lower and lower. And no man would like his wife, wearing an apron around pots and pans every day. They want a wife, not a nanny.

<>A woman is virtuous if she is not talented" is what Zhang Dai said, which means: the old moral code believes that women do not need to be talented, they only need to obey their husbands.

1) Pronunciation. 女无才是德: nǚ zǐ wú cái biàn shì dé

3) Examples. Chapter 37 of Feng Yuxiang's "My Xiaoxiang's Life": "A lady said that women should also study, and debunked the fallacy that women are virtuous if they are not talented. ”

The dross in traditional Chinese culture includes: emphasizing that women are virtuous if they are not talented, deliberately suppressing women's social status, being foolish and loyal, and being inferior in everything, only reading is high, and so on. In the face of these dross cultures, we must resolutely abandon them.

The traditional Chinese culture has a long history and is broad and profound, which is recognized by the world. However, "when the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds", and there are also some dross in traditional culture, which we need to discard. Only for the maintenance of the country's harmony, stability, prosperity and prosperity of the excellent culture, we need to inherit, and the dross culture must be resolutely resisted and abandoned, which is the philosophical "promotion and abandonment".

Deliberately suppressing women's social status and emphasizing that "women are virtuous if they are not talented" is one of the characteristics of feudal etiquette, which is also a dross part of traditional Chinese culture. Feudal etiquette propaganda that women are virtuous if they are not talented, and require women to stay at home "not out of the door, and not out of the second door", practice three from four virtues all day long, and be a female celebrity if they have nothing to do, and never read and read. Because it is useless to read books, the ancient imperial examinations also "turned women away".

It can be said that in ancient times, in order to consolidate the social status of men, it was painstaking and did everything possible. In modern society, the state has "put things in order" and put forward the slogan of equality between men and women. <>

Foolish loyalty and filial piety are also the dross of traditional Chinese culture. In ancient times, etiquette emphasized the unconditional obedience of children to their parents, regardless of whether the parents were right or wrong. It's the same with your own master, as long as you implement it absolutely, you are a good subordinate.

Yuzhong will become a direct trigger for family conflicts. A husband who protects his mother and ignores his wife's feelings will sooner or later bring your marriage to an end. If your "big brother" takes you to do bad things, and you don't report it, just blindly obey, sooner or later the two of you will go to jail together.

What has the deepest impact on Chinese is the erroneous concept that "everything is inferior, only reading is high". Now emphasizing "360 lines, the line is the champion", every line can do the results, and you don't necessarily have to study well to be successful.