I m in love with a woman who got married and had children, and I really love her, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's better not to be together, she is married, has children, has her own family, if you really love her, you should bless her, not ...Take 10,000 steps back, be selfish, can you accept her child? Even if you accept it for a short time, you will be dazzled by love, and other people's flesh will not be attached to yourself! Besides, as soon as she has a husband and can fall in love with you, it means that she is a person with no sense of responsibility!

    There is no grass at the end of the world, and there are many good girls, what do you say? It's easier said than done, you're stuck in it now, after a while, when you calm down, think about it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really love her, don't think so much about really loving each other, what if you have children? The most important thing is whether you care, in fact, as long as you are happy together and you really love her, then don't think about it too much, let go and be with her forever and take care of her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't care about him before you love him, you have to try to accept her, but you must know if he is divorced, and consider whether your love for her is long or short-lived.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hehe, if his previous marriage has ended, then love her well!! True love shouldn't care about that.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    True love doesn't care about that, if you really love her, go for it, but don't destroy other people's families.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Now that they're married, don't break up their families.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you show her your love chase.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If she is divorced.

    Just go for it.

    If you are not divorced.

    It depends on how the relationship between the woman and her husband is now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't ruin someone's marriage.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. Let the woman make a commitmentIf a man wants to accept this woman, then I think the first thing to do at this time is to ask the woman to make a commitment, as for the content of the commitment, the man can draw up according to his actual needs, such as drawing a clear relationship with the child, or how to deal with the relationship with the child in the future, etc.

    2. Try to accept the childIf you decide to accept this woman, then this child is also a very good situation, you can also choose to try to accept this child, because after all, the child is not wrong, just imagine that you have accepted the woman, then as long as the child is not bad in nature, you can indeed consider accepting this child together.

    3. Resolutely cut off contactsIf this man is a very principled person, but he is hesitant at this time, then I suggest that he should resolutely cut off relations with women, because hesitation is only a temporary illusion, and when a man returns to that very principled state, he will still cut off contact with this woman sooner or later, so long pain is better than short pain.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since it's just a girlfriend, you can give it up. If you can't do it, then be tolerant, there's no need to take it seriously. If you hesitate like this, looking ahead and looking ahead, it will only bring more troubles, it will not help, and you will not be happy, why bother?!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then you don't know her past when you're with her.,If you mind, give up as soon as possible.。。。

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Loving someone doesn't have to be.

    Be sure to be with her, true love can transcend time, distance, spiritual barriers, since she has also married and has the crystallization of her own love, then keep the former favorite in your heart, to find your true love, to find your own fate, even if you can't let go of but she has found her own happiness, maybe her happiness is your happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If she is not happy, consider snatching it up and taking care of her yourself, but do so carefully! If she is happy, bless her! If you can't let it go, then you will patiently wait until the day she is single, the question is can you wait?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What do you do if you love a woman very much and she is married and has children.

    Hello, if you love a woman again, and you are disgusted that he is now married and has children, then you will give up on him and face a new life, after all, people are already married and have children, and people are responsible for the family, if you involve him again, then you are not destroying other people's families? This is extremely wrong, these machines have no virtue, so start looking for a woman who loves you again.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Dear, if the two parties are still married, we can be together in private first, he and I are both women and have children in marriage, but what if we both fall in love.

    Dear, if the two parties are still married, we can be together in private first, like you said, after all, there are children. This makes children less likely to accept it.

    Every time he comes home, he deletes our chat history, and he is afraid that his husband will find out that he will only send me a message when his husband is not at home! He also said that he would be with me in the next life, and I wanted to know if he had me in his heart.

    She must have you in her heart, but she is also more worried about being discovered, can you tell us more about your development? I have a feeling that you have some uncertain mindset.

    The two of us have been together a few times, and he is very happy every time, but every time I hear him talk about his husband, or see him with his husband, I feel very uncomfortable, I have an urge to let go, but I can't help it, I don't know what to do, whether I can continue.

    Love itself is selfish and possessive, so when you see them together, you have a feeling of losing control, and you don't feel like you can fully possess her mentally and physically right now.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child.

    She was very nice to me, and I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life.

    She was very nice to me, and I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life.

    The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child. She was very nice to me, and I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life.

    The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child. I also noticed that her belly was a bit like she had given birth, but today I was sure.

    Yes. I didn't know at first.

    The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child. I only found out about repairing my phone with her.

    The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child. She was very nice to me, and I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life.

    The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child. She was very nice to me, and I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life.

    The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child. She was very nice to me, and I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life.

    The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child. She was very nice to me, and I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life.

    The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child. She was very nice to me, and I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life.

    The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child. She was very nice to me, and I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life.

    The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child. She was very nice to me, and I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life.

    The teacher understands that your average man will have such a psychological hurdle when he learns that his girlfriend has given birth to a child. 【】

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You must grasp yourself in this situation and try to distance yourself from her, otherwise you may be burned.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Knowing that the other party is married, don't continue, it's easy to get into trouble, and there are really a lot of cases of love murder now.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Is it divorced? Or just looking for a meal ticket.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I happened to have the same experience as you at the front time! And she's the first woman I've loved so far!

    But now we're not together. Why?!

    1, no matter what the relationship between their husband and wife is, they are not divorced!

    2, her own thoughts do not represent her thoughts, a married woman and an unmarried man have absolutely different ideas!

    3. Now that you feel like loving her, of course you believe that anything is possible! But she won't!

    4, she is not alone, but has a child!! Boy!!

    I loved her and spoiled her at the time, and I would give her good food, clothing, housing and transportation, in order to warm her! I even buy toys for her kids! I gave a lot!

    But looking back now, I think I did it because I was in the stage of love, not calm, not rational! Through the time of the Chinese New Year, after she returned home! I analyzed it calmly!

    Not to mention the price, the main thing is that even if you pay Ken Geng, you won't get anything at that time, because I've been thinking about her blindly!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    True love comes first. No ifs!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    As a man, you must be bold to love, speak out boldly, give him a home, don't want a mother-in-law

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are a lot of examples of this around me, as long as the family agrees, it's fine.

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