My ex boyfriend has a girlfriend, but he s still very nice to me?

Do you want to step on two boats? Or do you want to use you as a spare tire?

In this case, you should make it clear as soon as possible, otherwise it will not do you any good to go down.

My current boyfriend too, is more gentle to my ex-girlfriend than to me, I feel that my ex-girlfriend is a confidant, only that woman understands him to understand him, and also said that he misses their past, and now my boyfriend is angry with me all day long, and I have to get angry with the same thing several times, but I talk to my ex-girlfriend ** but it is all kinds of gentleness, and the tone is familiar and intimate without much explanation, even I began to wonder if there is any point in staying in this position, I have always felt before, even if I am not your first, But at least I'm the last one of you, and I'm a winner in life, and now I suddenly feel worthless......

Stay away and don't spoil people, whether you're active or passive.

If someone else has a girlfriend, even if he is good to you, you don't want to go out of the boundaries of friends.

It's okay, it's just that it's just good to you, and there are no other thoughts.

You should let yourself not mind this and communicate with the other person at the same time. You also need to communicate with your boyfriend, so that you can solve the problems between the two people.

At this time, you must ask your boyfriend what is going on, and if he still wants to have an ex-girlfriend, he will break up with such a boyfriend.

You should adjust your mentality, and you should also think about whether your boyfriend really loves you, and then get along in a different way.

At this moment, you must ask your boyfriend what is going on, and if he still wants to be an ex-girlfriend, he must separate from such a boyfriend.

Summary. Hello, happy with your question. Your boyfriend used to be very nice to his ex-girlfriend, that was before, and now as long as he is nice to you.

Hello, happy with your question. Your boyfriend used to be very nice to his ex-girlfriend, that was before, and now as long as he is nice to you.

Mind me. Kiss, isn't it so good for you?

Yes, it counts. Well, if he likes to deal with you, it means that he doesn't particularly care about you.

Kiss, you said that your boyfriend was very good to his ex-girlfriend, but you just listened to him.

Kiss, when you care about your boyfriend being too good to your ex, then it means that your boyfriend doesn't really love you; The person he really loves is his ex-girlfriend, but he is definitely not friendly to you and his ex-girlfriend, so your heart can be so uncomfortable; This is because his brother imitates him and does not love you, so he can tell you that he is so good to his envious ex-girlfriend; He can compare you with his ex-girlfriend; A person who loves you deeply in his heart is not easy to make you unhappy and unhappy because of people in the past; No matter what he did to the people of the past, he will not show you a word; Only people who don't care about you can make you sad because of it.

Someone else told me.

It's not that I care too much.

Well, you're listening to other people, so I think you might be too concerned.

How long have you been together now?

It's been more than a year, but there is a lot of **** no matter how busy he is, as long as he has time, he will rush back to eat with me. But my heart is very upset, but it hurts to hear that he is more than sorry for his ex-girlfriend and so on, and it is my heart and seriousness in this relationship, which is why I let myself be so miserable, <>

Kiss, judging from what you described, I think this man is also very good to you, maybe you have heard the truth from others!

I don't think you need to compare yourself to his ex-girlfriend because you're the one he really loves right now.

Cherish the present, you don't have to think so much about the past, it will make your life very depressed.

Discussion: Respect their relationship: The ex-boyfriend has a new girlfriend, which means that he has made his choice, and you need to respect their feelings and refrain from any behavior that may interfere with their relationship.

Be rational about your feelings: Although you may feel some emotional discomfort because your ex-boyfriend has a new girlfriend, you need to learn to be rational about this emotion and find a way to deal with it that you can accept.

Maintain a good relationship with his girlfriend: If your ex-boyfriend's girlfriend is a good friend of yours, then you need to do your best to maintain a good relationship with her and not let things between your ex-boyfriend and her affect your friendship.

Avoid intimacy with your ex-boyfriend: Now that your ex-boyfriend already has a new girlfriend, you need to avoid being too close to him, such as chatting frequently, meeting each other, etc. As much as possible, he can keep a certain distance to avoid unnecessary suspicion and misunderstanding of his girlfriend.

In short, respecting their feelings, being rational about their feelings, and trying to maintain the friendship between yourself and his girlfriend is the best way to deal with this situation. At the same time, you should also consider your own feelings and needs and make the best choice for yourself.

If there is any interest relationship, they can be ordinary friends with each other. If there is no longer any interest between them, it is recommended to break up immediately, and You Ling trembles so as not to cause unpredictable troubles to himself.

Psychoanalysis: Subject:

Hello! Seeing your description, I felt your inner entanglement and distress, this kind of behavior of your boyfriend is really difficult to accept, right?

I don't know how you met? How long have you known each other and been together? What is it about him that attracts you?

You say he's good to you, but what is the specific performance? You say he's good to you, why does he ignore your feelings again and again and keep in touch with his ex-girlfriend? You're also saying that they don't need to be contacted, right?

You said that you reacted to your boyfriend that you couldn't accept not to show your phone, and your boyfriend directly gave you a choice, whether to continue or give up? Don't you think his attitude is very problematic? And your later concession is not necessarily to really look at the phone, but to have the right to look at his phone at any time, he only verbally agreed, but did not really give you the right.

What does this mean? (Of course, this talk of yours and your concessions seem to me to be very well done.) You are really managing your relationship with your heart.

I wonder if he hadn't kept in touch with multiple ex-girlfriends, you wouldn't care about the phone you were looking at, right? His behavior makes you feel less respected and loyal, right?

You are rightly uncomfortable, and his behavior is very difficult to accept. You say he's nice to you, probably, yes, but have you ever seriously thought about whether he really loves you?

I don't know how deep your relationship is, but your current state gives me the impression that it is very unstable. In intimate relationships, if one partner is not honest enough, the uncertainty of the relationship will increase, such as a crisis of trust, a decrease in intimacy, and even the disintegration of the relationship.

If you still want to manage your relationship, then you can try to find a time to have a more serious conversation with the other person

1. Find out what is the reason why he really can't let go of these ex-girlfriends?

2. Why is he with you?

3. Let him empathize, how would he feel if you had been in contact with multiple ex-boyfriends today?

4. Do you have the same direction to maintain this relationship, and whether he cherishes it as much as you.

In the end, you have to understand why you chose him, why you insist on it, and whether you should have your own limit. Also, don't forget to keep learning and improving to increase your self-charm! I hope you can figure out your direction soon and reap your own happiness! Thank you!