I m a sophomore in junior high school and I m having a problem.

You should reflect on whether your study methods need to be changed, or whether you are not serious enough to study. Don't worry too much, it will put too much pressure on yourself and affect your studies. In fact, the science subjects in the second year of junior high school should not be too bad, and when it comes to the third year of junior high school, it is enough to be serious.

In science, you need to do more questions and think more, and if you don't understand something, you should ask your classmates or teachers immediately, and you must have the determination to do nothing if you don't solve it. Only if you put your heart and work hard, you will definitely reap the rewards. I believe that you will succeed, because you are already reflecting.

If you really like it, you have to work together. And this is also normal, you should not like it as a love like at your young age, you should treat him as a friend.

It's mainly about looking at yourself. I'm just like you, a girl in the second year of junior high school. The second year of junior high school is a watershed, you must not let go, you must study hard, put aside irrelevant things, and it should be fine.

I have to be in a similar situation to you, and there are many boys who like me, but I refuse them all very simply, probably because I haven't met anyone I like yet.

People tell me, I just hope the boys don't give us any more problems, maybe you can refer to it, I usually encounter this kind of all.

Directly refused, because I was afraid that if I hesitated, I would accept him.

e, you changed what you said, it's okay, you know the reason, what are you hesitating about.

The only thing that makes college life different from middle school and high school is self-discipline.

In college. There are almost no teachers who will take the initiative to control you, and everything depends on yourself to find and solve problems.

First of all, even if people all over the world don't approve of you.

At least you need to believe in yourself.

Even if it is.

Lie to yourself.

It's also telling yourself.

You are awesome! Don't be willing to fall, everyone has the value of existence.

You are no exception. Your problem is universal.

You're not alone.

There is a saying. I don't know if you've heard of it. Called.

People who go to college will regret 4 years.

But people who didn't go to college.

Will regret it for the rest of your life.

As a college graduate.

For me in social work.

I know this sentence very well.

Many people are unable to go to college due to their own or family circumstances, and they will also give them a good or.

Fighting hard. What's more, you've already been admitted to college.

You should be happier.

Learn to self-soothe and relieve stress. Person.

Just live happily. Don't care too much about other people's eyes and lifestyles, you are you! No one can replace it.

Focus on something you're good at.

Make it fine. Well done. Find your own charisma. Let those around you see that you exist.

In anime. Many of the protagonists used to be crane tails, and they can still be recognized by others through their own efforts. This is the plot of the manga though.

But the reality is just as true!

Believe in yourself and affirm yourself. If you give up on yourself. What reason do others have to affirm you?

Dayu was able to control the water, so he was able to succeed, because he used the method of grooming, and Kun failed because he used the method of blocking.

The so-called persistence is probably the method of blocking, and there will always be times when it can't be blocked.

Zi said, those who know are not as good as those who are happy to know, and those who are happy to know are not as good as those who are good to know.

What a wonderful thing life is. Without any intervention, I believe that everyone's life will be extremely splendid.

Maybe it's for life? We are always burdened with too much, all aspects of pressure and requirements, we unconsciously become slaves, life has become a heavy burden, what a tragic thing, what a great misfortune!

No one wants to achieve nothing by themselves, so they put all kinds of demands and expectations on themselves, and they have become their own slaves! What can a slave accomplish in the end? Maybe he'll be a good slave?

People who demand success and excellent people are essentially not confident in themselves. A confident person does not need to look forward to tomorrow's achievements, because he knows that sooner or later the moment of glory will come. Taking 10,000 steps back, even if he has not achieved anything, isn't his self-confidence the greatest success in itself?

A person's true worth is not determined by what he has accomplished, but by what kind of person he is at the moment.

If, at this moment, you are confident, then what is there that you can't do? What's something you're not happy to accomplish? Do you need to persevere?

Persistence, just a slave. And with confidence, you can do anything!

Actually, you are good now, although your parents are separated, they love you very much, don't think about everything so pessimisticly, it's adolescence, it's normal to be rebellious, people have to love themselves well, because you still have a long, long way to go.

I think you're in junior high school anyway, and you're about to take the high school entrance examination, the high school entrance examination is very important, it's better to study hard first, the relationship between classmates or something is still fate, they love to say how they want, they won't scold you in front of you, if one day things get big, your teacher will definitely take care of it. Besides, as time goes by, friendship is not something to talk about, like your so-called friends are still getting weaker and weaker with you, real friendship will not be diluted by time, these people, it doesn't matter if you ignore them, they won't do anything to you in the future. You're in the third year of junior high school, and you're going to graduate soon, and it's certain that your classmates will go their separate ways, and even if they end up being beggars, it doesn't matter to you, don't worry about it, learning is the most important.

And games or something, seriously, it's better not to understand, it's scary to get addicted to games. There was a time when someone in my class suddenly stood up and talked about games like crazy. The person who used to have a better score than you, let him go, and as I said before, let them go, and you see if his grades dropped because of the game or something?

Although not being able to deal with interpersonal relationships is definitely not good for future work or something, knowledge is the foundation of everything, no culture, what is the use of your interpersonal relationships no matter how good they are, at most to help find a good job or something, can you still live by interpersonal relationships in the future? Without knowledge, no matter how good the interpersonal relationship is, it is empty. He provoked relations and let him go, what good did it do him, and in the end those who were not affected by the provocation were true friends.

