Tell us about the customs of bride trouble in your hometown?

If we get married there, there will be the groom carrying the bride on his back, and the groom and the bride will eat eggs together, and they will also be allowed to drink some mixed drinks, in short, it will be very lively.

In my hometown, there is no custom of making a bride, it is all about my parents-in-law. But the bride can't leave the ground with her feet during the whole marriage process, otherwise her married life will not be happy, so there will be a lot of jokes.

My hometown is in a rural village in the north, because when we basically mess with the bride there, they are all friends of the man, and when the bride comes back, kissing and hugging these can be completely up to themselves.

Because there is no custom of making a bride in my hometown, I don't know much about this custom of making a bride, but according to many news on the Internet, there are many customs of making a bride, for example, a group of brothers will tease the bride when they spend candle night in the cave room.

There are some customs of making brides in my hometown. But it's relatively few, because our hometown doesn't pay much attention to this custom, and I feel that the newlywed is just two people happy, and it doesn't have much to do with other relatives.

In my hometown, many of the groom's friends make trouble with the bride, and they think it's a very good tradition, and I think it's a bit of an exaggeration to say that the more trouble you get, the happier you are.

In the past, there was a lot of custom in my hometown about newlyweds, especially before the groom entered the door, I had to give him a dismount, just let him drink a lot of water.

The bride in our hometown must be known to be able to coax, and people who don't know will not let you enter the new house at all, I think this is still better, so that there will be no bad things.

Wedding customs in China vary depending on region, ethnicity, and religion, but my hometown is the Northeast. The following are the marriage customs in some parts of China:

1.Northern Region: Traditional weddings in northern regions are more solemn and often require many links and ceremonies.

For example, marriage introduction, dowry exchange, crossing the gate, bride pick-up, banquet, etc. At the same time, there are also some special wedding customs, such as in Beijing and Tianjin, where the groom must jump high to enter the new house.

2.North China: In North China, the bride needs to make three big gifts to her parents before going out to show her gratitude and gratitude to the family.

In addition, in some areas, there will be a "barricade" link, requiring the bride Tongchun to pass by the door, you need to accept some jokes about the hole room first.

3.South China: In South China, weddings can last for several days, and various wedding customs and ceremonies are more or more colorful. In Guangdong, for example, the "door-to-door hearth" is a very important ceremony, where the bride is tested by the elders of the family, relatives and friends.

4.Southwest: In the Southwest, the bride is required to undergo a "firegate" ceremony before marrying into a new home. At the same time, there are a series of ring and traditional customs such as "shaving the head", "washing the feet", and "drinking".

In short, the marriage customs in various parts of China are rich and colorful, reflecting the cultural characteristics and customs of different regions, ethnic groups and religions, and are also an important part of traditional Chinese culture.

I've been there, I've actually heard about it, because my family also has this custom, but I don't think it's very good, and it's likely to make the bride turn her face.

I've heard about this custom, and I live in a city where I often go to my friend's wedding in Datong, but I find it very interesting.

Of course, I have heard that I have such a custom when I get married in my life, in fact, it is for prosperity, and it is also a good implication. But don't overdo it.

Weddings are an extremely important part of folk culture. Because most people only get married once in their lifetime, they want their wedding to be unique and creative.

Although the current form and process of marriage is gradually Westernized, that is, the man wears a suit and bow tie, and the woman wears a white gauze skirt and holds a gift flower, and finally the two take an oath to kiss and exchange rings in the presence of the priest.

However, there are still some traditional marriage customs and etiquette in today's Chinese land, and today, the author will talk to you about the traditional marriage customs reported by ethnic minorities.

Marriage, because of the different cultural customs in each place, there will naturally be regional differences in marriage customs, so the marriage customs in the countryside are compared with the city, and some interesting rural marriage customs are worth seeing.

1. Eat happy noodles.

After the groom arrives at the bride's house, the bride's parents will sit with the groom for a while, and then the bride's sister and sister-in-law will appear on the stage, start to ask for red envelopes, and agree on the price of the wedding noodles, which is generally negotiated in advance. When the wedding noodles begin, the groom should eat them quickly, and the bride's family will quickly grab them. The implication is to win the rich, so the two parties will try their best to grab the happy face.

Under normal circumstances, the groom can only eat one bite, and the noodles are robbed.

2. Door opening fee.

After eating the noodles, the groom came to the bride's door, and the bride did not open the door, so he had to take a red envelope to open the door. Of course, these red envelopes are all requested by the bride's family.

3. Door lock fee.

When the groom entered the house, the parents of the bride had already locked the door, and if they wanted to marry the bride back, they had to pay the door lock fee, not give red envelopes, and not open the door. Some smart grooms will arrange for someone to hold the door in advance and not let it be locked.

Fourth, three cannons.

