An older friend helps analyze what he means

Updated on psychology 2024-04-15
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm not very old though.

    But I think your boyfriend should be considered more introverted, you don't blame him, it's just a "quirk" that you don't want your parents to know.

    Because now there is a generation gap between us and our parents!!

    I am minded. Most parents want their sons to get married later!!

    Right!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Not only are you afraid of this kind of meeting, but he is also very afraid in his heart, so he is relaxed In fact, there is nothing to be afraid of this kind of thing, just be generous, and congratulations again, I feel that it is basically the same for the man to bring his girlfriend to meet his parents, which is also an important thing to determine the relationship

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not as serious as you think.,Maybe the meeting you think in your heart is too rigid.,He doesn't care much about this form in his heart.。。 It's not a matter of attitude, it's not a matter of feelings, it's a matter of mental habit

    I think I can take my girlfriend home whenever I want!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    2 people are in the man's house, think about what it means! It's up to you. But it is recommended that you find a time to meet your parents, although it is nothing, but give yourself psychological comfort and certainty! Seeing you say this about him, I think it's better to be cautious!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It seems that you're wary of him, and that's right, and you have to be wary of that during your relationship, and you're very good.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It seems that you are a very cultivated and romantic girl!! The man is not a little embarrassed or a very easy-going person, in short, there will be no mistake!! Hahaha.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Explain that your boyfriend loves you, good luck!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Careful! Hold your ground until you don't get married!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Are you sure this sentence is saying something about you?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think she accidentally fell in love with someone else when she was with you, but she felt sorry for you and felt sad with anyone. So it becomes the kind of appeal you said

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    She was so decisive when she broke up, if it wasn't your fault, she already knew very well that there was no result in going on with you, so she resolutely left! It's just a momentary touch and regret for her to express such a mood now, but it's unlikely that she wants to start over with you, it's just a momentary impulse. If you don't have the previous likes and feelings for her, or break this string early, the days still have to look forward, time can really change everything!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe she felt it, and it wasn't because of you??

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Think about how far your feelings have come for your girlfriend, and then take a closer look at whether your girlfriend has encountered anything recently.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not interesting, you think too much.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't want you to post on Moments, your happiness and pain, I don't want you to share it with your friends. If you share your sadness, it seems that your girlfriend has no face. One can only guess this.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    How do you say that? I hope what I'm saying is sincere, not for the sake of two points. It's not that the strength is not enough, I think there should be room for girls to think, that is, to give her time and ask her details. Does she have a boyfriend at all? Then make a decision.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's clear that your girlfriend likes strong men.

    Recommendations:1. Speak firmly, firmly, and 1 firmly.

    2。There must be a violent force on the limbs and body.

    3。Don't care about her words, throw questions at her.

    Some women are just 1 cheap and like to come hard. Hehe. The more you ignore her, the more she will be angry.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Confession must be made in person!

    That's how it makes it clearer

    Use a little more effort

    Because what a woman says in her mouth is different from what she thinks in her heart, you pay too little for her Do you understand what kind of person she is, and see what she wants a man to do for her? Aren't you very close to success?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think you should pursue her anymore!

    Maybe she really has a boyfriend, maybe she's not mentally prepared to accept exclusive you, maybe she has another reason.

    In short, your blind stalking may cause her disgust, which will backfire, so it is best to keep a distance from her for a while, and then you can decide whether to continue to pursue her!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you really love her, just chase it boldly, it will be successful, support! If you are satisfied, use my answer, thank you!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Agree with the first floor, the water is natural, and your strength is not enough.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's like you, or he wouldn't have done those things to you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Whether you adopt it or not, dear, study hard every day. It's not that you don't approve of talking about boyfriends and girlfriends, but don't put too much energy into it. It's hard for anyone to say what will happen in the future. So... No more.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It means to leave love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's love 64, I don't know what 64 is.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    1 person thinks that you should not be so nervous first of all Your boyfriend still cares about you first of all You can believe that a man loves you unforgettable, but don't believe that he will love you for a long time A man is easy to change his mind or like others It is difficult for him to love someone for a long time So don't be too sensitive Grasp the big and let go of the small Step on the brakes for him in key places Usually be gentle Don't see the wind and the rain.

    2 Men like to have their own personal space In his opinion, buddies are sometimes more important than their wives As long as they don't make too much trouble, don't worry Instead of getting angry and they always run out and quarrel It is better to think of ways to keep him by his side For example, make a few dishes that he loves to eat The so-called to capture a person's heart Grab his stomach first Hehe.

    Overall, your relationship is pretty good, so don't worry too much.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You've only been together for a year, and you're not an old husband and wife, and you often go out to play without saying hello when you see each other once a week, which is really a bit unbelievable.

    Spending time together is a very important guarantee for the relationship between two people.

    As for the relationship with that girl, hehe, it's already puzzling that you can forgive him...

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's a little strange to see what you write about him and your friends. Not ordinary.

    But your friend is already married, so I don't understand.

    And you say that your boyfriend is very good to you, except for that.

