Is my thinking wrong at all?

People are inherently lazy and easy to give up But home is a home for two people The husband may feel stressed and struggling In addition, it is also good for you to try to do something Exercise your personality and make friends Personal advice You still have to find something It doesn't matter if you succeed or not Let your husband know that you are also working hard It's good to help him share the pressure It will be very warm ps: It is not natural to raise a wife Everything is based on a full stomach

The point is, are you under financial pressure right now? Don't compare who is capable in marriage. A harmonious and happy married life requires both of you to work hard and continue to operate.

I think your husband forced you to be motivated, probably because he is not satisfied with his current living state and level, and his ability is unlikely to make a big breakthrough in a long time. So hopefully you can make a breakthrough to make up for his own lack of ability. If you have no financial pressure and have reached the social income and status you expect, in this case your husband is still embarrassed by you, it means that he is careful, then you might as well make an appearance to show him, and also live a life to show yourself, so that he can not underestimate you.

Yes, it is natural for a man to support a woman, but the key is that he can afford you and be willing to support you. Wishful thinking tends to lose itself. In ancient times, the marriage was mainly material, but I think that in such a fiercely competitive contemporary society, marriage should be more about the right person, not only the background and growth and life background of both parties, but more importantly, the two parties can communicate smoothly spiritually.

The more society develops, the more important it is for women to be financially independent. Spiritually you can rely on your husband, but as long as you can maintain your financial independence in proportion to his, he has no reason to despise you.

I feel like I hate iron but not steel, sister, I can understand your feelings, but at the same time, I can also understand your husband's heart. You think, if you also have a good job, and you will have some achievements at work, then I think, your happy family will have to make a qualitative leap in the quality of life, and your husband will also have a lot of face at the colleague party, isn't this also good, maybe your husband's expectations for you are too great, I think he loves you, everyone hopes that their lover can also succeed, right, so, eldest sister, use your own ability to prove everything, come on.

Everyone has their own ideas, and you have to let him know what you think. You have to have a good conversation.

You have the right idea, you can tell him what you think and see if he can understand you.

1. It is very normal for everyone to feel that there is something wrong with their thoughts, because there will always be some overwhelmed things or life states in life.

2. This is an opportunity for you to reflect on yourself, maybe you have to face loneliness, but the intangible benefits you get in this are immeasurable for your life.

3. At this time, maybe you need to rest, need interpersonal communication, and need to go outside to exercise. Maybe you'll suddenly have a sense of enlightenment.

4. People may be paranoid in their own thoughts, sometimes life is stuck by an idea, try to find your best relatives and friends, or through your own thinking, see through this idea, don't be stuck in your life by this thought or idea.

You don't say how others understand, communicate more, communicate more.

Summary. In such an environment, you should use your brain more and talk less, because if you talk too much, you will lose, and you will not be able to do anything if you offend people. You must learn more about what the people around you are taboo about, and you must say less and do less things in this regard.

In addition, you have to build a good relationship with several people, so that others will help you if you have something.

In such an environment, you should use your brain more and talk less, because if you talk too much, you will lose, and you will not be able to do anything if you offend people. To learn more about what the people around you are taboo, you must say less in this regard, and you must do less to laugh at the potato thing. In addition, you have to build a good relationship with several people, so that others will help you if you have something.

You should learn to think first, or listen to some more relaxed **.

It's just that I feel like I'm slipping too early and others are talking about me, and I'm not doing anything right. Sometimes I feel ruined, and people say that I feel good. I also know it's wrong, but this feeling is very strange, but it's uncomfortable when someone says Lu La.

You have to learn not to care about other people's eyes and words, you are yourself, don't care what others say about you, you always have to be the best version of yourself.

I like to be in an empty classroom, I feel comfortable like that, and in the dormitory or classroom, even if someone is talking outside, I panic, I feel uneasy, don't be nervous.

It's not really you, it's you who is happy.

I know that I have the wrong idea.,Strange.,There will be a little yellow word.,I want to scold myself.,Remind yourself.,Make yourself sober.,But again,Accompany Tong doesn't know how to say it.,I always feel that others say I'm in the reed shed.,I'm also reminding me of the wheel of wisdom.,Others are talking about their shortcomings.。 You are reminding yourself, hinting at yourself. I always want to hear what people have to say.

