How long can we maintain this kind of relationship? We are in an online relationship, we want to giv

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Obviously, you don't want to give up on this man, and your current contradiction is that you think too much and assume the worst.

    If fate is destined to be a tragedy, then there is no need to move forward in your heart. You are afraid of being hurt in the slightest, as you say, you lack a sense of security, and you lack complete trust in someone.

    Complete trust can make one person a slave to another. , completely confiding, completely letting go of your hands to love, then there are two possibilities. One is to bruise all over the body. And the other is to get the true love of the world that ordinary people can't get.

    You always think on the bad side and pile everything into the dark, knowing that even if you want to protect yourself, you may also push happiness out.

    I'm just suggesting that you learn to be brave enough to love. The only price to pay for wanting to get a sincere heart is to exchange your sincerity for another sincerity, but you always think about it, afraid of being hurt, and retreat.

    Love is an experience of life, a process of growth, sometimes even if a love, its ending is sad, is bitter, but I believe that it will always leave you with good memories.

    And those good memories can sometimes become a person's lifelong treasure.

    If you really love and it is deep, especially if you know that person loves you too, then there is no need to give up and retreat. A real love is a distance and obstacle that can be crossed. But only if it's a real and deep love.

    But if you want to give up and cut off all contact, go upstairs and say, a year, or even shorter, and you will downplay him, or even forget about him. Maybe this seems to you now, this is an impossible thing, but the feelings are deep, even if it is a couple of people, one of them dies, decades of time, decades of love, and the other person dies and there is a continuation of the string, not to mention the relationship of just a few years. Putting it down, nothing is impossible.

    As long as you are willing, as long as you are truly willing to let go, nothing is impossible.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Honestly, I'm very similar to yours.

    I've known him for three years, and it's also a different place.

    Talked about love for a year.

    Later, they broke up and became ordinary friends.

    Although it is sad, I am still very glad that I have made my choice, you believe me, long pain is better than short pain, online dating is indeed beautiful, so beautiful that people are intoxicated, but, the reality is very cruel, that is, long-distance relationships are easy to deteriorate, not to mention that you are a long-distance online relationship, don't fall deeper and deeper, giving up is a painful choice, but this choice will make you get a happier relationship, so lz, give up, this is the best choice for both of you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    For example, people know how cold and warm they are when they drink water. I think two years is enough time for you to see what kind of person the other person is. I'm not in a position to comment on whether your relationship should continue or not, and I don't know if your relationship will continue.

    It's just that you have to understand that it's not easy to love someone with all your heart. If you end it easily, then you can only regret yourself. But again, if it doesn't end when it's time to end, it's not just sad in the end.

    If everything falls between you because of one. So that the excuse of boredom can affect. So have you ever wondered if you are ignoring something, or if you are not as loving each other as you imagined?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Unless two people can go to the same city, give up. It's a little hurtful, but it works.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Lost your ID and bank cards? He didn't ask you to pay him, did he? I think you should give up too, the truth is often the opposite of the dream, just let that past be a good memory, mine.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When another boy appears, maybe you can separate from him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not suitable to break up quickly, and the more you drag on, the more sad you become.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No matter how long the online dating is, it's just online dating, primary school students will talk about fruitless love, and the reason of adults will convince themselves to seek a result for a relationship, and the relationship without results is just a waste of each other's time.

    It's just through the mobile phone to talk about feelings, it's too unreal, you can't touch this person, you can't see it with your own eyes, and what you understand is just what the other party wants you to see....If you just seek spiritual comfort, then each other is just a netizen of the other party, not boyfriend and girlfriend.

    Of course, if you meet and run, it is not considered online dating.

    When two people talk about their feelings, they still have frequent contact and fully understand each other. Over time, when the novelty fades, it becomes important to be suitable. A good relationship needs to be managed by both parties, but the relationship between one party and repeated concessions will not last long.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is only one end result of the network: separation and strangers. But there are very few, online dating is actually to re-acquaint yourself with a person on the Internet, and then talk to this person very openly, and finally be together, but online dating can't be together every day, the difference between the care on the screen and reality is too big, at the beginning, it's just that his image in your mind is too tall, when every time you see someone else is face-to-face care and say I love you, at this time you will definitely be thinking about how good it would be if he (she) was by my side, the days of not meeting are really hard, So don't let the relationship elevate at the beginning, everyone will have a good impression of a person of the opposite sex who often chats with them, but this kind of good feeling is limited to his (her) freshness to you, at this time you are making the relationship elevated, and when the novelty passes, you start to annoy the other party.

    Don't let a good impression of the opposite sex often talking to you become a reason for you to be with him or her!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think that any online dating or emotion may become slowly unfamiliar after a long time, or slowly lose its freshness. So if you want to maintain a good emotion, there must be different changes.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If both parties are trying to develop in a good way, then they can work hard, if one party is not optimistic about this relationship, the other party will be very tired, and gradually there will be no feelings, and both parties can open their hearts and discuss this can make both parties go for a long time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not that simple. The length of online dating depends on how well two people know each other and how much they speak together. It's not necessarily bad if it's a long time, and it's not necessarily a rush if it's short, all in all, when the feelings and consensus of two people reach a point, then it's a successful relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As long as it is love, it will slowly fade, unless there is a way to keep the relationship fresh, not to mention online dating that has never even seen the entity.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It depends, nothing is absolute.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Long-distance relationships are hard. But there is such a saying. Surviving a different place is a lifetime.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Online dating is not supported! Reality leaks the truth of society! Most of the online datings are not as good as before!

    If you love it, don't miss it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    How long has it been to talk, whether you haven't met him, or he hasn't met you, or either of you have seen each other. Dare to ask if the two of you are outsourcing?

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