Why do I forget my best friend?

It should not be said that it is forgotten, but they have been separated from each other for a long time, and there is little contact, you feel a little empty in your heart, if he is really your best friend, even if he is at the ends of the world, as long as there is him in your heart, you will think of him when you are most unhappy and happy, etc., it means that he is your real friend, and each other's hearts are figured out, and you have not played ** for a long time, if occasionally you receive his **, you will feel very warm, very aftertaste, you will be best friends, believe in each other, believe in yourself.

With the deepening of social interaction, everyone's life is constantly changing, once the best friend, you forgot, it may be that you have found a replacement for ta, I don't mean that friends are seen as commodities, but some things are regarded as good memories. You have to be happy and find new friendships. Maybe it's not forgetting, it's just strange, everything is normal, don't worry too much.

Good luck!

There is less and less time to get together, your outlook on life and values are different from when you were a child, there are fewer topics to talk about, and there are (boyfriend and girlfriend) friends next to you, and your attention has shifted. Only when you open the album can you recall that good memory, but those are the past, and you can only let it be sealed in the album.

Time is the diluent of all feelings, and a family relationship, friendship, and love will slowly become weaker and weaker after a long period of time, until it is forgotten. So feelings need to be irrigated, even if you forget it now, but when you remember it, it's a good memory!

The distance is far away, the contact is hopeful, and the communication is less, and the feelings will naturally fade.

Time will dilute everything, and people's feelings also have capacity, and you will naturally fade them after a long time.

Because they were no longer with you.

Because of the distance, you don't have contact.

Friends should be in touch often, and the relationship will fade after a long time.

Maybe your relationship isn't in place yet.

Time has diluted、All the colors of memories。

There are only a few places around a person, and when someone comes in, someone goes out.

Once-best friends may be important in our lives, but sometimes we drift apart from our best friends, probably for the following reasons:

Time and distance.

Time and distance are one of the main causes of relationship estrangement. When we start a different phase or leave the original city, it is difficult to keep in touch with the old people. As there are fewer opportunities to meet, it is becoming more and more difficult to communicate with friends.

Lifestyle differences.

Over time, people's lifestyles and interests tend to change. Maybe our former best friends are not interested in the so-called new fun, and they don't share common topics as much as they used to.

Differences in values.

Another reason that leads to estrangement in relationships is different values. As we grow older and more mature, we may find that our friends' views or behaviors are already somewhat different from our own. This difference can lead to differences in our thinking patterns and behaviors, which ultimately leads to a slow drift away from friends.

Lack of interaction.

Some friends slowly drift apart from each other, mainly because of a lack of interaction. When we are busy with work or family, we can't spend time with each other. No one wants to put their schedule too tight, but that shouldn't be an excuse to distance yourself from each other.

Summary. When we find that we are drifting away from our former best friends, we should first reflect on our own reasons and fully understand our current life situation and needs. If there is a problem with actual communication, you can also use various network tools or regular ** calls to interact and maintain a friendly connection.

It is very important to cherish and maintain good friendships at all times.

Losing a friendship can be heartbreaking and sad, but we also need to understand that everyone has their own path to follow, and sometimes there are separations and changes. Here are some tips to help you let go of a lost friendship:

1.Accept reality: First, we need to accept that the friendship is over and no longer exists as it once was. Don't try to hold on to the past, and don't hold a grudge against yourself or the other person. Try to look at the situation with a calm mind.

2.Be aware of the reasons for the change in friendship: Look back at how the friendship changed and see what led to its end. Sometimes, this understanding can help you better handle the situation and avoid similar problems in the future.

3.Find new friendships: Just because you've lost a friendship doesn't mean you can't have a new one. Try to meet new people, attend social events, and find people who share your interests. New friendships may also make you feel happy and fulfilled.

4.Focus on your feelings: Don't ignore your feelings when faced with a loss of friendship. Give yourself some time to deal with the situation, express your emotions, and express your dissatisfaction and sadness in your heart, so as to put yourself at ease.

5.Let go of the past and look forward: The most important thing is to let go of the past and look forward. Let go of resentment and negativity and focus on your present life and future plans. Believe in yourself and you will have a better friendship and life.

If you don't really want to forget, then no one can help you, some things, the more you try to forget, the more it means that you care, when you don't care, you don't need to work hard to forget ......If you can't change anything with your efforts, just let it be!!

I've been struggling for nearly 10 years, but I still haven't found an effective way to forget, so I want to tell you, don't waste time, there's nothing to help you forget, you're looking for a way to forget, and you're deepening your memory, which will only backfire, so you should go with the flow......

In fact, there are still many beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover; Love, not all, try to divert your attention, maybe the mood will be better, and life will be a little better......

Many people fall into it and can't climb out, and there is no antidote to this, and they must bear it; I always only know how to enlighten others, and I can't find my own antidote;

I don't know what bad things I did to him in my previous life, and I can't forget how hard I tried in this life, and sometimes I think: maybe I tortured him like this in my last life.

So, I got better.

If you really can't figure it out, think so too! Maybe you'll be more comfortable......Come out early and give yourself a little more chance! You'll reap another piece of ......

I still remember having a friend in junior high school, we often helped each other, we always agreed on many things, and we were happy to be with each other every day, and we could be said to be very close friends at that time. After graduating from junior high school, I was admitted to high school, and he must have gone to a technical school, and we kept in touch with each other a lot when I graduated. But when I entered high school, the heavy academic load became my main priority, and he continued to be as carefree as he was in junior high school.

He often came to me, but I rarely had the time to deal with him. Although I would go to talk to him during the holidays, I found that our values were no longer at odds, and I didn't want to talk to him anymore every time I said a few words. Gradually, we rarely looked for each other, and then we didn't keep in touch again, and eventually he disappeared from my friends list.

This may be an isolated case, but I'm sure many people have had similar experiences. Obviously, the "life cycle" of this friendship is only the three years we have been together in junior high school, and as soon as I graduate from junior high school, I go to high school and my thoughts are sublimated there, while he is stuck in the same place, which suggests that this friendship has gradually begun to fall out of its "sphere". The differences in our thoughts and lives have further led to the change of this emotion from "you and me" to "you and me" and finally to "no emotional intersection".

Is there anything that should be done about the friendship that is drifting apart? I think that's a case-by-case discussion. Like this example, I will have a lot of sighs, but I don't feel bad.

When I went to high school, I met new classmates, they were very unique and very good, and they broadened my horizons. I found a friend in this group who could continue to support each other for 3 years. Maybe this is also the "metabolism" in the process of interpersonal communication!