I feel that my friend is snubbing me for no reason, am I too careful?

Sometimes we feel that our friends suddenly snub us, in fact, this is very normal, it may be that our thinking is interfering with us, it may be that our friends are really busy and have no time to get along with you, there may be no problems with a short period of snubbing, if it is a long time, we should think about it.

When a friend snubs us, I first have to let go of my mind, I can't think about it all the time, I should go in a good direction to see it, everyone has their own things, we can't be angry because of the temporary snub of others, we can do our best.

Friends to you are a true friend or hypocrisy, through the usual interaction can be seen, if it is the kind of usual contact, both sides have problems to help each other solve, work and life have something to share together, this kind of friend is worthy of our relationship, and the kind of people who usually have no contact, have difficulties to ask you for help or borrow your money, after helping, the same as missing, this kind of person we should think about it, their sense of coldness, we can directly ignore, It's better to get along with less of such friends.

It is said that at home by relying on parents to go out and rely on friends, friends can give us help and encouragement in many things, without asking for returns, we should get along with them with our hearts, real good friends, even if they do not contact for a period of time, the friendship between the two sides will not be affected at all, and sometimes it can enhance the friendship between us.

Therefore, in our daily life, work and study, when we suddenly feel that our friends snub us for no reason, don't think nonsense, and firmly believe that true friends will not destroy friendship because of some trivial things, and the friendship of good friends is for a lifetime.

First of all, it depends on what your friend is snubbing you for, whether it is your own reason, or you take your friend too seriously, and hope that the other party will tell you all the sad and sad things, but friends will not be the only friend of you.

If he will think of you when he is sad and sad, but choose to share with other friends when he is happy, this friend is not worth your heart, when you are sad, treat you as an emotional trash can, tell you all the negative energy, sadness can be shared with ordinary people around you, when you are happy, you think of the person you share with is the person you really regard as a friend.

A friend is not someone who has to be with you at all times, maybe you are very happy together, and suddenly one day your friend has a new friend, and he no longer talks to you every day like before, you will think that he has slowly moved away from you, which is the wrong mentality.

You have to adjust your mentality, don't let yourself be cranky, a real friend will not alienate you, friends also have their own things to do, don't bother each other when the other person is busy.

If a friend chats happily with you when he is alone with you, he will choose to keep you aside when he meets other friends, and such a friend just treats you as a spare tire.

He will only think of you when no one is with him, and it is normal to ignore your feelings, after all, he has never thought about caring about your feelings, and it is better to stay away from him when he meets such a friend.

Don't think friends are very important, there are still a lot of things in your life that you need to complete, don't want to revolve around friends all the time, distance will also produce beauty, there is no need to chat every day, so that there is no topic between you after a long time.

I think you feel like your friend is snubbing you for no reason. Maybe it's not that you're too careful, because if you don't feel this way under normal circumstances, why do you feel this way for no reason? It may be that someone really snubbed you, but the friend may not be intentional, it may be something, because he has been busy lately or something, and then there is no time to be with you.

Because my friend has been busy lately, and then he has less time with you, I think you should understand him, because everyone has their own life, and if you are busy, you must be very busy, you should talk to him and see if you need to help him, so that you can both have a better relationship.

But if you find that he has snubbed you recently, not because he is busy, but because he seems to be estranged from you for no reason, then you have to think about whether it is because of something that happened recently that your friend's attitude towards you has changed, that is, whether you have done something to be sorry for your friend, or something that makes your friend sad and sad, if you find that there is such a thing, you have to apologize to your friend and then say what you think. Then tell him that next time it won't, and you'll be as good as before. But I think if you find out that something hasn't happened, he just changes his attitude towards you for no reason, and I think you can communicate with him, after all, say what you think, what his thoughts are.

In this way, everyone will get along better in the future and will not be estranged for no reason.

I think you and your friends still lack communication, you should communicate more, and I think another important thing is that you and your friends can go out on the weekend, play some games or go to the study room to read books together, so that your relationship will be more intimate.

It's possible, but, it's just that there may be many reasons for this situation, and some of them are not cold.

The first reason is your own feelings, that is, you are thinking too much, it may be that you have not been in a good mood lately, you are too negative about things, therefore, your friends may be the same towards you as before, and you are now too sensitive and feel left out.

The second reason may be that she has been really busy lately, and she cares less about you, and sometimes she doesn't even have the time or mood to take care of you, but what you should do at this time is to understand rather than doubt, because he is also helpless, and I believe that he will correct it after this time.

The third reason is his reason, because everyone has a certain patience or interest in things, even if two people play well for a long time, they will get tired, which leads to the situation of ignoring each other, although you don't think too much, but you should still understand, because, maybe when you are like this, he also tolerates you.

The fourth possibility is that you didn't think much about it, you may have said something sad to him unnoticed, and that sentence may be his bottom line, and you don't know it, then he will be cold to you.

Anyway, you should observe carefully before making a conclusion, and at the same time, you should communicate more with your friends to avoid accidentally hurting her, and you should also be generous.

It doesn't count as a lot of heart, but it can be seen that you cherish this friendship with your friends. At the same time, I envy your friend, because there is a person like you who cares about this friendship with her. And in our life, the most important thing is nothing more than family, friendship and love.

So it's a very happy thing to have a good friend who can be with you for a lifetime. <>

If you feel that there may be some aspects, your friend's attitude towards you is different from before, you can take the initiative to ask your friend, girls may be more sensitive, if there is no problem, of course, it is good. But if you do something that makes your friend feel uncomfortable, it is best to correct it in time.

I believe that the premise of being a good friend is to know how to think about others and not be selfish. You may be able to notice in time that your friends are becoming cold to you, or it may be that you are thinking too much about yourself. But all of this reflects the fact that you are a person who knows how to consider the feelings of others.

We will meet a lot of people in our lives, and it is a great fate to be able to meet, and it is not easy to be good friends. Therefore, we should cherish this friendship and be able to become friends, it must be like-minded and very compatible people, so any problems can be communicated well, and then it can be solved easily. Or a meal, or maybe a drink, you can go from arguing to having fun.

The relationship between girls is complicated and complicated, but it is actually very simple. The relationship between boys is easier to deal with, and there are few things that cannot be overcome.

It's just that people are busy with you...