How girls can be reserved in life, study and work

In fact, you have to be reserved, but you can't make others feel unapproachable or can't make jokes, and you don't want to offend people, right? I'll give you a little advice, in fact, there is a process to gain the respect of others, generally speaking, people who have just met will not joke, then take it as a good start, maintain a woman's smile and appropriate posture during the relationship, and be careful not to have a body posture that allows men to use it as a joke. If you notice that the other person is joking, you have to start stopping him in this way:

First of all, no matter what he says, keep smiling, keep an expression of ignoring when you think it's too much, and teach him a lesson when his joke is directed at you, you can tell the other person clearly"Being a comfortable friend is a quality","Let's change the subject""It's better to pay attention to everyone's identity"And so on, but even if you say something like this, you still laugh, which makes the other party even more embarrassed. After that, you don't really need to care too much, and you don't need to judge a person based on this, you don't need to think about anything. The next time the person who embarrasses you asks you out again, you can find a casual reason to refuse, and if it is the person who can't refuse, even if it is your boss, at least let the other party know that he is undignified in this way.

Quite simply, you become an expert on one side. Knowledge will be respected, but what you may encounter is the problem of sexual harassment, someone replied before, I think it is very comprehensive, you can search for it.

The following is a quote from someone else's reply, which I think is very good.

The first trick shows a rejection attitude.

Say no from the start, hiding or not showing it will make the other person think you're accepting. Know when it's happening, be sure if you're being sexually harassed, and stay calm. Don't take it lightly or ignore it.

The second technique is communication and the use of physical defensive skills.

Sexual harassment is beyond the boundaries of acceptable intimacy. Therefore, whether you are a man or a woman, you must be careful about your position and acceptable boundaries when encountering sexual harassment.

The third tip is to ask for help.

The person to confide in can be a parent, a trusted peer, a teacher or counselor, etc.; If you are regularly sexually harassed, you must record the date, time, and place of the occurrence, as well as the behavior and speech of the other party, so that you can use it as evidence for future complaints.

Now the rest of the plan can be controlled, but it is not well controlled, and the heat of doing things is not good.

First of all, you must have connotation, you must be knowledgeable, attach importance to learning, constantly improve your self-cultivation, speak and behave generously, gentle and virtuous, so that others can see your reserve.

It is necessary to be re-written and knowledgeable. Girls must have connotation, be knowledgeable, attach importance to learning, constantly improve their self-cultivation, speak and behave generously, be gentle and virtuous, so that others can see your reserve. Be honest.

Honesty is the basic quality and moral character that a person should have, so don't deceive at any time, if others see your dishonesty, others will no longer believe you as a person. Be humble and cautious.

Don't worship money. The view of money is not the feeling of blind worship, don't take money too seriously, regardless of other morals, feelings, etc., the joy of life lies in constantly fighting and creating miracles, don't blindly pursue money. Don't covet men.

Some girls are very nymphomaniac, for rich and handsome boys, I hate to marry him immediately, in fact, as long as there are girls with cultivation in their hearts, it is not difficult to find a good home, the key depends on whether they are good enough. Be careful to dress modestly.

When you do all of the above well, you become very reserved.

Hello, being reserved means speaking a little slower, listening to others more, and expressing your opinions after a little thought. Don't speak too loudly and at a moderate volume. When encountered, remind yourself in advance to be calm, and it is really difficult to do this.

Changing oneself requires long-term perseverance. This allows you to be reserved.

If you want to be a reserved girl, don't be too public, and you should show a steady and natural appearance in the crowd, mature and steady.

I think that to be reserved is to be unassuming, gentle on the outside, strong on the inside, quiet but not rigid, enthusiastic but not frivolous, gentle but not pretentious, high but not indifferent!

Guan Guan Ju Dove, in the river island. My Fair Lady, Gentleman. Jagged wattles, picked left and right. My Fair Lady, bells and drums, girls should be virtuous and polite.

Hello, being honest and honest is a very important moral quality of a person, just imagine a gentle, beautiful and lovely girl, always telling some lies, is it very discordant, her friends around her are not very unacceptable to her. In fact, no one can lie, and those who love to lie will not have friends. Be an honest person, and others will want to be close to you.

Do things modestly and rigorously, girls should not be too public, and should be modest and low-key. People who are too flamboyant may catch people's attention at the moment of publicity, and when others talk about it afterwards, it is still the person who is low-key and modest and rigorous in doing things is more popular. And such a girl seems to be reserved and connotative, and it is easy to leave a good impression on others.

Although it is now an era of "looking at faces", girls should pay attention to their own connotation at any time, no matter how beautiful the face is, it will grow old, and no matter how beautiful the face is, it will be when the aesthetics are tired. Only the inner temperament and cultivation will not make people feel tired, and a well-cultivated girl is like a book with moving words. Don't be too nymphomaniac, everyone likes rich and handsome men, but girls must not be too bright, looking very nymphomaniac.

Not at all reserved. The more you spend.

Everyone likes rich and handsome men, but girls must not be too bright, and they look very nymphomaniac. Not at all reserved. The more nymphomaniac you are, the more you chase others, the more men don't take you seriously.

Often those girls who are still living their normal lives are not, not blindly obedient, quiet and reserved, but are more likely to be like boys' eyes.

Of course, there is nothing wrong with loving money, but a gentleman loves money in a good way. Everyone should have a correct view of money. There are things to do for every age group, and when you go to college, you should focus on your studies so that you can create more wealth in the future.

If you worship money very much at a young age, you will definitely suffer from it one day.

Before you meet the prince, you have to learn to kiss many frogs.

Sometimes, when you start doing something, it's accidental, and it takes you some time to get used to the discomfort around you, but then you learn to walk and jump from. Eventually, you'll meet some like-minded people.

Don't spend too much time on it.

If you're exhausting yourself from networking, you'll never want to touch it again. Acknowledge your limitations and shortcomings, and do only one or two things a month to build a network. It takes a long time to build some networking, so it's better to keep a small but long-term relationship than to build ten relationships that only last for a short period of time.

Do something brilliant and beautiful.

Introverts especially don't like to talk about themselves – we tend to talk more about ideas. The focus of the conversation should be on something you've done. Don't brag and make sure they relate to what the conversation is about.

After that, extroverts will talk about you and the performance you've made, which will give you credibility in certain areas. Of course, I realize that you may be more receptive to what you know and think, but the truth is that you are measured by the outside world.

It's easy to be shy and don't dare to talk nonsense.,I think the cheerful girl now is the most hungry for men.,At least it's not boring to be together.。

This can't be pretended, just go with the flow, why force yourself to change, many times, just pay attention to low-key.

To do it, be your truest self. Pretending will only make you lose yourself. Feelings should be treated sensibly, and it is best to be free to put them away!

The word "reserved" originally refers to "holding a spear of honor", which is actually recorded in the "Spring and Autumn Period" when receiving Confucius, King Goujian, "(hand) staff Qu Lu's spear". The spear held by Gou Jian is the "honor guard spear", that is, "Jin". "Honor guard spear in hand" is "reserved".

The "Honor Spear" is the equivalent of a pistol for today's military protocol officers, and it is used to show self-confidence (self-safety***) and also to show the importance of guests (i.e., the spear or gun is also ready to be used to protect the safety of distinguished guests).

Nowadays, the word "reserved" is often used to describe a woman in social situations who has a confident attitude, a well-defined manner, and a safe distance from men, indicating that she is not the kind of weak woman who can take advantage of the man with bad intentions. Reserved is not something to learn, not to pretend, it is due to my own quality and personal quality! Therefore, girls should be knowledgeable, measured, self-respecting and self-loving!