When the groom has almost taken out the red envelope, it is time for the bride to get on the sedan chair, but the groom must put enough three cannons, and the firecrackers are longer than the other, so that the bride can get on the sedan chair.

Fifth, there is no turning back.

When you come back, you can't take the road you used to marry, which means that the husband and wife don't go back.

Sixth, grab the red quilt after the hole room.

On the night of the cave room, the groom and the bride will grab the only red quilt Zhengsen, who grabs the meaning is who has the final say in the future.

My hometown is a rural village full of rustic atmosphere, and the marriage customs here are very interesting and impressive.

Here are a few of the marriage customs I've introduced::

1.The "hole room" before the wedding

In my hometown, the pre-wedding "cave room" is a very interesting custom, which is usually done in the bride's house, where the groom and his best man need to enter the bride's bedroom in various interesting ways, such as climbing the window, climbing over the wall, etc. Once in the bedroom, the groomsmen will hide the bride and let the groom look for her. During this process, the groomsmen will constantly create all kinds of jokes and pranks to make the groom feel embarrassed and funny.

Finally, after the groom finds the bride, they will go out together and start the formal wedding ceremony just early.

2.Wedding car procession.

In my hometown, the wedding car procession at the time of marriage is also a very interesting custom.

The bride and groom will sit in a luxurious wedding car, while the other vehicles will follow. These vehicles are usually very beautifully decorated, such as with streamers, garlands, balloons, and so on. During the driving of the convoy, the people on the bus will constantly set off fireworks and firecrackers, creating a very lively atmosphere.

Sometimes, the motorcade will stop and let the bride and groom get off the bus and dance with passers-by, which is very funny.

3."Grab red envelopes" at weddings

In my hometown, "grabbing red envelopes" when getting married is also a very interesting custom.

At the wedding, the bride and groom will put some red envelopes on the table, and the guests of the wedding banquet can go and grab these red envelopes. In this process, everyone will scramble to grab the red envelope, and sometimes there will be some funny scenes. Finally, those who grab the red envelopes will get some small gifts, such as candy, small toys, and so on.

4."Drinking a glass of wine" at the wedding

In my hometown, it is also a very interesting custom to "drink a cup of wine and make a megabird" when getting married.

At weddings, the bride and groom each pick up a glass of wine, then exchange glasses and drink each other's wine. During this process, the bride and groom usually drink very happily, and the other guests will also drink, creating a very lively atmosphere.

Overall, the marriage customs in my hometown are very interesting and impressive.

They would tie the bride and groom to a tree, smash the bride and groom with eggs and flour, and make the groom drink 100 glasses of wine before holding the bride.

I've seen a lot, especially in some remote villages, where they take off their bride's clothes and keep pouring wine on the bride to satisfy their entertainment. Let the good happy event become very smoky.

When we hold a wedding in our hometown, we have to set up a banquet in our courtyard to entertain all the guests. On the way to get married, wherever there is a well, red paper must be pasted to ward off evil spirits. Finally, divide the sugar, red eggs.

Hide a lot of eggs in the newcomer's bed and give them to all of us to eat the next day.

That is, the bride must throw a bouquet of flowers, so that you can taste the good meaning to the person who receives the bouquet, and the father must send the bride to marry, which is also a very good custom.

There are customs in my family to sit on the hour, step into the brazier, make trouble with the bride, uncover the hijab, make the father-in-law happy with the mother-in-law, press the box, send relatives, receive relatives, give dowry, and give dowry.

Eat white rice, sprinkle chopsticks, fries.

Go daughter, spill out the water, you have to go back to your own house. Anyway, I just think that the countryside has to pay a lot of attention to it.

So now let me talk about the customs of marriage in our hometown. My family is in a village in Hebei Province, and because my sister has just gotten married, she is still familiar with the answer to this.

Our marriage here is still the kind of kind where the man's family sets the table, and the woman also sets the table. On the day of the woman's marriage, the woman should start from her own house and there are people to send relatives, generally six people to send relatives, and these people also have certain selection criteria, depending on whether they are compatible with the bride's genus, etc., and to put some coins on the bride's body, and then go to the groom's house to scatter some. When you arrive at the man's house, you will have to go to the so-called church to get married, of course, the person who blocks the family will not receive his bride so easily, they will come up with some problems to test the newcomer, and the person who stops the family will only release the person after playing with his own red envelope, and the next thing is to worship the man's parents and worship heaven and earth.

These matters are almost over and it's time to start dinner at noon, the newcomers want to respect the elders at a table by table, respect for classmates, respect for friends and the like, the big guys can send some blessings to the newcomers or play some games with the newcomers during this period, of course, there are benefits (cigarettes, sugar, red envelopes) to win, almost after the afternoon is over, and you can play in the cave room at night. Then on the woman's side, we usually have a banquet for three days, and the woman will return the next day, and she will rush home before the sun sets.