    Then you just wait and see what happens, observe and observe, maybe you think too much, if it's true, give up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think your boyfriend is the kind of person who forgets you when there is someone else, and then throws you aside when there is no one else, this kind of person often doesn't know what he wants, what he loves, it's very troublesome, and you will be inexplicably hurt with him. My opinion is that he doesn't necessarily have to love you, he definitely has feelings for that woman, just because he knows that your sister has a husband, maybe one day he meets someone who doesn't have a husband, he will leave you, because he has no alternate except you now, so he obeys you, didn't you also say that once he has friends with him, he won't care about you, if he really cares about you, he won't do this, and he won't say that to your sister, think about it seriously, I think it's better to break up! It's just my opinion as a bystander, it's a bit long, take a look at it, and think about it for yourself, but no matter what decision you make, you must be happy!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    1.I think that while the problem is the problem for both of you, the key person is your little sister and not the two of you.

    a.Suppose your little sister is a more carefree person who can ignore her marriage and friendship with you and maintain a secret relationship with your boyfriend, then it is only a matter of time before you break up.

    b.Suppose your little sister is a principled person, then you can believe that even if they seem closer at times, it is only the intimacy of good friends, and his heart is really on you, at least most of his heart, and maybe for his brother and friend, and for your little sister. This is all normal and understandable.

    If you can't understand this, then there is still room and potential for your mind to open up a little.

    2.He doesn't care about you when there are many people, he cares about you when he's alone, and from this point of view, I think he cares about you, otherwise he won't care about you whether he's alone or not! But he doesn't care about you very much, otherwise he would care about you when there are many people.

    It depends on how you understand the word "care".

    a.If you're looking for or liking the kind of guy who has to treat you wholeheartedly and be obedient to you, then it's clear that the two of you aren't a good fit. It's not a question of who's right and who's wrong, it's just not suitable.

    b.If you can accept my point of view that two people should keep a proper distance when they get along, whether they are in love with each other, and it would be better to have their own space, then you won't suffer so much.

    Distance produces beauty, which is a truth close to the truth. To give a simple example, many people go out to work and miss their families very much, but once they do come home, they may have a small quarrel for three days and a big quarrel for five days.

    3.To put it simply, if you can accept some of the views I analyzed, then I think your current relationship is actually very good. It's important that your boyfriend is able to tolerate your shortcomings, it shows that he respects you and gives you space, and in the same way, you should tolerate him and give him space!

    It is necessary to emphasize that there is no right or wrong in terms of emotional views, only whether you can accept it or not. Maybe some of the answers may seem useless to me, but you can accept it, and vice versa, hehe.

    Finally, I wish you a happy day. Either way, it's important to be happy!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Does he love you? If you love, don't strive for perfection and leave a space that belongs to a man.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Since love is difficult to continue, why reluctantly be together, why lie to yourself

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Sad, if I had a girlfriend....Like your boyfriend! I'll tell her directly! Either break up or don't have intimate contact with other people of the opposite sex! Love is selfish.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    This thing is very messy. First of all, this man and his current girlfriend are not very likely to be together because of love, so he will be good with this woman and make a commitment. But is this guy really a good guy?

    If so, what are the chances that he will be able to deliver on his promise? These are uncertain. This girl will choose to be with someone who has a girlfriend, which means that she really loves him, but judging from your statement, it should be unlikely that they can be together, because I am an outsider and don't understand the situation, so you shouldn't be angry if I say something that shouldn't be said.

    I think this girl should give up this man, even if she thinks now that as long as there is love, it doesn't matter if you don't have a name, then since he can be with her behind his girlfriend's back, it is possible to be with other women behind your back. He is someone who can betray at any time, so it's better to be cautious, think through and make the right choice.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    First: He has been living with his girlfriend for a while, and it is estimated that he has had an abortion, and he wants to break up with her, and he can't get over it in conscience. I want to choose a middle course that doesn't pull on either side.

    Second: Although your friend thinks he is very good, I suggest that your friend wait for a while, and it is best to reduce contact first, and never let the child go. Meaning, give him a certain amount of time to choose one of the two women, because he can only choose one.

    If it's not too long to wait for him to become truly single, then contact him again, otherwise it's better to give up. Because, this triangular relationship will cause great harm to all three people. Even if he said that he could do it in a year (such as lying and saying that he would be transferred to another place), it would not work, because if you choose now, the damage is temporary and limited, and if you keep the triangle, the damage will be lifelong and endless.

    Weighing the pros and cons, one must not choose to maintain a triangular relationship.

    I hope your friend is sensible.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You don't know how to say it, how can he step on two boats with one foot.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Women can't do it, and when the time comes, they will definitely have to be accompanied by a man and let him marry her.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Another third person, speechless.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    This is Xiao San's trick to seduce a man, and he is very old-fashioned, but the man is a ghost and throws himself into the net.

    Let's see what others have to say.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I just hope that this person belongs only to her and lives in a small world that only belongs to them.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's a **line, it's a Tanmei**.

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