What attitude should I have towards him? What I have towards you depends on what you have towards me

Updated on culture 2024-04-27
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That playmate is a little crazy, if you can, you can avoid him first, and don't tell your boyfriend, or your boyfriend is really difficult to do in the middle, so if it is not necessary, hide it first, then everyone will have a way out in the future, and it is not good if the relationship is stiff. You first make your words clear to the playmate, make your position clear (be sure to be very firm, refuse tactfully, enlighten him reasonably, and influence him), if he is still hot, you will avoid it, and give him time to think about it, I think a little sensible person will still know that the twisted melon is not sweet, and the wife of a friend cannot be bullied, maybe he is temporary, and then he can figure out what your friend can still do. Good luck.

    Also, I want to say that he doesn't "disrespect" you, he just likes you, so don't be in a hurry, settle this matter calmly, let friendship and love return to peace and tranquility, I believe you can. I advise you not to take a radical approach, otherwise it will be self-defeating, ok? )

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you really don't like him! Talk to him for real!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't respect you and your boyfriend, you should tell your boyfriend what he thinks about such a person, because if such a person continues to associate with him, no matter what it is in the future, it will be unfavorable for you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    With your first feeling about him, it's good to have feelings, but don't feel anything else, otherwise you will regret it if you are not satisfied with him in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Make it clear to him that feelings cannot be forced! As long as you really want to reject him, it is impossible not to refuse, depending on whether your attitude is resolute or not!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's a bit of a hassle. Inside, you have to find an appropriate time to make it clear to him that it's best

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Talk to your boyfriend

    This kind of thing cannot be hidden

    At least his friends don't respect you

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is true that my temperature to you depends on the temperature you have to me !

    When it comes to getting along with others, attitude is everything.

    Be a polite and sincere person.

    The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, regardless of whether they are high or low.

    Those who look down on me must stay away.

    The people who look up to me cherish it even more.

    What is valued is to compare the heart to the heart, and what is disgusted is to be deliberate.

    Regardless of the length of time, regardless of the sophistication of people.

    When you interact with people, you treat them like you.

    It can be tolerant and generous, and the sea is inclusive.

    But for some people, it is not worth always forgiving.

    A good temper is not a lack of temper, because you can't see through it, how far away it is.

    If a man respects me, I will respect him.

    If anyone gains an inch, I will no longer tolerate it.

    Hypocritical people just hate how far they can go.

    Let's like it with our hearts, and we will disperse if we play with our hearts.

    If we can't afford to play, we can hide, no one wants to be hurt.

    Everyone wants to be treated with kindness and not with insults.

    If you are rich, you will not be scolded, and if you are poor, you will not look down on you, you are brothers.

    You help you when you are in trouble, and you help you when you are suffering, you are a benefactor.

    If you're good, you'll be jealous, and if you're bad, you'll laugh at you, and you'll be a villain.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When faced with a failed relationship, it is more difficult for women to come out, the world is dark, and men, a turn will bloom brightly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What is my attitude towards you? Depends on what your attitude towards me? What does he mean is what you do with him? What will he do to you? That's what he meant.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My attitude towards you depends on your attitude towards me, which means respecting each other, and if you don't respect him, he doesn't need to respect you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, I think it's mutual for people to get along with each other, and if you are good to me, I will be good to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He can't just go in with what he wants, and now it's your attitude that determines my attitude towards you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello shows that the other party is more atmospheric, and at the same time the personality is also sensitive, and treating people is based on the other party's attitude.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, in this case, it depends on the interdependence of the two, and at the same time, it also achieves a kind of resonance, sheep.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My attitude towards you depends on what your attitude towards me, because good is common to two people, so you are good to me, and I am good to you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What attitude I have towards you depends on what you have towards me, yes, you are good to me, I will be better to you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    People are mutual, and if you are good to me, I will be good to you. You treat me badly, what do you use to ask me to be good to you? If you show kindness to me, I will repay your kindness, and if you cast malice towards me, I will not have kindness to you.

    Whatever attitude you use towards me, I will return your respect.

    In this world, no one should always be unconditionally good to anyone, when a person has been unconditionally good to you but can't get any response from you, he will also be tired, tired, and let go. No matter love, friendship, family affection.

