Should the love letter of the year be shown to her husband?

You think about it first. If your husband keeps some things like this that his former girlfriend gave him, and still refuses to throw them away. How do you feel ...

I think the relationship was really rare. But after all, it's all in the past...

It is not worth destroying the current harmony for the sake of the feelings that were very empty in the past and may not really be a reality...

You love your husband very much. At least don't take the initiative to show it to him. After all, he won't be happy to see it...

If you really don't want to throw it away, just put it away. Actually, I think it's better to throw it away. After all, now is all that matters ...

You put the letter in one of the books in the study, and if he sees it by chance, you say, "You have forgotten it, and if you were to deceive, you will not put it on a conspicuous shelf."

Wouldn't it be better if your husband simply ignored that you actually had that love letter in your book? The most dangerous place is the safest.

You have to believe in your lover, now that you are both adults, you love him very much, and he will love you just as much. Don't worry, take this matter lightly, everyone has a young middle school age. Maybe he has it too. Love needs to be supported by trust.

There's something wrong with you, and you took the initiative to show it to him.

What's reluctant, it seems that you don't love your husband at all, otherwise you won't be able to do such a small thing badly.

Since you love your husband very much, don't think about the past, throw it away, don't look at it.

I like to write a love letter to my husband every now and then. Yes, sit at your desk, pick up a pen and write quietly. I usually write an outline on A4 paper first, and then pick one out of the beloved stationery I collect every day, and write down what I want to say on the letter according to the idea of the outline.

This process, which seems troublesome, is actually an inner practice, and I feel very calm after writing it.

Some people say, there are still people who write love letters now? How fast and trouble-free it is to use WeChat! Yes, in this fast-paced and restless era, people have gradually eliminated the time-consuming and laborious handwritten letters, and are accustomed to using mobile phones and WeChat to communicate.

Everyone's mobile phone is filled with a lot of information, and even if the amount of information is huge, you can quickly find it using the Find function.

As a modern person who keeps pace with the times, I also like to use WeChat to communicate, and it is undeniable that WeChat provides us with great convenience in daily life. But I still like to write love letters to my husband. Because for me, love letters are a very important tool to maintain harmony in our family.

On my husband's birthday and some special days, I will make some greeting cards for my husband. A few hand-painted strokes on the envelope, a few words of blessing in the stationery, because it is handmade, so full of warm feelings and strong love, kill any leather code bookstore sold cards.

No matter how loving a couple is, there will be times when there will be disputes, and once there is a dispute, my emotions are slightly more emotional than usual, which sometimes makes me unable to express my thoughts correctly, and sometimes even becomes extreme. Often after calming down, it is extremely regretful. Then, I will apologize by writing a love letter and sort out my right thoughts.

When my husband read my love letter, his unhappiness disappeared in a short time. We are still a loving couple.

In daily life, we will inevitably have some misunderstandings sometimes, or some ideas may not be supported by the other party. If we don't explain it clearly in time, then the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper, or we will not get the understanding and support of the other party more and more. Although the verbal explanation is fast, how can we make the other party listen to him when he is in a bad mood?

By the way, this is where love letters come into play. A thick stack of love letters, even if you can't immediately resolve the other party's misunderstanding or get the other party's support immediately, at the very least, you value the other party's feelings and feelings can be delivered through the love letter.

Yes, love letters have so many functions, so I always write love letters to my husband. I enjoy the process of writing love letters, and I also enjoy the ritual of writing love letters. Don't worry about your bad writing, don't be shy about your ugly handwriting, the most real is the most impressive.

You can start writing love letters, and by the way, pick out some of your favorite letter envelopes first.

The long-hidden items I found inadvertently were mainly my old diary and the small notes in the diary.

When I picked up my old journal and opened it, I suddenly saw a few small rectangular notes falling from inside.

When I picked it up, it turned out to be a sticky note left by my husband for me more than 20 years ago. At that time, I didn't throw it in the trash, and I put it in my diary and kept it until now, intact, and almost antique! Now that they've jumped out, I'll take a closer look and relive the past.

This should be a small note left for me before a business trip, he may not worry that I am alone at home, not eating well, worried about my body, hoping that he can come back from a business trip and see a healthy me.

The second sticky note reads: Wife, I'm going to the Socks Hotel for dinner. You have to cook the meal by yourself, please understand!

Husband's message. I went out to dinner with the company leader at the time, and told me that I couldn't cook dinner for me and didn't need to make one for him. Ah, how sweet and gentle my husband was at that time!

The third one, the sticky note reads: Wife, my husband went to the company, he may come back later, please cook by yourself, thank you, please understand! My husband's message This is probably to do something in the company, I'm afraid I'm worried, and it's not as convenient as the current smartphone to practice, so my husband is always used to putting his worries and concerns about me on paper.

Look at what he said to me, what a gentleman! At this time, my mood is so blind and so excited!

The fourth, the sticky note reads: Hello wife, I went outside to do errands, the meal is ready, you take a bath and sleep after eating, I may come back later. Husband's message, June 2000.

At that time, he estimated that he would come back a little later, help me cook before going out, let me not worry about him, and also hoped that I would take good care of myself and rest early. Eating, drinking, and sleeping are all thinking about me, and my husband, who is only one year older than me, is really like my father! In his heart, I am just a child!

I read it in one go, maybe I didn't feel much when I watched it at the time, I just received the news, and it was good to know where my husband went.

But now that I've just finished reading it, I feel that my eyes are wet, and my heart is so moved. Why was my husband so good to me before!

Although we are in a good relationship now, the family is very harmonious, and a sweet little happiness overflows the whole body and mind, as if we have the feeling of being in love again. What I hold in my hand is not just a few small notes, they are clearly a warm little love letter full of affection. Between the lines, my husband is full of love!

Suddenly I am very grateful for the era when there was no mobile phone, otherwise after more than 20 years, I would not be able to see these traces of love, and I would not be able to feel the simple and simple but affectionate and long-lasting love of my husband!