What should I talk about with my boyfriend, what should I talk about with my boyfriend?

Updated on society 2024-04-14
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then don't sit at home and chat, go out and have fun, the topic will naturally be there. I always feel that couples don't need to find topics to talk about, because topics don't need to be found, and there is no fixed topic. To put it more profoundly, this requires tacit understanding, and it will be good to get along for a long time.

    If he's with you, doesn't want to talk, and always shouts when he's bored, you have to be careful. Maybe it's a hint ......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe、、、 it should be your boyfriend's personality problem, if I don't talk about it, I can't stand it! But that's nothing! There is no need to find a topic, you can talk about everything in life, and you can also talk about the two of you, the past, the present, and the future!

    You can go for a walk with him often! What a happy thing it is for two people to fall in love! Don't become a burden!

    I'm a little envious of your boyfriend, hehe、、、 I wish you all a happy and sweet day!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm having the same problem as you! We've been talking to him for 4 years now! Still like this!!

    There's really nothing to say!! I don't know how to maintain natural feelings!! Finally broke up hehe!

    Ridiculous, right?? Maybe I'm talking about being more extreme!! In fact, every couple has their own way of getting along!!

    It's okay if you don't talk about it!! It's also good to take a ** care once in a while!! You don't need to deliberately find a topic!!

    But my boyfriend doesn't even know how to greet me, so I'm disappointed!!

    That's all it takes! I don't know what I'm talking about, I'm in a bad mood! Hehe!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't talk too much about ideals and ambitions, take it easy, sports and leisure, and don't talk about marriage and family,,,.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Wait for him to find a topic, girls don't have to think about this, this is what boys should consider, you just wait for him to tell you, he should be anxious if you don't talk all the time, don't worry, he must be worrying about what to talk to you about now.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you can just tell him if you find any problems, and the two of you can find a solution together, if you feel that you don't have anything to talk about. That's also clear. Is it because they talk too often and the topic is exhausted, or is it because the two have no common language?

    If you don't pull it down, you need to have a lot of contact, and you just need to care about each other once in a while.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hehe, my husband and I are like this, but we are very happy to not talk together, and occasionally say that I love you, it's very romantic, oh, my husband was like this once, and he was full of emotion, hehe.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I also don't like to have nothing to say.

    Maybe. What is he implying about?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, you're just like me.

    We don't know what to talk about together.

    Every time I say it, I listen

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you're still in love, you don't know what to talk about, so what else are you talking about.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is it your boyfriend, I don't think it's like it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There are many different topics to chat with your boyfriend, but here are some examples of how you can have a casual chat with your boyfriend:

    1.Common interests and hobbies: Talk about your shared favorite movies, sports, art, travel, etc., and share your passions and insights about these things.

    2.Plans and Futures: Discuss your personal goals and dreams, each other's expectations for the future, and plan together what you want to pursue together.

    3.Everyday life and anecdotes: Chat about each other's daily lives and anecdotes, and share interesting things, humorous stories, or everyday trivia.

    4.Intimacy and affection: Deepen the emotional connection by communicating and sharing feelings about each other, and discuss ways to further strengthen the relationship.

    5.Family and Background: Chat about each other's families and backgrounds, share family stories, traditions, and values, and get to know each other on a deeper level.

    6.Health and wellness: Care about each other's physical and mental health, talk about health conditions, eating habits, exercise plans, etc., and support and motivate each other's health.

    7.Philosophy of Life and Reflections: Share personal philosophies, beliefs, values and reflections, discuss views on life and the world, and have in-depth conversations.

    8.Travel & Adventure: Talk about your travel destinations, adventures or plans, and share your dreams and desires about travel.

    The important thing is to find topics that interest both of you based on your interactions and interests. Maintain open, honest and respectful communication, and choose the right content for each other's needs and preferences. Ask him questions about his thoughts, interests, and opinions to encourage him to share more information and ideas about himself.

    At the same time, it is also necessary to listen to the other person's voice and give enough attention and support.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. Recall the first time you met and bury you.

    It is said that the most beautiful thing is the first meeting, talk about the scene when we met for the first time, feel the rush of time, and evoke the feeling of each other at that time.

    2. Paint a picture of the future.

    It is a very happy thing for two people to talk about the future, because each other's future will have each other's participation, to see if a person really likes you, it depends on whether he thinks of you in the future, you can talk about what you want to do in the future, so that you have more expectations for the future relationship.

    3. Talk about the concept of love.

    Two people can talk about their views and attitudes towards love together, enhance their understanding of each other, and slowly make each other change and become the most suitable person for each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What topics can be talked about between couples to enhance their relationship, the following 3 points can be referred to:

    1. Share life materials and make noise.

    We can start with life, for example, you watched a movie today, summarize a few good points, and share them with each other. Or if you encounter a few challenges in your work today, you can also talk about them as a topic. At the end of the day, it's about absorbing new things and sharing them when communicating.

    If you want to constantly inject new material into the relationship, then reading a new book, a new movie, or your work insights can be transformed into new content to communicate with the person. The point is still to have the awareness of constantly accumulating and sharing, bringing new things to the relationship.

    2. The ** of a certain thing itself.

    The first type is news events, such as the two sides, both the confrontation of values, and the process of achieving harmony and unity. The second type is things between friends, such as so-and-so divorced, you can talk about opinions. The third category is the perception of movies and books.