    Let's talk about love first, if a person loves another person to the bone, silently bears his bad temper, tolerates his shortcomings, and is very gentle with him at all times, and the other party does not know how to cherish it, and chooses to trample on it ruthlessly. You are gentle with him every time, but he is fierce to you every time, I think anyone will not be able to stand it, maybe you can endure it before, tolerate it and pass. After that, if he is fierce to you, you will be fierce to him, and no one is your angry bag.

    Or he is honest with you, but you look for a mistress outside behind his back, you ignore his existence, he will also ignore your existence, you don't love him anymore, he doesn't love you anymore.

    Let's talk about friendship, he shares difficulties with the blessed, but you are only willing to share the difficulties with him but do not want to share the blessings with him. Good things always forget him, bad things always remember him. After a long time, he no longer wants to share the blessings with you, and your relationship is estranged.

    Let's talk about family affection, relatives have been silently and unconditionally caring for you, cherishing you, but you have been ignoring them, proud and unstoppable, either fierce or scolded, after a long time, he will no longer care about you, you are good or bad, what does it have to do with him?

    If you treat me well, I will be good to you, if you are gentle with me, I will be gentle with you, and when I don't get any response to my attention to you, I will never pay attention to you again. Everyone is the same, people are mutual, so no matter love, family, friendship, please cherish it, don't hurt the hearts of lovers, relatives, and friends.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The interaction between people is the exchange of hearts and minds, I am sincere, you are fake, then stay away as soon as possible, in other words, if I treat you the way you treat me, I am afraid you will run away a long time ago, although this sentence is sharp, but it is applicable to any relationship, everything we have to change the angle, stand on the opposite side of the angle to think.

    Those who look down on us, why bother to be strong, I will not look down on you Those who disrespect me, why should I be polite to you.

    To put it bluntly, whatever you think of me, I will give you whatever explanation, and whatever attitude you have towards me, I will give you whatever face you have.

    People's hearts to hearts, eight taels for half a catty.

    I will repay you for your kindness to me.

    You're ruthless to me, don't blame me for turning my face.

    You respect me a foot, and I pay you back.

    Whatever attitude you have, I will behave accordingly.

    Whatever you think of me, I will give you whatever you say.

    Whatever attitude you have towards me, I will give you whatever look you have.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    That's true, because as we do to others, they will do to us.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It means "to give it a peach, and to repay it with a pear". Get along with others, attitude is everything, be a polite and sincere person, look down on me, stay away, and cherish the person who looks down on me. What is valued is to compare the heart to the heart, and what is disgusted is to be deliberate.

    I thought that if you respect others, others will respect you. But then it turned out that this was simply impossible. Some people will never respect you, in his eyes, there is no word respect in the first place, and this is a matter of character and upbringing.

    Your respect and compromise will only become a reason for him to be presumptuous, he will not be grateful to you, he will only gain an inch. So I've learned now to respect those who deserve your respect.

    Respect is not the same as respect, the former is obviously stricter than the latter, respect does not include right and wrong, it is to use pure reason to look at individual life and point of view. I respect you, but I can dislike you, it's just a personal dislike.

    When you get along with people, attitude is everything. If you are polite to us, we will be polite; If you are quite unreasonable with us, we will leave no room for it. A good temper is not a lack of temper, but it is just not easy to lose your temper.

    Sentences about interpersonal communication

    1. If a person abandons his faithful friends, he abandons his most precious life.

    2. Be a man first, then do things, only when you are in place, can you succeed in doing things.

    3. Don't have money with friends, don't lend money to friends, if you lend money to others, just like Mr. Hu Shi, I borrow, don't ask to pay it back. There is no money between people, which makes our interpersonal relationships more successful.

    4. While compromising, we must also adhere to our most basic principles.

    5. Insist on saying good things about others behind your back, don't worry that the good words won't reach the ears of the parties.

    6. Friendship is the sincerity of two hearts, not the beating of one heart to the other.

    8. Happiness is the most important thing, and you will be with whom, what, and whatever makes you happy. Whatever makes you unhappy, you leave him. There are no conditions, and the conditions for creating conditions will also leave him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is to let the other party cherish their own meaning, and if the other party is not good to themselves, then don't blame yourself for being ruthless.

