At what point do you feel like you ve grown up and aren t what you used to be?

People only grow up after experiencing something, and the changes in the family make me feel that I am no longer as willful as before, because no one is giving you the opportunity to be willful, and I have learned to grow.

I think it was when I suddenly realized that my personality had changed, and I didn't feel like I used to be.

Since I got married and had children, I have found that I have really grown up and no longer spend as much money as I used to, and there are many things I think about for my children.

As I get along with my colleagues at work, I feel like I've grown.

When I took my mother to Beijing for medical treatment, I felt that I had indeed grown up and could take charge of myself on my own, and I was not as cowering as I used to be.

We always have to go through some stories in our lives to be able to grow, and many times after experiencing something, all of a sudden it seems like growing up, and many people have this experience. We all have many experiences in this life, which make us more and more mature and more like an adult. There are a few situations that make me feel like I've grown up, not like a child.

1. Don't flinch when you encounter difficulties. When the mind is not mature, I always have to push out when I encounter difficulties, thinking that I am still a little baby in the hands of my parents, and I think that I can still have a long time in this life for my parents to shield me from the wind and rain. When I left the society, faced with the suffering of society and complex interpersonal relationships, and could only swallow these heartaches and pains silently by myself, I thought that I had grown up and was no longer a child who needed to survive under the wings of my parents.

2. Know how to care for your parents. When we were young, our parents gave us all their love, and we were always selfish to enjoy this love and never thought of reciprocating it. When I grew up and my parents grew old, I became more mature and found that there were a lot of gray hairs on their heads, and I remembered to care for them at this time.

When it was time to care for them, I found that the child who used to care for them as long as his parents cared for him had grown up and knew how to be considerate of his parents. <>

3. Cherish everything you have more. We always lose something when we get something, especially in adulthood, some things become more precious, so we learn to cherish what we have, neither blindly looking forward to the future, nor dwelling on the past and unable to extricate ourselves. Only by knowing how to live in the present and make yourself better can you have a better future.

When I entered the society and encountered a lot of difficulties, I suddenly found that I had grown up and was no longer as naïve as my former self.

Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, from the day I became a parent, I hope that my child will grow up quickly, so that it will be easy. In fact, if you want to be a worry-free parent, you must first cultivate a well-behaved and sensible child.

It is not difficult to find in life that most of the sensible and well-behaved children praised by adults have one quality: they have good living habits! It is the formation of good habits that makes children look different, which is what I mean by growing up.

There is nothing to rely on, only to know that it has been established.

When he is obviously uncomfortable, but he pretends to be optimistic to persuade others. When everything happens, I can't wait to think about the whole world and finally think of myself. Everything in the adult world is forcing you to grow up.

When the side from classmates, to colleagues.

When you can live comfortably alone.

Growing up is gradually starting to do things that you didn't want to do before.

Growing up may be a process of carrying it while hurting.

No more casual communication, no more casual trust.

Suddenly when I grew up, I was going to leave this home when I introduced my boyfriend to my parents.

When I started to worry that if I didn't work hard, I wouldn't be able to live next month.

Flipping through the graduation photos, I knew that I would never go back.

One day you find that you are the only one left in the world, no confiding, no hypocrisy, only strong.

Sometimes, you feel that you are big, and you can write a lot later, the details are as follows.

2. Sometimes, I feel so big that I don't need my mom to sleep with me every night.

3. Sometimes, I feel that I am too big to do everything I can independently.

4. Sometimes, I feel that I am so big that I can go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and meat by myself.

5. Sometimes, I feel that I am too big to live independently without my parents.

6. Sometimes, I feel big enough to handle everything.

Ordinary people just don't want to grow up, don't want to grow up, "don't want to", "unwilling" although it is also expressing rejection and resistance, but this kind of rejection is more helpless, helplessness shows that what he is doing is the opposite of what he is expressing, and "refusing to grow" is completely different, this is expressing a kind of unyielding resistance, the two are different in nature.

1. When I helped my mother, I felt like I was big.

2. When I was a sensible child, I felt that I was very big.

3. When I secretly put on my mother's high heels, I felt very big.

4. When I dress myself, I feel big.

5. When I do my own laundry, I feel big.

6. When I brush my teeth by myself, I feel like I'm big.

7. When I eat by myself, I feel like I'm big.

8. When I went to school by myself, I felt like I was big.

9. When I tie my own shoes, I feel big.

10. When I help others, I feel that I am big.

I felt like I had grown up when my dad allowed me to smoke.

A very philosophical saying: A man grows up three times. The first time was when I found out that I was not the center of the world.

The second time was when I realized that no matter how hard I tried, there were still some things that people couldn't do anything about. The third time was when I knew that there were things I couldn't do about it, but I still tried my best to fight for it.

