I m married, can I love someone I used to like again?

I don't think so! Women are different from men, after all, women are weak in relationships, if you love the person you like, your husband will be very sad to know, and true love cannot be distracted. You can think about it from a different perspective.

Now that you're married, our lives aren't all about love, it's more about family. Think about it, how many couples can really come together for love in this real society?! Don't wait until you lose to regret it, saying that love is not worth a penny in front of money!

What can be together is not just love.

Be realistic, with the current family as the mainstay, for the one you like, that's all in the past!

I hope you can be happy!

Selfishly, of course, you can, and you can find n reasonable reasons.

But if you put your heart to heart, how would you feel if your husband did this? Or doesn't it hurt if you don't know?

Agree with the words of the landlord on the first, second and third floors, how many people do you have to meet in your life, and how many people you like in your life, do you have to love once, there is no need. For the love you once had, please treat him with a blessed heart.

Love is about fate! First come, first served!

Cherish what you should cherish and forget what you should forget!

If you don't want to regret yourself, then you try.

Ha ha! This is a very difficult question for me to see, and it is always up to you to make a decision! If you decide for yourself, you won't regret it!

Now that you already have a marriage, why not cherish it! Everyone has someone they like, and everyone has someone who is married to them! But does the person who marries you have to be the person you like?

This is a real problem worth thinking about! So I don't think it's time for you to waver, it's time to cherish, since you are all married for a reason, then don't think about it anymore, loving someone should not only be with him, right? The person you can live with and the person you like are sometimes two kinds of people, so cherish what you have now.

Unless it's a very special reason, or you're sure you're going to be happy and happy if you're divorced, but can you be that sure?

I hope you will consider this serious issue rationally.

No!!! You are responsible for your family!! Consider your husband's feelings!! If you do that, your marriage is doomed!!

After getting married, you should not find someone you like, and even if you like each other, you should not develop a relationship, which is not right.

First of all, the dregs of polygamy in the old society have been abolished, and monogamy is now promoted, and the law also stipulates that each person can only have one legal spouse, and other relationships are not protected by law, and if a de facto marriage is formed with another person, it will be punished according to the crime of bigamy. From the current moral concept and people's common thinking, what is advocated is also from the beginning. Since you meet someone you like and get married, you shouldn't like someone else, and even if you like it, you should bury this feeling in your heart.

Secondly, after getting married, you should also be cautious about other people's pursuit of you. It's okay to appreciate each other, but liking each other is a bit out of bounds, and having intimate contact is even more contrary to the bottom line of morality. Therefore, after getting married, you should refuse to be liked by others.

Imagine if you like someone else after you get married, how will your spouse feel if you like someone else of the opposite sex after you get married? Can you accept it calmly? If you can't accept it, then your spouse obviously can't accept that you like someone else after you get married.

The road of life is long and full of surprises, keep going on and you will meet more and better people you like, fall in love with one on one, then you may have to divorce dozens of times in this life, since you are married, you should return to the family, for the happiness and health of the family, put away your turbulent heart!

You are married, you should let go of your position, you like another person, you think about it is fair to your husband, if you can't control your heart, you shouldn't get married in the first place, even if you like it, it can only be hidden in your heart, because you already have your own family, you can't because you like another person, you destroy your original family, the above is my personal opinion, you are married, you should let go of your position, you like another person, you think it's fair to your husband, If you can't control your heart, you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place, even if you like it, it can only be hidden in your heart, because you already have your own family, you can't destroy your original family because you like another person, the above is my personal opinion, thank you!

Of course not, the biggest difference between humans and animals is that people are rational, marriage is a responsibility, we can't do whatever we want after marriage, that is irresponsible to ourselves, to our lovers and to both families, and to cause harm to both families.

Fate is a strange thing, it didn't appear when it should have appeared. Missed when you shouldn't have missed it. So, we can only endure the pain and cut love. Cherish your family and marriage. Unless you have enough capital to go your own way, that's fine.

Hello, people will meet a lot of people they like in this life, and they will also meet a lot of people who like themselves, but if you are married and have made a choice, even if you meet a good one later, you must learn to restrain yourself and not make selective mistakes.

Of course you can, you can like your own relatives, you can like your own children. You can like other people, and you can like others like you, but you can only like friends, and you can't have the kind of emotion between men and women.

You are responsible for your marriage, since you are already married, there is no reason to like others anymore, and if others like you, you have no reason to agree. Even more unacceptable.

Love marriage is based on loyalty and love, and when the bottom line is touched, the marriage will have a serious crisis until it breaks down. If you get married, you can't find someone you like. If you meet someone you like, you can't like it.