    It's not easy to meet someone who is good to you, and it's really a shame to miss it. This world is always full of people, there are very few people who can give you sincerity, no one will be good to you for no reason, it must be because they like you, care about you, and care about you. If you don't cherish it and hurt their hearts, you won't understand until you lose it, it turns out that some people really miss it and will never come back.

    Always give the worst temper to the best people for us, because you think, they will never leave. But after all, people's feelings have a limit, and they can't withstand repeated hurts, once the disappointment in their hearts is enough, then even if they like you again, they will choose to leave silently.

    People who don't know how to cherish will lose the person who loves you, and once the person who is good to you leaves, there will be no return. Whether you like them or not, try not to hurt them. Don't let the heart that loves you be cold, don't let the cherished people leave helplessly, the world is already very cold, please cherish those who can bring you warmth.

    Cherish one's sentences.

    1. We cherish a person, we must have been moved; When we give up on someone, we must have been disappointed. When people are down, they can see clearly, who is pouring cold water, and who is worried. The people who accompany you are inseparable from the exchange of affection because of the warmth of the heart; The people who understand you are irreplaceable because of their pity, so they will not leave.

    In fact, happy people do not get the best things in the world, but cherish the people they already have.

    2. Cherish the time of youth and raise the ideal sail. Don't wait for opportunities, but create them. May friends cherish the fleeting opportunity and create brilliant achievements and legends!

    3. The best relationship is casual, but they care about each other; It's comfortable, but they cherish each other. Each is independent, but the heart is together; Each breathes, and love does not separate. When two people are together, the most important feeling is comfort.

    Even if it is silent, it is a tacit understanding; Even if they look at each other, it is a kind of joy.

    4. Do you know that there is someone who misses you and thinks about you all the time. Your smiling eyes, like the stars shining brightly, adorned my heart, shining brightly every night.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This sentence makes sense, people are mutual, don't let one party pay endlessly, two people should stand in each other's perspective and consider each other!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1. People get along with each other in a mutual relationship, and only when there are contacts can they last for a long time.

    2. If you are good to me, you have the obligation to be good to you, and in today's society, the relationship is complex and the human feelings are weak, and blindly being good to anyone will only hurt yourself.

    3 How can we repay virtue with virtue, so be good to those who are good to ourselves.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, the relationship is mutual, and it is the parents who give it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I will do unto you as you do unto me

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You don't take the initiative, you don't give. Expecting others to be nice to you first?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The most comfortable relationship between men and women is one of equality, mutual understanding, and mutual respect; A comfortable relationship between men and women has many common topics when they get along, but they don't feel uncomfortable when they don't want to talk; The two also trust each other. Men and women who possess these qualities are most comfortable in their relationships.

    On this topic, Xiaoxiao believes that she has the most right to speak. Because she finally came out of a suffocating relationship and met the right person, she deeply understands how important it is to respect and trust men and women when they get along. The little ex-boyfriend is a person with a strong desire to control and an extreme lack of self-confidence, he often flips through his small mobile phone, and asks everyone who has talked to the opposite sex who is.

    Xiaoxiao felt that this was a manifestation of her boyfriend's love for herself at first, but after a long time, it was a little unbearable; Ex-boyfriends also often interfere in small lives, including dressing up and making friends with whom. For this reason, countless quarrels broke out between the two, and the exhausted little finally chose to break up.

    Later, Xiaoxiao met her current boyfriend. He trusts Xiaoxiao very much, and never flipped through his small mobile phone, and even asked a question before moving a small thing. He will also respect Xiaoxiao's personal life, and will only give Xiaoxiao appropriate advice when Xiaoxiao asks him for his opinion, and his current boyfriend will not ask Xiaoxiao to dress up according to his own taste.

    Two people get along harmoniously and beautifully, and there are few conflicts because of such things. Xiaoxiao often tells his girlfriends that he feels that the sky is dawn when he meets him now, and his current boyfriend is his true destiny.

    Men and women get along with each other, mutual understanding is the foundation, mutual respect is the basic, and mutual trust is sublimation. If you are in a relationship, it is more difficult than happy, and depressed is more than enjoyable. Then you have to think about whether there is still a need for this relationship to continue, and some feelings and people can be happy if they don't run in.

    And a relationship that makes people feel relaxed and happy when they get along is what we want to pursue.

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