None of us are the Virgin, we don't need endless tolerance, we really can't stand it, you can find some evidence to find a teacher, speak with facts, I don't believe that your teacher doesn't care about anything. We are not geniuses, but we can work hard to achieve our ideals through our own efforts, all in all, learning is the most important, friends or something, don't worry, see who is the last to stand with you, if not, don't be discouraged, go to high school to find a confidant, friends, the most important thing on the earth is people, you will always find your confidant. Come on, I wish you to find your good friend soon.

First of all, you also know that the high school entrance examination in the third year of junior high school is the first turning point in your life. Only by getting the study done well first, then we can talk about the rest. You also said that your grades are only in the upper middle class, and you still need to work hard if you want to get into a key high school.

And I'm not saying that friends don't matter. It is better to have a close friend to talk to, help each other in learning, and chat in your free time will also help you to live and study in the third year of junior high school.

For example, I'm a freshman in high school this year. In 2012, the high school entrance examination will be squeezed into a key high school, which is considered to be dangerous. The memories of the third year of junior high school are those who are intense and busy, studying day after day.

I made a good friend in the class. I usually study and ask each other, and occasionally come to my house on Sundays to write homework and chat. As for the game.

Hehe.. They talk about games that you don't know best. Because when I was in grade, I fell from my 20s to 100 because of games.

It's a monthly exam. Because of the game. In 8th grade, I gradually controlled myself not to play.

I haven't touched it since I was in 9th grade.

Friends who make friends will not be provoked, and they will not be eclipsed by the passage of time. (A good friend of mine in the 8th grade transferred to another school due to household registration problems, and in the 9th grade, due to intense studying, he rarely went online and could occasionally chat on QQ.) Encourage each other.

It's been intermittent but always connected. Until the end of the high school entrance examination, and both of us were admitted to key high schools. ）

The last word of advice, study is the main thing, and the others are secondary. Maybe it's lonely to walk alone on the way to school and school. But you'll be more awkward if you're not surrounded by friends you've made close to.

— Advice from a high school student who has gone through the third year of junior high school.

a friend ineed is a friend indeed!You probably know this sentence that you have not done anything that is unfavorable to your former friend, if in this case, your relationship can also be provoked to be bad, then you don't have to regret it, besides, when you have a chance, your real friend will feel that he did not come to bother you when you were struggling, affecting you, he will be pleased, at that time, you can hold his hand hard, say a "good friend", and now you just need to do your best to study hard and work hard for your future, Ignore everything else!

The question of learning, without a doubt, must be persisted in as always, without considering what others think of this issue. As for the interaction between classmates, "I am fortunate to have gained, but I have lost my life", you have tried your best to redeem it, he has been taking detours without knowing it, and if he doesn't save himself, we are even more powerless. None of us are the Virgin, he is not a white child, he himself is not responsible for his own life, and we have no obligation to be responsible.

Try your best to do what you can, make him aware of the dangers of being addicted to the game at the moment, and the rest is up to him.

After reading your story, I feel okay; You are good.

Second, if you can see the difference between yourself and others, it means that you are ready to take on challenges.

Third: When facing the classmates around you, don't say whether the relationship is good or not, or whether they care about you or not;

We all need time and space to meet this unprecedented challenge that is coming, and we need to work hard;

Fourth: The friendship with your classmates will not change because of your silence or lack of words; Believe in yourself;

I also experienced it in the third year of junior high school, when everyone worked very hard, in order to be admitted to a key high school and give myself a good future;

Now that you are going through, I hope you don't have so many unnecessary burdens to study and live;

You just have to do what you have to do, don't care what people say about you, make your grades, it doesn't matter what they say.

I think it's an honor to have a lot of friends. If you have the above problems, it can be attributed to your inability to arrange your time reasonably. Listen carefully in class, get along with friends more after class, study when you go home, and I think the game is very good, provided that it is not addictive.

I hope my words are helpful to you.

You can assume that you are a person in your 20s, and what would you feel when you look back on your junior high school life? The things in front of you are actually very small, I think you are about to graduate, interpersonal communication is not the first, if you ignore the gossip, live and study wholeheartedly, your road will become more and more wide.

Let's not talk about anything else, let's talk about studying, if you want to be admitted to a good high school, you have to study hard, and if you want to be friendly, you can take your time and don't rush. You can spend more time with your friends and make them understand you. (if you prefer to maintain a relationship with your friends).

You still insist on being yourself, do a good job in your studies first, and if you have friendship, you can discuss study matters with your classmates and friends.

Believe that you can do it!! You will definitely succeed, and the person who provokes your relationship with a good friend should first ignore him, exclude him and despise him, and you can also explain to your good friend that you should put your studies first and your friends second.

Stop playing the game.

It doesn't have to be like this, just go with the flow and don't stress too much, otherwise it's counterproductive.

You have to believe that the emperor lives up to his wishes, and the top-notch people have come over like this.

I think those who are clear should clear themselves, ignore them, go their own way, and let others say it.

Talk to your classmates about topics more often and this will not only increase your friendship.

What are you afraid of, you are in the third year of junior high school and will be separated after the exam, and when he studies so badly, he is afraid that he will be assigned to the same high school as you? Moreover, what about provoking, do you think that the friendship of gentlemen will be destroyed by villains? Besides, I say that I am about to change the environment.

I'm a freshman in high school, and it's good to have a little hardship in the third year of junior high school, but it's actually very easy.

Go home at night and steal school, play at school during the day, play when you need to learn, and learn when you need to learn.

When you are at your hardest, that's when you gain the most.

It's okay, you're not him. Don't worry, be yourself, but relax.