What should this relationship look like, and what should I do?

If you want to be plain in the future, get married.

If you still want to be hopeful all day, break up.

The age difference is big and the time of acquaintance is short, and it is too hasty to get married now.

Let's not talk about him himself, have you met his parents?

You say he's from a small town, and the last one in his hometown who is about the same age is married, so how small is this town?

Didn't his parents know that he was dating, and they forced him to marry all day long.

If he really doesn't know, why doesn't he tell his parents, and if his parents know, do you feel like his parents are pushing you or are pushing you?

If you don't get married, what if you get married in the future, I promise that there will be a lot of messy things in the future.

He himself is still in a relationship with you Now I may be a little bit of a villain in the belly of a gentleman But this is also for you I have always been in this way.

He knew very well what was going on in his house, and all we knew was that the neighbors were enthusiastic about introducing people all day long, and his parents had come over to force him.

And he also knows that after marrying you, you will not be free, in fact, after marriage, not only will you not be free, there are many other things, he knows very well, so he also mentioned the idea of breaking up in order to let you go, but after putting forward the idea of breaking up, he still maintains such an ambiguous relationship, wants to maintain a relationship during this time, and then cry together, laugh together, and continue to deepen this relationship.

I can only say that there are only two outcomes if this continues, one is that you will fall into it and finally compromise and get married, and the other is that in the end he will go on a blind date and get married, and you will only suffer more damage, of course, it is not ruled out that he will still maintain an ambiguous relationship with you when he gets married.

You go back and see for yourself who will get the most out of persevering like this.

I also hope that I am too careful, he is just reluctant, but even then he is just an indecisive person, and if he is truly in love, he should minimize the damage done to the other person, instead of using a knife to pull the wound deeper and deeper.

Here's my advice to you.

If he really loves you, he will respect you, and in the same way, if you really love him, you will sacrifice for him, you can go home with him to meet his family, explain your actual situation to his family, and let them understand your difficulties.

You're only 20 years old, but he's 30 years old, you can wait, but he can't afford to wait. So don't blame his parents too much, if you're 30 years old and haven't gotten married, your parents will rush you, right?

If you really like him, get married, and you're in a relationship with him anyway to get married (unless you're not sure you're going to marry him). Having a child can be delayed, just say that your husband is infertile or something, it's okay to make up a nonsense.

Go and meet his parents first, and then tell his parents that when you graduate and get engaged, you can actually get engaged and get married first, and then you don't have to worry about having children.

I choose to pay more attention to the communication between two people, because I think communication is very important for relationships.

In the process of getting along with two people, I personally attach great importance to the communication between two people. If the communication between two people is not smooth enough, unnecessary misunderstandings and troubles will arise between two people. At the same time, these things can also hurt the feelings between two people.

I think two people need to care more about each other, and at the same time, they need to use appropriate skills and methods to manage their relationship. Regarding the question you asked, I will give a specific answer from the following points.

First, I will pay attention to the communication between two people.

In most cases, regardless of whether there is a problem with the relationship between two people, I think communication is very important. I think the way of communication is very important, two people can't be together just because they love each other, don't talk about good communication to maintain a relationship for a long time. In their love life, two people need to tolerate each other, and at the same time, they need to take the initiative to communicate with each other.

Second, I will also choose to actively manage my feelings.

Managing relationships is easy to say, but it's very difficult to do. It is difficult to distinguish between right and wrong in emotional matters, and in most cases, it is not that there is a problem with the two parties themselves, but because the two people are not actively emotional, so it will lead to a rift in the relationship between the two people of Yan Kai. Because of this, I will actively pay attention to the relationship between two people and manage the relationship with my heart.

3. I will choose to be tolerant and trust each other.

I think tolerance and trust are the foundation of maintaining a good relationship, and when we are serious about a relationship, we need to be as tolerant as possible, and at the same time, we need to trust the other person enough. I think tolerance and trust can make the relationship between two people last longer, and it will also show our loyalty to each other. To a certain extent, everyone needs personal space, we can't kidnap each other morally because of emotional problems, we need to have enough trust and support for each other.

In a relationship, I take it very seriously because it's responsible for myself and the people I love. I'm going to try to manage our relationship.

In this relationship, I will try my best to put on a stool to correct my posture, because I know that the management of a relationship takes a lot of effort, and I don't want to let myself miss the person I love, so I will know how to tolerate and tolerate each other in getting along with each other, of course, this is also based on my boyfriend's respect and tolerance for me, I don't want our love to be only one party, this is a very irresponsible thing for that party, what I hope is that the two of us go to each other, That's what I did.

And in this relationship, I will do what I should do as a girlfriend, I will take the initiative to help my boyfriend do something, which is something I am willing to do, and I will give my boyfriend some personal space to avoid our relationship being very depressed because of the time we spend too long, I don't want to see this situation very much, so I will not limit my boyfriend's social range, but on some occasions, I still need to quietly remind my boyfriend to have a certain measure, After all, I'm also jealous, and I feel bad when I see my boyfriend getting along with other members of the opposite sex, and if it's not uncomfortable, it means that I shouldn't love my boyfriend, after all, it's someone who doesn't care.

In the end, I hope that in this relationship, I don't lose my heart, don't lose my self-esteem because I love my boyfriend too much, and loving someone in vain will only make me worthless, so I won't let myself fall into that situation, the love I want is consensual and work together. If one day we don't love each other anymore, I hope we can bless each other well and not let ourselves be left with regrets, because I want my memories to be good and not full of resentment.

I will cherish the relationship with each other, respect each other, understand each other, and give each other more care and companionship, so that the relationship between me and the other party can always remain upright.

I will maintain my relationship, and if I love each other very much, then I will also make some concessions so that I can maintain the stability of my marriage.

In a relationship, I will cherish each other very much, and I will be full of rationality and will not lose my temper casually.