How can I speak a little? How can you allow yourself to speak?

Opinion 1: Read more, accumulate more things, and have sufficient knowledge as a guarantee to be able to speak freely.

Listen more, listen to other people's chats, or watch TV, listen to language programs, and carefully appreciate the way other people talk and laugh.

It's better to be able to talk to many people at the same time, and to be able to speak in your own language.

Eliminate Nervousness Speaking in a formal setting is bound to be nervous Usually think about what you will say in front of a large public and how you will behave.

Finally, in your concluding remarks, you speak eloquently and freely

Opinion 2 Read more books, "there is poetry and books in the belly", and only after having ink can you speak eloquently.

Practicing courage does not mean that you should be upright, in fact, "straightness" should be more "peaceful", just don't be stage frightened when expressing opinions.

Talking more is not about talking nonsense regardless of the occasion, but when participating in group activities, you can talk more and exercise your eloquence.

Talk to people more and read more books on logical reasoning.

The words of Detective Conan Look at its comics, the language is gorgeous, especially the language of Conan's reasoning.

Be bold and speak out, and you're half the battle.

Opinion 3: You already have the desire to be cheerful and bold, so what you lack now is how to speak boldly! First of all, you have to be bold enough to express yourself in some public places.

The remarks, of course, are relatively small occasions! For example, in the class, in some speeches, competitions, debates, etc. This way you will find yourself bold to speak out about it.

It's a very happy thing to say, although your words may not be correct, maybe your words will be sneered by others, but the mood to speak your own words boldly is still very good, I am an example!

In the past, I didn't dare to speak in public, but I just expressed some of my opinions in a class debate. As a result, I gradually began to enjoy expressing my opinions, right or wrong!! At the same time, I have become much more cheerful and have more friends.

If you want to be able to speak, the most important thing is that you talk more, only when you say more, you will know what to say on what occasions, and what to say to whom! At the same time, listening to others is also a great way to learn how to speak!

I hope you can be like me, not a silent person who doesn't dare to speak!!

Opinion 4: Speak more naturally, or not very awkwardly. You can find some topics that everyone is interested in to talk about, such as you and she love to watch TV, you can talk about some sensitive issues in TV, you can also discuss our clothes, mobile phones, computers, **la......As long as everyone finds a topic that interests each other, it feels like time flies quickly! But this topic has to be communicated with her slowly, slowly understand, remember, sometimes it is very awkward and embarrassing to talk deliberately.

May you talk a lot, so that you can be happy, and it is not good for you to never speak, especially if your mood will become bad.

Seek satisfaction.

Find a topic that the other person likes.

To make yourself talkative, here are some suggestions:

Learn to listen: In the process of communicating with others, learn to listen to the other person's thoughts and opinions, understand the other person's needs and intentions, and then respond according to your own understanding. Don't just express your own opinions, but learn to listen and understand others.

Read more and learn more: Reading can expand your knowledge and improve your language skills. You can read some famous books, newspapers, magazines, etc., and accumulate vocabulary and language materials.

Practice oral expression: Practice your oral expression skills and thinking response skills through reading, speaking, debating, etc. You can find some topics that suit you and practice them purposefully.

Cultivating language organization skills: In daily life, you should consciously cultivate your language organization skills. For example, when writing and thinking about problems, it is necessary to organize the language in an organized manner so that the ideas are clear and clear.

Practice eloquence: Eloquence is the embodiment of speaking ability, and you can improve your speaking level by practicing eloquence. You can find some eloquence training materials or participate in eloquence training camps and other activities for targeted practice.

Develop self-confidence: Self-confidence is the key to the ability to speak, and only self-confidence can convince others of your words. Self-confidence can be cultivated through self-affirmation, self-encouragement, etc.

In short, to make yourself able to speak, you need to learn to listen, read more and study more, practice oral expression, develop language organization skills, practice eloquence, cultivate self-confidence, etc. Through continuous efforts and practice, you can improve your speaking ability and communicate better with others.

Don't take not being able to chat as a trivial matter. Not being able to speak is a big problem for professionals, not only affecting promotion, but also affecting getting along with colleagues, so how can you learn to speak?

1. Slow down your speech. When you speak, it's better to speak slower than to be unproductive, try to let the other person understand what you are going to say, don't rush to say it all at once, speak slowly.

2. Don't try to express too much at once. The communication between people is one sentence from you and one sentence from me, and if you say too much at once, the other party can't accept it.

3. Talk to people more. When you can't speak, then communicate with others more, when you go grocery shopping, you can talk to the aunt who sells vegetables, when you go to dinner, talk to the boss, try to give yourself the opportunity to speak, and you can talk to anyone, and you will find that it is not so difficult to talk too much.

4. Listen to others. There must be that kind of person among your friends who can speak very well, you can pay more attention to how he talks to others, you don't have to learn everything, only learn what is useful to you, some people may be more humorous, that is more difficult to learn, you can learn how he talks to others, this kind of person is generally more active, can mobilize the atmosphere, and is easy to get along with people.

5. Don't be afraid. I can't speak, there is a very important reason, that is, I am worried that the other party does not like to listen to what I say, or I will be ridiculed if I say that I am wrong, this is a manifestation of no self-confidence, it is not terrible to make mistakes, but it is terrible to make mistakes and not know how to change, and life is a process of continuous progress and growth.

