My child is seven years old and too clingy, what should I do

In fact, as far as "clingy" itself is concerned, most children aged 0-6 years old will have a sense of attachment to their parents, this is because when their parents leave, they will be insecure, showing extreme anxiety and panic, so children are afraid of their parents leaving, so they often cling to their parents. Parents don't have to worry about this behavior of the baby, as the baby gets older and more mature, this sticky performance will be weakened. But clingy babies have obvious disadvantages, that is, strong dependence, no assertiveness, lack of independence, poor social adaptability and so on.

In order for the baby to stop clingy, get rid of those shortcomings as soon as possible.

1. Get in touch with the external environment and socialize with peers.

Babies are insecure because they are not familiar enough with the outside world, are afraid of contact with people, and think that everything in the outside world is dangerous, so they only want to stay in a "small family" world with their parents. In order to avoid this idea of the baby and get rid of the clingy state as soon as possible, parents should take the baby out for a walk, see the outside world, and socialize more with peers, and learn some skills to interact with others, such as: "learn to share", "learn to integrate into the group", "learn to respect".

When the baby adapts to the external environment and integrates into the peer group, it can greatly reduce the child's dependence on parents!

2. Play the game of separation to alleviate your dependence on your parents!

At home, you can play a separation game with your baby. The first step of the game is to play hide and seek with the baby, so that the child can temporarily leave the parents, the second step of the game, is that the parents find a chance to leave, before leaving to say to the baby, I will go out for a while, come back immediately, I hope the baby will be well-behaved, I will praise the baby after coming back. The first time, no matter how much the baby cries, you have to leave ruthlessly, but also come back immediately, so that the baby has a sense of trust in you and knows that you will come back immediately.

The second time, the third ......The time of absence slowly increases.

3. Cultivate the baby's interest and develop the baby's intelligence.

In daily life, we must carefully discover the child's hobbies, cultivate the baby's interest, the stronger the baby's interest in other things, the less dependent on the parents will be. When cultivating the baby's interest, we should provide more games to develop intelligence, such as stacking blocks, etc., so as to achieve the purpose of killing two birds with one stone, which can not only alleviate the child's dependence on parents, but also develop the child's intelligence, isn't it beautiful! Finally, I hope your baby will stop clingy and become a smart and cute child!

Get in touch with the outside world and socialize with peers.

Let children get in touch with children, and take them to small gardens, amusement parks and other places where there are many children, so that children can learn to be independent in the process of playing with other children.

Encourage children more, let children complete some daily self-care independently, communicate with children more, and share some children's independent and brave stories...

Slowly develop the habit of independence. Start small and let him do it independently.

Read inspirational stories to him and guide your child to play games that he enjoys.

It's a bit like when I was a kid and then my mom put me at my grandma's house and watched me once every two days. It may vary from person to person, but after getting acquainted with the friends around me, I don't bother my parents so much. For your child, who is seven years old, you should try to get in touch with your peers and cultivate a self-reliant, optimistic, and upward attitude towards life, otherwise there will be personality problems.

In addition, the most important thing is not to beat and scold your child for this, which will make your child frustrated, lonely, or even inferior. In the end, I still have a word, get in touch with the outside world, don't get used to children, take your time, there will always be a good result.

There will always be a period when a child is growing up to be particularly clingy. However, this period is generally short, and the child will soon be "out" of this stage. Although this clingy behavior of the child is really unbearable, it is best not to push the child away or say to the child

Don't play on your own like a baby anymore! "Because that's often counterproductive. If you can use the following methods, it is possible for your child to become more independent

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2. When something happens or the pressure is too high, the children will become more clingy. For example, there is an extra child in the family; Parents are divorced; moved; Or it's a transfer. If these are the causes of your child's clinginess, then let your child cling to you for the time being.

As the child gradually begins to adapt to the new environment, this clingy behavior will gradually disappear

3. If you want your child to go to certain places, you can go with him. For example, you can take your child to the play area of the park, play with them for a while, and then slowly move away and watch them from a distance. Step back one step at a time.

If your child starts to show uneasiness, take a few more steps and say, "This slide looks so interesting!" Do you want to play?

After some time, you can stand far away. You need to tell your child where he is: "I'm sitting in this chair.

That way, your child won't panic when he finds out that you're not around

4. Let your child carry something with him, such as a small square scarf, an old wallet, or a ** that he can carry with him

5. Give your child a "magic coin" and tell him that this coin will protect him, and as long as he carries it, he will feel very happy. I recommend that you use a coin because it is different from other souvenirs, and if your child accidentally loses it, you can easily give him another one

6. Pay attention to your words and deeds. You may have inadvertently infected your child with some fearful emotions. For example, you might say:

Oh baby, it doesn't matter, really. Don't be afraid, I'll be back right away. These words, or other body language and facial expressions, can invisibly contribute to this clingy behavior of the child.

What you need to show your child is that you have confidence in him and that he is grown up and will be happy to take care of himself even when you are not around.

Sticking to the mother shows that the mother and child are in deep love, which is not a bad thing. Usually when he is educated, he guides the child with what kind of person his mother likes him to become.

Be ruthless, send it to your grandmother or grandmother's house, otherwise when you go to school and live outside in the future, he will be uncomfortable, you don't worry, let him go independently.

My child is 9 years old, and he still sticks to me every day, just don't spoil him.

Sticky is sticky, only seven years old, when he was still sticky, he was still sticky to his parents, you don't want him to stick to some irrelevant people.

Spend more time with other people and learn to be independent.