    3. Look forward to the future together.

    Let's talk about future plans together, understand each other's needs, see if there are more things we want to do together, learn to paint together, go shopping together, climb mountains together, etc., and enhance each other's sense of participation.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Talking to your boyfriend is an important part of maintaining a relationship, but sometimes we may not know what to talk about or how to talk to make each other better and have fun. Can give you some advice, I hope it can help you:

    1.Common interests

    If you share common interests, then chatting can be used to discuss and share each other's preferences and experiences. For example, if you both enjoy traveling, talk about places you've been to recently or where you're planning to visit in the future. If you both like it, you can talk about your favorite song or the person who brought it to your home, or go to the meeting together.

    2.Everyday life chores

    The daily life chores are things that we often encounter in our lives, but sometimes we may overlook their importance. Talking to your boyfriend about daily life can help you learn more about each other's lives and habits, and at the same time, it can also enhance your intimacy with each other. For example, talk about what you ate today, what interesting things you encountered, or share some tips and tricks in your daily life.

    3.Future Plans and Goals

    Talking to your boyfriend about your future plans and goals can help you better understand each other's values and pursuits, and at the same time, you can also lay a good foundation for future development. For example, talk about what you want to achieve in the future, what you hope to achieve better in what field, or plan your lifestyle and life goals for the future.

    4.Emotional communication and expression

    Emotional communication and expression of defeat are important parts of maintaining a relationship, allowing you to better understand each other's feelings and needs, while also enhancing trust and intimacy with each other. For example, talk about each other's thoughts about a relationship, their hopes for the future, or an expression of each other's feelings and needs.

    5.Social hotspots and current affairs news

    Social hotspots and current affairs news are topics that we often pay attention to in our lives, and we can discuss and share each other's views and perspectives through chatting. For example, talk about recent social events, thoughts on some trending topics, or share some interesting news and anecdotes.

    In general, chatting with your boyfriend needs to be based on your and each other's interests, life experiences, future plans and goals, emotional needs, and social hotspots and current news that you are concerned about. Chatting can enhance mutual understanding, trust, and intimacy, while also laying a good foundation for the development of a relationship. In addition to this, we also need to pay attention to the way we chat and our attitudes, respect each other's feelings and needs, and maintain good emotional communication and expression skills.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What you talk about with your boyfriend depends on your interests, common topics, and communication styles. Here are some shirt belt suggestions:

    Common hobbies: If you and your boyfriend have some common interests, you can talk about these topics, such as watching movies, listening**, traveling, sports, etc.

    Daily life: You can talk about some things in daily life, such as work, study, family, friends, hobbies, etc. Getting to know each other's daily lives can deepen the relationship and bring you closer together.

    Hot topics: You can talk about some hot topics, such as social current affairs, entertainment gossip, technology trends, etc. These topics often resonate and interest everyone, and can promote communication and interaction.

    Emotional communication: It's okay to talk about your feelings, expectations, needs, and communication styles. This helps to promote mutual understanding and trust and avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts.

    Future plans: You can talk about some future plans and goals, such as career development, travel plans, family plans, etc. This will allow you to better understand each other's ideas and plans, and be more aligned in future developments.

    In conclusion, what to talk about depends on the interests and relationship between you and your boyfriend, and the most important thing is to be open and honest and communicate honestly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Hello dear, happy to answer for you. 1.

    You can talk about each other's interests and hobbies, so that you can enhance the relationship between each other and close the distance between each other, and talk about hobbies so that you can know what your boyfriend likes, and then it will be more convenient to give him birthday gifts in the future, and he can also know what you like. 2.Let's talk about going to ** travel in the future, what to eat, what to take to commemorate ** and so on.

    In short, it's just to talk about some life topics. A topic that will make both parties happy. For example, both of you like to play games.

    Then you can have fun from the game and strengthen your relationship with each other.

    What to talk about with your boyfriend.

    Hello dear, happy to answer for you. 1.You can talk about each other's interests and hobbies, so that you can enhance the relationship between each other and close the distance between each other, and talk about hobbies so that you can know what your boyfriend likes, and then it will be more convenient to give him birthday gifts in the future, and he can also know what you like.

    Talk about topics that will make both parties happy, and be biased towards lifestyle topics. Kissing can also provide the specifics of the matter. Let's talk about it and help you solve the problem better.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. Share your childhood.

    In the childhood life of each of us, we hide the influence of our original family on us, and share our childhood with our close partner, not only to share our childhood happiness and troubles, but also to let each other enter our own childhood to experience our own happiness and sorrow.

    When we understand the growth process of the other person, we can empathize with each other to the greatest extent, and we can understand why the other person has formed such a personality and temper.

    It seems that this is a process of sharing, and at the same time, it is also the fastest way to let the other person into your heart.

    2. Make rules for love.

    Formulate love rules that belong to two people, and in this rule, it is necessary to include not only the mode of getting along with two people, but also the mechanism of stopping the war between two people.

    Especially when two people have conflicts, effective love rules can help us reduce quarrels and avoid cold wars to a greater extent.

    A good relationship must have its own love rules, whether or not this rule is specially formulated, but it must invisibly affect the emotional relationship between two people.

    3. Share hobbies.

    Girls always hate boys playing games, and boys always hate girls for putting on makeup for a long time.

    Because boys' interest is to play games, while girls' interest is to be beautiful. This is the difference between men and women, and because they don't understand it, they will be particularly annoying.

    Maybe when girls fall in love with games, and when boys fall in love with makeup, they won't hate this interest so much.

    So share your interests and hobbies, let the other party understand deeply, he (she) can not like it, but must understand.

    4. Talk about each other's view of love.

    The concept of love is a very macro expression, just like we always say that the three views are different, in fact, few people can explain which three views are.

    The same is true for the concept of love, it is difficult for us to express our view of love, but we can talk about our attitude towards feelings and how to deal with problems when they arise.

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