I m in love with a girl, but the circumstances don t allow it

Feelings don't have to affect learning

The pressure of studying in the third year of high school is high, and feelings can just make up for it, so as long as it doesn't affect your studies, it's okay to fall in love

When it comes to parents and teachers, I believe they are also for your good, so you don't blame them, keep a low profile, and don't let them worry too much Hehe

There is no environment to create an environment, and love must be carried out to the end!

For the sake of your beloved her, you must study hard and give her happiness in the future I wish you happiness and success in the college entrance examination!

I think there's a kind of rebellious mentality involved.

Actually, you love her very much and want to take care of her, I understand this mentality.

But at the same time, because of everyone's opposition, you want to take good care of her even more.

Let's separate for the time being, even if we are separated now, it doesn't mean that you can't be together in the future.

If you go out into the society, your career will be successful.

If you want to be with her, will your parents still object?

Now it's because I'm afraid it will affect your studies and future!

I agree with the previous floors.

When you are still young, you don't have to worry about any oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, and when you think that only love is what you want.

Later you will find that you have to have love, and at the same time you have to have many other things first!

I'm from the past, I suggest that you keep your current relationship, but focus on studying, otherwise you will only love and won't be able to make money without literary reviews, you can't work and can't make money, she will leave you sooner or later, a man who can't make money and live is not a man!

You can't get both!

It's only been an hour, and it's not far away, you should go and confess to that girl, if she can accept a relationship that you only see a few times a week, let's be together! My girlfriend and I only see each other a few times a year, and you're relatively happy!!

Other! If she takes the initiative, you will have a show.

If she had a hint, she could.

In your case, you're waiting for you to say first, you have to probe first, and if you think it's okay, you can talk to him and ask him what he wants to find.

Getting married during college is rarely a lot of factors to consider after graduation.

No, that's how I am. You'll never know what she's doing when she's not around, hurt egg.

Don't let the probability of success in a long-distance relationship be too low, lest both parties invest in their feelings and eventually fail to come together, and waste each other's time and energy.

Don't! My ex-girlfriend is like that, you'll regret not listening to me.

The generation gap between an immature girl who doesn't have any sense of security and a man who wants to live a good and stable life? Turning sharply, perhaps because he found that you and he are not from the same world, your age has caught up with the national policy of planning business, and now the problem has arisen: there is only one child at home, pampered!

He is good to you because he thinks love is very sacred, and the first good is exchanged for your bad temper? Remember! He is also a human being, an only child, and he also caught up with family planning!

The bad thing is because he doesn't get what he wants, he gets what he doesn't want! Dodging and giving up is one way!

Maybe it's his kind way of rejecting you! If you still want to redeem it, it's hard! You can't change your status quo! It's harder!

Don't blame me for being too straight If I have a girlfriend like this and I still break up? I don't care about you directly! (I have a share in hitting you) although I don't hit women! If you want to keep it, you have to change your temper, in short, you have to change.

If this man is going to leave you, you don't need to keep it. He's struggling inside, give him a moment's time. Since he loves you so much, it won't be so easy to let go of you and give everyone a little time.

Since the fault is yours, then take the initiative to admit the mistake and change it, if he refuses to pick you up**, then you will wait downstairs at his house to show your sincerity. There are really not many good men in the world, the landlord should cherish it, come on!

Why do people always know how to cherish when they lose?

If he still loves you, maybe there is a chance for redemption between you.

But if he is really tired, has been tortured enough by you, and has no feelings for you, what you do will be of no avail.

A 5-year relationship is not as good as a few days of others, and your relationship is more fragile.

You've only been in love with a girl, and there are thousands of more in the world.

I sympathize with you, time will dilute. The same is the end of the world.

Don't deny everyone because of one person, life goes on.

You can't give up your feelings! {And affection] you can communicate more with your parents, and talk more about that girl's good parents. Here, I hope that sister will not give up and value your feelings.

Don't be discouraged! I'm a Han girl, and a Korean boy has been dating for a year, and now both parents know it, and they have also met the parents, not a formal meeting, we started with the same as you, very difficult, parents are particularly disagreeable, my mother said that Korean boys are big men, but my object is very good to me, and then my mother met my object, and her impression began to get better, my object is particularly polite, and very honest, my mother began to open one eye and close one eye, I, also play a little courteous, Embroider a pillow and give it to him, or wrap some zongzi and give it to him, and ask him to take it home for his parents to taste, his mother should also be a little moved, and now we are very good! My parents wanted us to go out together.

Therefore, it is useless to be anxious, and it is up to you to take practical action The specific method depends on you, I wish you happiness! Contribute to national unity!

After reading it carefully.

The analysis is as follows (I can only analyze, the road is self-described).

The situation is typical and normal.

Your parents see too many precedents!!

So in their thinking.

There is no hope for this combination with you.

So be sure that your parents are good to you.

Those words are just hoping to change you, and it can't happen.

In fact, traditional parents are the best to communicate.

Because as long as you are genuinely good to them, they are also genuinely good to you, so it is not enough to rely on your efforts.

They actually want to see your girlfriend's efforts.

As long as your girlfriend is doing well, they have nothing to say.

And they will be very happy in the future, and their daughter-in-law is the best. Traditional parental thinking needs to change slowly, and it's up to your girlfriend that you may be too small unilaterally.

Take it one step at a time, and don't stiffen your feelings.

In short, there is still a lot of hope.

I wish you happiness!! I'm also a senior and I'm facing similar problems. Lonely at the end of the season.