If you are not married, you can find someone you like, or you can find someone else who likes you, but once you get married, you should have a sense of family responsibility, you can't see one and love the other, the family is a matter of two people, not the group leader, I think, take responsibility for yourself, take responsibility for the family, you are also responsible for the society, so you must have a bottom line in life, you can't see one and love one.

Absolutely not, because you are married and have a family, if you still do what you want, then it can only destroy the family

If you get married, you can't find someone you like, you must have a sense of responsibility for the family, so that you can make your marriage more happy.

After getting married, you can't find someone you like. Because you already have a family of your own. Be responsible for your lover and family.

Even if you meet someone you like, you can be an ordinary friend, and you can't like him anymore. If he likes you, you can't take it anymore. Let the past pass, the page has been turned.

Old dreams can't be refilled. Otherwise it is immoral. Be responsible for your family and marriage.

You must restrain your feelings.

If you meet someone you like, can you still like it, if he likes me, can I accept it, then you said, getting married means having responsibility, you have a family, you are already a married woman, or there is, a person with children, can you still accept others, do you think this is the right thing to do?

Marriage is a kind of responsibility, is a kind of bondage, before marriage you can have someone you like, but after marriage, you can not let your feelings overflow, because the consequences will be very serious, no matter what you have to think twice, to be responsible for your family, is responsible for yourself, so that your life will be happy.

You can like it, but first after the divorce, you have to find someone you like, which means that you don't like your marriage partner anymore, so if you want to find someone you like again, then you must first end your current marriage, and the feelings can be respected, but in the case of the other party's social ethics and not hurting others

After getting married, you shouldn't go to find someone else you like, you should put your heart on loving your lover, and you shouldn't accept the likes of others.

Marriage is a personal choice, and since you are married now, the partner will definitely meet your standards! Therefore, it is the best choice for couples to live in peace and stability! If you can't restrain your restless heart, you will be condemned by the world, and it will bring great harm to yourself and your family!

I hope that this mistake will not be made in marriage.

When you get married, you have to keep a proper distance from Yixingbu, and no one can stop you from liking him when you meet someone you like, but you have to have family responsibilities, and a person is willing to entrust you with a lifetime, so don't let him down, don't do things that are bad for the family.

I've experienced the marriage of someone who likes me, and I have also experienced the marriage of someone I like, so let me talk about my feelings.

When I was a student, I liked my class president for five years.

When he got married in 2018, I only wrote this blessed sentence in the wedding chronicle he sent to the space: I hope you will overcome your genetic instinct and be able to remain loyal to your other half.

Other than that, there was no more action.

At the moment when I learned that he was going to get married, I felt numb, without any joy, anger or sorrow, probably subconsciously felt that this was a past that exhausted all my strength, and I also knew that we couldn't have any possibility, and it was possible that I subconsciously blocked all my emotions and deliberately numb.

But then I remembered that I hadn't actually done anything for him. I just comforted him when he was unhappy, just chatted with him for a few days, just secretly looked at him during class, just took a very serious time to cheer for everything he did well, just hoped that he would get better and better, just hope that I will get better and better to give him a high-quality lover.

I did put in a lot of energy and effort, and it was true that when I ate the noodles, I still cried when I remembered him, but the time passed after that while.

Later, when I did an internship, I met very good and profitable boys, but I couldn't remember the boys I liked when I was a student.

Then I met another guy I liked but ended up tearing his face, and when he got married, I didn't feel anything but a hint of nausea. Probably the only regret is that I didn't have the means to reach his fiancée so I could tell him all the bad things he did.

The boy I liked recently, I really like it, the kind of love at first sight, I think I probably won't feel anything about him getting married, maybe I may be a cold sideliner, after all, I have been so ruthlessly ignored and don't care, I just viciously hope that he doesn't get what he wants in love, I hope he will never get the girl he really likes.

And I have also met boys who used to like me and told me excitedly that they want to cook for me, to stay in Hangzhou for me, and I have also met boys who will comfort me at the first time when I am sad and find suitable medicine for me.

When I learned that the guy I had rejected who had said he was going to cook for me was going to get married, I actually had a chuckle in my psyche, which is called loss aversion in psychological terms. I think my discomfort is probably due to the fact that I once sincerely had the right to take back the people I had paid.

Yes, I only understood later, I don't have any feelings when the person I like gets married, after all, I have sincerely paid, and I have no regrets about crushes, so I am numb if others get married or not, and people who like me get married, I really feel lost, because there is one less person in this world who loves me.