6. Have a good mentality. Speaking is a small thing in life, don't take it too seriously, don't be too entangled, relax, change normally, just learn, the more tangled you are, the more bad it is, it's better to relax. It may be that you are in a hurry to communicate with friends, it may be that you do bad things with good intentions, or it may be that you are not very expressive and you can't really make small talk with others.

Small talk is also a great way to communicate with others. It doesn't matter, learn some chat skills, as long as you really respect others and communicate with others with a good attitude, learning to chat is also very simple.

Say words to relieve the siege on embarrassing occasions, give favors to others, say euphemistic words, and the adversary, you have to say friendly words, when you are in trouble, you have to say thoughtful words, you have to divide the occasion, the object, the emotion, and the situation, either tactfully, or directly, or you just make a little more detour, or you simply shut up, this is called being able to speak.

First of all, I recommend a book, which is also a book from a long time ago. Speech with eloquence or the art of speaking! These are all to improve the ability to speak, but I personally think the best way is to have more contact with people, I think the reason why many people can't speak is because they used to be more introverted and don't like to communicate with people, so they have an inferiority complex.

In addition, you don't care too much about your previous speech, which is easy to make you have more bad emotions, and when these emotions explode, you will feel that you love something, and that's how I am.

In fact, in the final analysis, the art of speaking lies in logical thinking, that is, what you say will definitely match the preface or afterword. In this way, it will appear that you speak very well, but it is difficult to do this, we can't all be *** like that, so all you have to do is to speak softly and tactfully.

Personal advice, you better try to communicate with people, but slow down, at the same time fully consider the other person's thinking pattern, and try to be as targeted as possible, so that with diligent practice, you will definitely be able to do better!

It is precisely because you have less things in your stomach that you will talk about it at the same time because you are nervous and overwhelmed, increase communication with others, and then read more books, see more how others do it, although this has something to do with the reaction, but knowledge and cultivation are also very important premises!

How do I set up a talking word?

In the process of communication, it is best to get to know the person first and see if he likes it.

What to enjoy, what to love, and then start with his preferences, don't be too good at speaking in general, saying more will expose more shortcomings, develop a habit, before talking about your own brain, and then decide whether to say or not, so that it may be very slow at the beginning but after a long time, the way to improve yourself is not to be emotional, to be rational analysis.

The method is very simple, just think a lot, and count one or two silently every time you want to speak.

3. Don't worry, see what's wrong with your words! Will it hurt anyone? To whom?

Is it useful? Is it dispensable? Of course, it's not like this for every word you say, you will be tired to death, choose to use it, and think more about important things!

Think to yourself before you speak. Mentally silently count a few times before speaking, and read more relevant books for reference. I remember another one"You, me, him"The game,That is, you can't usually talk about any of the three words you, me and him.,You can usually or play with your classmates.,After getting used to it.,What you say will go through it in your mind first.,It's better for you.。

Hopefully soon you will be successful

If it is said in life, then a philosopher said; I'd rather your friends say you're taciturn, than you're angry.

If you talk about it at work, then it is better to do your job well than to say it well.

Finally, since you are a chronic child, then you speak slowly. In fact, what you say well and what you say badly is not very different for the listener, the key is a matter of attitude and position.

Think before you speak, put yourself in your shoes.

Friends, we are connected by the same fate! I'm just like you, I'm just too sincere.

Hello, I always don't say the wrong thing, I regret it when I'm done, and I don't know how to communicate with others, and I always say it myself in front of people, I'm afraid of snubbing the other party.

Next, cultivating the ability to "chat" is actually nothing more than these two things: subjective psychological construction + objective information reserve.

Subjective psychological construction.

The first is to break the mental suggestion that you "can't talk" and understand that this is an ability that can be mastered through training. What you are worried about is not the chat or the speech itself, but the fact that you are not good enough. And the chat itself is a pleasant thing.

The second thing to remember is that the purpose of communication is to exchange information, let go of your attachment to your own personality, and use your most authentic self to deal with this communication, whether it is a social conversation or a work conversation, only true can obtain the most effective information and achieve efficient communication. As long as you remind yourself of this before you enter a chat, or before you start a presentation, remind yourself to step out of your old habits and get into the role of the chatbot, then you suddenly feel a lot more relaxed.

It also helps you to keep your eyes on the other person and move away from the "me, me, me" topic to the other person – which is one of the characteristics of people who can chat – to be good at tracking the other person's train of thought and keeping up with your own empathy to keep the conversation in a pleasant mood.

Objective information reserves.

That is, the amount of knowledge you have, just as when we learn English, we are very clear about a concept, which is "vocabulary". Whoever has a larger vocabulary tends to express themselves more clearly and elegantly, and the same is true for chatting anytime and anywhere or initiating an impromptu speech. Therefore, it is important to pay attention to the accumulation of knowledge in daily life.

Subject-based hard knowledge will show your erudition, general knowledge will reflect a person's interests and tastes, and empirical knowledge will convey the concept of life. Depending on the specific needs of chatting, talking, or speaking, we can prepare different types of knowledge.

You should be aware that even if it is a very temporary conversation, we need to be prepared, and the so-called improvisation is actually a miracle that can only come easily on the basis of your daily preparation.

However, preparation is much more than mastering the mountains of knowledge and convincing yourself, and if they are just piled up in your body without pain, you may still find it difficult to be able to have any conversation freely.

In fact, we are afraid to talk, it is the lack of sufficient practice, diligent practice, so that your mental construction can be consolidated day by day, and constantly provide opportunities for you to try to explain the new knowledge you have absorbed

That's the secret of people who can chat.