Why is there always such a big difference between what you like and what you realize?

Updated on society 2024-04-14
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Most of the things I like are relatively perfect, as if shrouded in a layer of dream-like mystery, while reality is mostly real and limited by all aspects, so the gap will be particularly large.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because a large part of your liking may have your fantasy component, but when you really get in touch with it, you will find that it is actually very different from what you imagined. Therefore, distance produces beauty, and in reality it is not necessarily so perfect.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because I like it very much, it may be more unrealistic, more illusory, too beautifying things, and then the reality is a little inconsistent, and I will feel that the gap is very big.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because when you like something, you already pin all your beautiful fantasies on it, and even imagine what it doesn't have, so in reality you will feel that there is a big difference.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sometimes it's wishful thinking, and sometimes it's incomplete information, which leads to a very large gap between ideals and reality. At this time, you need to analyze the situation you are facing rationally, put aside emotional factors, and make a rational decision.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because the gap between reality and ideals is very large, what we think must be the best, but life can never give us so much beauty.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is always a gap between the ideal and the reality, just like your ideal self should not be what you look like in reality, since there is a gap between the two of them, so they will pursue it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What you like is in your imagination, and it is all beautified by your head, and what you like in real life is realistic, of course, not as good as what you beautify.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your fantasies are always beautiful, but they will eventually be defeated by the pressure of reality, so there will be a difference between ideals and reality, and the two should be treated differently.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A lot of things we like are the beauty that we give it in our own minds, but in fact, it is not really magical, and when we get it in reality, it may be very different from what we imagined.

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