The post-90s generation has spent more than 20 years of life, and the post-90s generation has been in contact with this society for a long time.

To be honest, the post-90s generation is a child who survives in the transition period. It coincides with the second peak of the country's rapid development. It coincides with the cutting-edge of various institutional reforms.

Wait for the post-90s to be sensible. Seeking development, but also finding that what they have learned is useless. There is no foundation for the post-80s.

There is no new idea for the post-00s. You are simple in heart, you don't want to grow but you have to grow.

Have you ever had a time when you wouldn't be very homesick. Too much time is squeezed into heavy work every day. He was so busy that he forgot his birthday. Never laugh at a childish thing again. Instead, it stirred up a ripple in his heart, and then fell silent again.

This year is 27, last week I went home from vacation, and my old father talked about my marriage, father and son kept grabbing their hair, my father knew that I smoked, and I was not allowed to smoke, that time my father actually handed me one, far less than my father handed cigarettes to his friends chic and natural, very restrained, from that moment I know, I am also an adult.

When I woke up in the future, I found that there was no one to rely on, and I was surrounded by people who had to rely on myself, and the troubles of growing up were not that we chose to grow up, but that time and experience catalyzed our growth.

After the commotion, it will calm down, and everyone will start to be quiet like a mystery again. You won't grow without going through it, but I hope you never have to!

Because growing up means learning to accept unfairness, learning to swallow your emotions, learning to face all obstacles in life calmly, learning to face pressure alone, and learning to say lightly when others are sad that I'm fine.

Growing up is pleasant, it makes us feel the expansion of our understanding of the world, and we always want to be eager to try, while growing up must be painful, it makes us realize our own shortcomings, and the awareness of our own shortcomings is recognized by hitting a wall or failing again and again.

No matter what, everyone will grow, we must learn to grow up, and we will eventually become a real adult. Before you realize it, you have quietly grown up, growing up is not scary, and you will definitely be an excellent you when you grow up.

The fact of really growing up is a history of blood and tears for me, because it means that you have gone through a lot of thorns and paid a lot of costs to get to where you are today, and you can really say to yourself that I have grown up.

And for me, what makes me feel like I've really grown up is that friendship that's gone.

I once had a love that I thought was perfect, and the two were in harmony, which was once the peach blossom source in my heart. Helpless to resist the wind and waves, love was robbed and killed on the way, love died on the road of galloping horses and friendship. Therefore, they are always thinking about each other, unwilling to admit each other's faults, thinking that the love of this life has been ruined, and that without this setback, it will last forever.

But in fact, we will have constant contradictions before, when our views cannot be integrated, our minds cannot be unified, and our thinking cannot be compatible, we will also be estranged and argued, and then one is inexplicably very angry, and one is confused.

I don't know how to get along, two people have also hit their heads and broke blood, and youth makes our minds never give in. I don't know how to tolerate and be considerate, I can't understand each other, two people are very tired of getting along, and they just hold on to each other with enthusiasm.

Later, they finally separated, after being hit by the devastation.

A few days ago, I went on a business trip to his city, walking on a familiar street, and saw a young couple arguing, and the young face was full of fearlessness and unyielding, as if it was a big fault for whoever bowed his head first.

Thinking of us in the past, I am much more indifferent. We have also been so hysterical, obviously caring about each other more than anyone else, but stubbornly refusing to be gentle. But if it were me now, it would be a lot calmer.

Because I want you to know that I care about you, I feel sorry for you, and I love you more, not I want you to guess. I may still be stupid and can't do many things, but I will try to understand you, be tolerant of you, be tolerant of love.

I'm an emotional mermaid, welcome to follow!

When I wasn't interested in cartoons from my childhood, I knew I had grown up and didn't like these things anymore.

When I was in college, I did everything by myself, and I felt like I had grown up.

After graduating from high school, I felt that I had grown up and had some things to take on by myself, and it was useless to run away.

When my parents' hair started to turn gray, I felt like I had grown up and had to take on the responsibility of supporting my parents.

When I went to a bookstore for a summer job and gave all the first money I earned to my mom, I felt like I had really grown up.

When my mother was not in good health, she couldn't work, and I realized that I had grown up and that I should have learned to take care of my family, who were already old.

When I graduated from university, I felt that I was going to enter the society, and I had to take good care of myself and not let my parents worry about me.

When I didn't love rag dolls, I knew I had grown up and didn't like these kids' stuff anymore.

Autumn pants when they don't stretch to the ankles.

My dad and I are friends now, and we don't feel like enemies anymore.

I felt like I had grown up when I learned to take care of my family, and I felt like I had grown up when I found out about my parents' gray hair.

It was when I was in high school that I felt that it was really difficult for my parents, I was tired enough to go to work, and I had to get up early every day to prepare breakfast for me.