Through these remarks of yours, I feel a hint of wanting to give up in your heart.

I don't care what you Koreans are like.

But as a man, the least you need to do is be responsible.

Don't be so cherished now just because you've got someone else.

Since you know that there was such a gap between Koreans and Han Chinese, why did you want to be with someone else in the first place?

Doesn't a man even have that vision? Isn't the purpose of being together to get married?

If you sleep with someone else, then you have to take your share of responsibility. Overcoming all the difficulties, he married someone.

Because these are your difficulties, do you want to leave them to the woman?

Otherwise, you don't want to talk about you Koreans or machismo or anything here.

Machismo will never find an excuse to pick a son and leave.

Cherish it, some things are not easy to come by, your parents were born in Han Ren, they did not come into contact with the Han people, how do they know that they are barbaric, there is no gentleness, virtuous, discuss with your parents to give some time to let your wife contact with your parents, so that your parents want to be the same as the daughter of the neighbor, it is a test, you are a middleman, what will not be taught, it depends on you.

I'm a Korean buddy, I think you'd better forget it...

Your parents are too old-fashioned, you talk to your parents well; If you love that girl a lot.

You should find a time to sit down with your parents and have a good chat, and also let your parents know more about the girl you like, let your parents know her number, and tell them with practical actions that you love each other and have no regrets about the decisions you have made.

It's all Chinese who still say what ethnic differences, parents say it's also for the good of their children, I don't know what kind of girl your girlfriend is, as long as it's not the kind of unreasonable and playful nature, I think you can take her home for your parents to meet, use your actions to influence your parents, which parents don't want their children to be happy? You should be a very filial son, and I believe that your girlfriend is the same as you! Finally, I wish you all happiness!

May your parents be able to accept your girlfriend!

To be honest, it's for the points. But after reading the questions, I don't care if there are points or not. Let's talk about it, the two of you have gone through a lot of tests to get to where you are today, and it is not easy.

But I still hope that you will wait another year or so before getting married, give your parents a process, and then indirectly open up to your parents through a few relatives, of course, those who are more open-minded. Of course, discuss it with the girl. I have a classmate whose parents are not the same, because it is a different place, and my classmate's parents speak the local dialect, and it is difficult for the girl to understand, which makes my classmate very worried, but he is still trying.

Yes, that girl is very simple, three years.

The pace of life is so fast now that n changes can occur in three months.

Nobody wants to wait, and everybody knows the outcome of waiting, and it's almost in vain.

Personally, I think that she is hesitating, he is not sure that he loves you very much, maybe waiting, no, it is you, appear, you are out. You know the details of your lives.

Three years is unrealistic, but it's not impossible, but isn't it more romantic to do this kind of thing when you're married, and I don't think there's anything wrong with having sex when you're married.

The girl is doing very well, but it takes too long, it is better to get a marriage certificate first, and then do things after three years, the same!

It's right not to give it to him, and if you get it, you won't have that sense of mystery.

These two people will never be able to get married.

Girls don't love you enough, how can there be so many rules and regulations when you love.

People who are always worried that others are not good enough, in fact, they have no confidence in themselves, if you are good enough, what are you worried about? Besides, there is no job yet, and when you work, maybe she earns more than you, and now the job has little to do with your own strength, background and luck are king.

If you are still in the learning stage, you can fall in love, but it is best not to say anything "later", and to give less harm to others, which is to accumulate virtue for yourself. You are still young, and it's okay to fall in love now, but if you say anything about coming together, it's still far away, in fact, if you work very close in the future, you can really be together.

If you love, please love deeply, don't mind what other people think, other people's thoughts can't interfere with you, if you think you just like it, then forget it, the more you later, the deeper the hurt will be to the other person.

Then you have to think about whether you really love her.

Actually, according to what you say, because she is not good enough, so you mind a little, then I think you should not love her, maybe you just have a good feeling, then in this case, it is better not to be together.

Otherwise, it's not good for both of you.

And there's more time to come.

When it's time for you to work, maybe there will be better girls, and it's OK to chase another one at that time.

If you have information about yourself, if you like her, if you have the courage, then why worry so much Actually, everything is very realistic As long as you have the ability and she is virtuous, the family will not object to it, right.

You don't have to worry so much when you're still in school, you don't mind if she's not good enough, have you ever thought about how good you are, and you worry so much, what do you like about her, what makes you tell her to be together? Now that we have said it, we must overcome these worries.

Can't help you. Long-distance relationships are harder.

Do you think she's not good now, so she's still together? If you love her, you won't dislike her conditions.

Maybe you can go back and forth like friends for a while, and when you find out that you can't do without each other, you can only be together.

Then ask yourself if you really love her in your heart, can you tolerate her imperfections, if not, cut the mess quickly, don't procrastinate, make each other uncomfortable, especially the woman, if you don't love her, don't be afraid to hurt her and not say break up, in the end she will be hurt more deeply by you. As for the economy, as long as two people love each other deeply, what are they afraid of. There's no money to earn slowly, you're too realistic, sometimes don't be too realistic and it will make your life tired, you make your own decisions about this kind of thing, what others say is useless, but think about whether you can live with her for the rest of your life, if you can't, as soon as possible,

Think about your heart before you do something, do you really love her? How much do you know about her? Don't fall in love blindly, you still have a lot of time in the future, maybe you will meet a better one, more suitable for you.

If you still think she's good, make up your mind to be with her and don't mind her bad, after all, no one is perfect.