Now you have to find your true self and learn to control yourself and not be afraid.

Well, there is a bad time before, and I didn't come out, and now some students know what happened before, but they don't know everything, in the blind rumor, the spread is also more excessive, many people have said again, I feel that I am always mentioning the past, mentioning the mention, I said the night before that I want to work hard, struggle, good silver yuan slow down and study. But the next day, after hearing what they said, he was sad and unhappy again. I wasn't like this before.

How do I get back to my previous self, I don't feel like I'm the happy and bold self I used to be?

Then you have to think on the bright side.

Why do people always say you?

I'm also afraid of going to crowded places, so I'll avoid them. When I had to go, I left.

Maybe it's because you're too good, or you're always better than them in one aspect, you just know that you're better than them, because you're not as gossip as they are, and you've done yourself.

Don't be afraid to do anything.

You have to learn what to try to do first.

You always have to remember one sentence, you are you, your parents gave birth to you, you are unique, Hui Qiao regrets what others say, that is just the person in the mouth of the former righteous person, you yourself are true.

1.It is certainly right to look at things rationally.

2.What most people agree with may not seem to you to be the truth, but most people don't care what the truth is, they just look for a way to feel safe, because questioning their way of life and thinking will first bring self-anxiety and a series of negative emotions, and your doubts and opposition will also threaten them in the same way, so their first reaction is to reject instead of thinking about right and wrong.

3.Maybe you should keep this rationality but don't show it, I think that your opposition to others is actually to want to change others, but who wants to be changed by others, don't you also have not changed in the situation of being said to be self-righteous, then you should be able to understand others.

4.It is normal for every thinking philosopher in history to feel lonely in his time, and there is no need to bother with it. The famous German philosopher Schopenhauer once said:

People, either vulgar or lonely. (Just mentally, don't deliberately isolate yourself from others in your life).

5.Finally, I recommend you a philosopher, Jidhu Krishnamurti, who can definitely help you. I'm about the same as you, and I've only recently figured it out, and I hope I can help you.

It seems that you are about the same age as me, but I want to tell you whether you will be held accountable for such a well-meaning help, and whether it is normal for you to dislike his thoughts.

1. Kindness and responsibility.

In principle, the legal level is to strictly distinguish the difference between good-kindness alms and "offers", that is to say, your kind help does not involve any legal consequences, even if there is a major failure, it is he who should be held responsible, not you. It's just that, relatively speaking, management in reality is often too abusive by human rule, so it is indeed possible that the person in charge will be angry with you, and then affect your work, but if you want you to compensate and take responsibility, I think you can and should refuse.

2. It is normal to dislike a person.

It seems that you are a good person, and in many cases you may be a good person, and you dare not offend people easily, so it leads to the abuse of your friendship by your co-workers, and I think it's time to make a change. Making friends and dealing with things is a big topic, but fundamentally speaking, it is to have your own principles, and to refuse on the basis of your own principles, so now you have to make it clear to him, let him do this kind of thing by himself in the future, whether it should be a good friend or a good friend, if he doesn't understand you, I don't think it's a big deal to have one less friend.

Therefore, disgust with a person is not a problem of thought, and it is not enough to just be disgusted, you must take action, otherwise your work and mood will be affected, it is not worth it, right? Hope that answers your questions.

First of all, it's normal to have such a mentality.

The point is, what to do when you have such an idea? I have the following suggestions:

If you treat him as a close friend, then you can help him to change this attitude and promote his maturity.

If you just treat him as an ordinary colleague and don't have deep feelings, then you just need to explain the truth to him and make sure that you have a clear conscience.

I think you're right to dislike him, and you can see that you're a person of integrity. His work attitude is not advisable, you can say to the relevant leaders at the appropriate time, otherwise you will be angry when you watch him sleep at work every day. Either way, we can't be like him.

Still have to be motivated, you're still young.

Your idea is right, you are operating a continuous transfer of work, to ensure that safety is the first important, he is not responsible, you talk to the leader privately, do you want to ask to transfer someone to the next shift.

Very right ...

You are conscientious and responsible for your work.

It's better not to continue like this, and ask the leader to change positions.