What is the reason why girls are not active in love?

When a boyfriend and girlfriend are in a relationship, there are many reasons why the girl does not take the initiative, depending on the situation.

If this girl belongs to that kind of introverted character, then it is normal for her to belong to the passive side in love, which is determined by her character, so you don't have to worry too much, girls with this kind of personality are generally not too active, especially in the expression of emotions is more obvious.

If she likes someone, she won't express it to him easily, unless she is pushed to the limit, she won't take the initiative to pursue the boy she likes, she often buries her emotions in her heart and doesn't say it easily. It's the same with her in love, she is not good at words and will not take the initiative, so when you meet this kind of girl, don't wait, you need to take the initiative at the right time.

If a girl who is not active in love does not belong to a girl with this character, then when she is in a passive position in love, it is very likely that the person she is dating is not the person she really likes, and for various reasons, the two of them are together. Compared with boys, girls belong to the emotional type, in the face of the emotional aspect of love, which is related to the emotional aspects of two people, girls should take the initiative to show their emotions to the boy they like, if a cheerful girl in her own love, behaved very passively, and is very indifferent, then she doesn't like this boy for most of her life.

There is also a situation where this girl is in love for the first time, and in this relationship, she does not take the initiative because she has no experience, she will be very shy, and naturally she will not take the initiative to express her emotions.

The relationship between men and women in love can sometimes be very delicate, and there are many reasons why girls do not take the initiative in love, and the key is to have specific problems and specific analysis.

The girl's too initiative is exchanged for the boy's not cherishing.

I don't like him when he likes me, I like him but he ignores me.

What about people, it's so contradictory and cheap.

The old lady is a fairy! It's tsundere, and it's habitual

I'm afraid of being sentimental.

In fact, it is to see if the man takes the initiative or not, generally the active ones like you, and the ones who don't take the initiative don't like you, so it's better not to move.

Not taking the initiative is not because you don't love it, it's because you really love it too much, and I'm afraid of losing it, my Mr. Yang, you have to see it, I love you.

In case he goes to chase other girls, and I'm still very active, then wouldn't I be very shameless, but in fact, I took the initiative and was very shameless.

Actually, I think that if you don't take the initiative for too long, you will leave a shadow.

Ready to face.

It's because I'm afraid it's just my own wishful thinking, even if I know that he probably likes him.

Together for a month, I took the initiative to send him a message, asked him to meet for dinner, ran to him, never took the initiative to send me a text message, I didn't look for him for the last two days, he only looked for me at night, and didn't ask me too much reason, and I was a little angry that I didn't send him WeChat, I felt that he didn't love me enough, and then I broke up, and he didn't keep it, so they separated ......If you don't take the initiative, you want to be more active, and if you break up, you want to be retained ......

The reason for this should be found in girls and boys.

First of all, the education we receive is still a traditional education, girls should be more tactful and shy, this is the mainstream, if the character is too flamboyant, then the boy is looking for a girlfriend or a buddy.

Girls should have the unique nature of girls, which has developed from ancient times to the present, if once this nature is changed, then the future development of women may have to change, as for how to develop in the future, it depends on time to verify, but so far women are still like water, women still have to be gentle.

Therefore, women can't be too active when they are in love.

Whether boys like to conquer or to passively accept, the male friends I know, they all like to conquer others, and this desire to conquer makes their male hormones stimulated.

If they are too proactive, they may get something very easy, and for them, what is too easy will not be cherished.

I have a local tyrant friend, he has a lot of girls chasing him, he can't look down on him, I asked him the reason, he said he likes to chase others, he doesn't like to be chased, I don't know what kind of mentality this is, but he said that can stimulate his male nature, maybe that kind of girl is more suitable for him, that kind of girl, he cherishes it more.

Although he can't represent all men, he can represent some men, so that boys do have a desire to conquer, so they don't like girls who are too active, so for such boys, shy, shy, shy girls are more like them.

Maybe it's a radish and a kang, because there are such boys, so there will be such girls, otherwise how to find the right one for yourself, nature is also very scientific, he knows how to match, he knows how to be the best state.

When falling in love, everyone may fall in love in different ways because of their different personalities and different ways of doing things. Some people are more proactive, while others are more passive. So when falling in love, if the boy doesn't take the initiative, the girl has to take the initiative?

Many people will say that in love, the one who takes the initiative first may be at a disadvantage. I feel that if I take the initiative, I will be looked down upon by the other party. In fact, this is not the case, some people do not take the initiative, it may be that he will not fall in love or is embarrassed to take the initiative.

And at this time, if the other party takes the initiative, then it may promote the development of this relationship and make the two people better and better. Needless to say, the party that was not active before will become more and more proactive. I think there is always one person on both sides of a relationship who should take the initiative, so that there will be a relationship.

Otherwise, if neither of them takes the initiative, then this relationship probably won't be able to go on. So if the boy doesn't take the initiative, the girl takes the initiative a little bit.

But it is also important to remember that if the man does not take the initiative and the woman is particularly active, but the man is still indifferent. At this time, girls have to think about whether their boyfriend doesn't love them very much, because he doesn't take the initiative, but you take the initiative, but you don't get a good response, and you will definitely be very sad and sad. If the guy ignores your sadness and sadness and still goes his own way, then it is necessary for you to consider whether the relationship needs to continue.

So if two people really love each other, then the guy doesn't take the initiative, and the girl takes the initiative will promote the relationship well. And if two people don't love each other, it's normal for the party who doesn't love to take the initiative, and the one who takes the initiative will only keep lowering himself. So I hope everyone can see clearly whether the person around them is the person who is worthy of their love, if they don't leave decisively, because he is not worthy of your initiative, leave your initiative to the person who loves you.

It's true, if the boy doesn't take the initiative, the girl can also take the initiative to make this relationship. Love goes on, but if no one takes the initiative, it should be about to face a breakup.

Yes, because in a relationship, two people need to take the initiative together, and this step must be taken to promote the development of love.

When falling in love, they generally have complementary personalities, and it doesn't matter if boys don't take the initiative and girls take the initiative.

Girls can take the initiative appropriately, if it has always been a girl who takes the initiative, this relationship should not last long, if a relationship is going to go on for a long time, boys should take the initiative.

It depends on the situation, if you like it, it is recommended to take the initiative, after all, women chase men across the veil, and men chase women across the mountain.

Yes, because the personalities of two people are completely different, and there is no particularly obvious rule about who takes the initiative in a relationship, but they must support each other.

Of course, one person has to take the initiative in this, otherwise it will be cold? Generally male dominant.

If a girl really likes a boy, take the initiative to chase the horn!

In fact, on the question of who is more active, I think there are three principles that are more reasonable: first, who likes the other party first and who takes the initiative.

The second is who is thinner-skinned and who is relatively more passive.

The third is who has more time and energy and who is more proactive.

It depends on whether two people really like each other, and if they really like each other, they don't care who takes the initiative.

I think it's normal, and I understand it because I'm such a person [laughing and crying].

First of all, I don't think that taking the initiative doesn't mean that she doesn't like you, she's perfunctory to you. Maybe that's what her personality looks like. In my own opinion, I don't like to chat with others online, and I don't like to fight with others, whether it's a partner or a parent or friend.

No matter how lively the conversation is in daily life, I don't know what to say when I get to the Internet. So you may feel like she's perfunctory to you.

And then she might be thinking about you, too. I will think about this matter, usually he always takes the initiative to chat with me, but he didn't come today, maybe he has something, and when he is done, he will tell me. Because of my heartless character, my ex always quarreled with me.

In the end, I think you need to communicate well with your girlfriend. You try her, and she may not react at all. So you have to make it clear to her that you don't like her habit of not reaching out to you. I'm sure your girlfriend will understand you.

Finally, I wish you all happiness. [laughs].

It's really difficult, unless there is a boy who is more active to cooperate, otherwise a girl who doesn't take the initiative I think must be introverted, understand? When you meet a boy who will take the initiative, all kinds of appointments and some attraction, only in this way can you finally get together!

Thank you, good luck and have a happy life every day!

How can a girl who is not active fall in love? This one. You don't have to worry about it. There is always someone who will suit her and will like him. This person will take the initiative to pursue her.

There are several reasons why girls don't take the initiative.

First of all, you first judge whether she really likes you, when a girl likes you, she will definitely take the initiative if you take the initiative, or you don't notice that she takes the initiative in a different way. In "Mischievous Kiss", Jiang Naoki has been taking the initiative in the way he loves, but Xiangqin doesn't know it. So I'm wondering if she's more restrained and unique in her way of taking the initiative, so you don't notice it.

Because everyone's personality is different, some people have never been exposed to love and don't know how to express it, so they may be a little clumsy in their methods, so you might as well observe it at this time. If you really can't feel that she is also taking the initiative and she is responding, then I want to do it, otherwise the other party doesn't really like you. In love, I think proper communication is necessary, sometimes it is good to spread out and explain clearly, but it is not a way to hold it in your heart.

What's more, girls don't take the initiative and boys can take the initiative, at this time, if neither of them takes the initiative, it's impossible, someone has to take the initiative. I don't think it matters who takes the initiative.

The so-called, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, no fate on the other side of the acquaintance, fate this thing can not be found, girls in love do not take the initiative, boys can take the initiative, like each other, you must use practical actions, impress each other, with practical actions, move each other, when the other party needs you, you can immediately appear in front of each other, fall in love, the most important thing is to be willing to succeed.

When a woman doesn't take the initiative to contact herself, a smart man will do 3 things, and falling in love also needs to be learned.

The girlfriend who is in love with you, if he doesn't take the initiative or doesn't take the initiative, it means that he is not very satisfied with you, so if you like him at this time, you should take the initiative and chase him tighter, which is the key, not that if he doesn't take the initiative, you give up.

Girls are more reserved and bold to pursue.

Everyone hopes to find a relationship of their own, sometimes we find that not all things are in their own hands, for example, take love as an example, some people like to take the initiative, some people like to be passive, usually girls are not the active that a boy if he does not take the initiative, he may not even have a girlfriend, what does it mean for a girl not to take the initiative in love?

Girls are more shy. The girl's personality is more shy and introverted, and in love, girls are generally reluctant to take the initiative, because most people think that if they take the initiative, it is possible that boys do not cherish Bi Ran so much, and they must think about things clearly, because it is quite boring to say it in the minds of girls, in the minds of girls, she actually loves boys very much, but she is reluctant to take the initiative to say it, it may be because of personality, and girls are generally reluctant to say what they think. I definitely hope that the boy can understand her and give her more love.

Wait for the girl to take the initiative to speak up. When two people walk together, there must be one person who wants to take the initiative, because once the girl breaks everything, then the probability of the relationship continuing will be lower and lower, if the woman has not said, then the man may feel that he has not given the woman enough love, the woman enjoys this feeling of being loved, once it is said, the advantage of the girl is naturally gone, and the average girl is willing to choose to be silent and unwilling to say it.

An opportunity is waiting. Sometimes the girl is waiting for the opportunity, she is not reluctant to say, she just wants to see the attitude of the male repentance, if the girl reveals her heart too early, the boy may not be so serious to like the girl, the girl is waiting for the boy's confession, the male buried Kuansheng should show his sense of responsibility.