I graduated, and I wasn t in the same city as him anymore. How to be together

Anyway, he started his own business, where is it not a creation, ask him to go to your hometown to create, create in your hometown and your family to help. Even if your family doesn't agree, what can your family do if you insist on being with him? The family always wants you to be happy, how can they object if the two of you want to be happy together, unless your boyfriend has a bad character, your family will resolutely oppose it, and it is not good for yourself.

If you love each other, then you can only go to one place, in addition, no matter how high the master is, you can't help you, long-distance relationships are not long-term, either go together or break up, there is always someone to sacrifice a little. Hehe, my boyfriend is from the public institution, but he said that he would come to my hometown to marry me, so that he would sacrifice a little, but I will also be very good to him. We've been in different places for two years, and dawn is coming, so let's discuss it with your boyfriend, don't give up easily.

It's very simple to give a head hug.

You go straight to him.

If you regret it, don't complain.

Semi-saccharide, meet on Saturday and seven days.

I graduated last year.

And then, as far as I know, the couples I know from our college have all been separated...

See, I'll help you, there is no perfect thing in the world, there must be gains If you want to have everything, it is unrealistic, you must show the spirit of sacrifice, now is the time to choose, you have the right to choose I also have the right to choose, I will try to let you stay by my side, I don't know if you are willing to take out the spirit of sacrifice for our happiness to work hard!

I'm going to be separated from her in the future.

Distance is precisely the biggest problem.

Two people may separate and return to their respective cities to work, and this relationship may gradually fade due to separation after graduation, if you want to continue to maintain this relationship, you should start from the following two points to change.

1. No matter how busy or tired you are, keep in touch.

Although it is said that distance produces beauty, getting along with each other for a long time is often prone to estrangement. When couples stay in a different place for a long time, it is necessary to pay more attention to strengthening emotional connection.

No matter how busy and tired you are, you should also be careful to keep in touch and communicate with you at all times. If you lack good interaction and communication in a long-distance relationship, you are already separated by a long distance, and if you don't know how to communicate and interact with your heart, then your long-distance relationship will often end without a problem.

The reason why long-distance relationships are fragile is that you can't usually live together, which causes your relationship to become more and more rusty, and you will feel more and more strange to each other.

This feeling is like a fruit plucked from a tree, if you don't wash it and eat it while it's fresh, it will no longer be fresh over time, and it will even rot and spoil.

Therefore, when you are in a state of being in a different place for a long time, and you want the relationship to last for a long time, then you must pay attention to strengthen communication and interaction no matter how busy and tired you are.

2. Don't run away from contradictions, but actively resolve them.

If a couple is in a different place for a long time, then there may be various conflicts or misunderstandings between the two people. Even if two people live together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and frictions of one kind or another, not to mention that you will not live together for a long time.

So, when there is a conflict or problem in your relationship, don't panic too much in the first place. When encountering problems, don't run away, but actively find ways to solve them together.

When you fall in love at school, you may encounter a problem when you graduate: you and your boyfriend receive offers from two cities, and they are separated from each other. ......At this time, how to continue this love needs to consider the feelings between each other, the real state of life, and the help from the family.

1. The feelings between each other ultimately determine how this love continues.

Two people have received offers from different cities, which means that the two people may be separated from each other in the future. ......In this state, whether love can continue will depend on the feelings between two people. ......If they have average feelings for each other, the two are likely to break up.

But if two people have a deep relationship, the love can continue.

2. The real state of life greatly affects the direction of this love.

After receiving offers from different cities, the real state of life will greatly affect the direction of love. ......If two people are likely to want to get together, the love can continue. And if two people can't get together and live in a different place for a long time, this love is likely to end.

3. The help from the family may make this love come to a successful conclusion.

For recent graduates, there is no power to change the state of a long-distance relationship.

At this time, if both families can help, it will have a significant impact on the final outcome of the ...... relationshipWith the help of family members, the status of a long-distance relationship may be changed, so that two people can be reunited and the love can reap a happy conclusion. ......It would be the most ideal and the most beautiful state.

I don't think it's necessary. We should have our own jobs so that our lives can be better in the future.

Yes, because after living in different cities for a long time, people's mentality will also change rapidly, and if two people are not often in the same source, it will lead to the distance between two people getting bigger and bigger.

I think it's necessary, after all, two people have been together for so long, and it's very sad to be separated because of a long-distance relationship.

Here are a few ways to do it.

1. If one of you gives up his place and goes to the other side, if you want to be together, there must be sacrifice, no sacrifice, stalemate, and finally you can't get together.

2. Choose an intermediate city to struggle together, and there is no problem of going to you and me.

3. I really couldn't hold on, so I had to break up. After graduation, you will be more and more realistic. There will be a lot of problems, and after a while, you will find that you may not be the same person you were when you first graduated. Maybe you will have something new to pursue.

If you really love, stick to it, and it's best not to delay it for too long. It's been delayed for too long, and there have been too many changes. If it's not so lovely, make a decision early and wish you happiness

Mindset determines the development of things. It's like the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, one in the sky and the other in the ground, immortals and mortals. The story is the story, and the key is the temperature of the two people in love.

In such a situation, it can only depend on the situation.

How much your boyfriend, and your boyfriend's family, love you.

Are you willing to put down your job, follow your boyfriend, and start working again in another place?

If your boyfriend asks you to choose between him and work, it already shows that he is a particularly domineering person who doesn't care too much about your feelings.

If your boyfriend is very good to you, and your boyfriend's family is very good to you, and you are working together purely to make you develop in the same place, and you are particularly reluctant to give up your current job and start working again.

He and his family will presumably help you too, treating you as their own family, and will not say that you are far away and have no one to help, but they will bully you together.

In fact, I don't think it makes sense, how can you only let the woman choose when you encounter this situation, and the man doesn't have to choose?

Besides, are you willing to give up everything for your boyfriend? Be prepared to be oppressed in a different place, and his family may reject you, and he himself will dislike you because of the bad performance of the discomfort you started in a place again.

Moreover, if you are not familiar with the place of life in other places, the development is definitely not as good as the development in the local area.

Maybe your boyfriend is very good, and your boyfriend's family is also very good, but always think about the bad first.

Think about it this way, if you don't have faith in your boyfriend and his family, then give up early.

If you really have faith in your boyfriend and yourself, then you won't hesitate.

Otherwise, even if you are developing in the same place with your boyfriend, you will be panicked and cranky.

Do you want to ask if a new boyfriend is important or a job is important first?

At the same time, it is also necessary to analyze specific problems, not only to look at love, but also to look at reality, many things are incomplete, not beautiful.

Select a job. Such a boyfriend is self-centered, a bit machismo, and even more terrible after marriage, so I think it's better not to get along with such a boy. I don't think there's any need to deal with a boy who doesn't make her what she likes.

If two people really love each other and trust each other, distance is really not a problem, your boyfriend may be afraid of losing you, you can explain your thoughts to him, if he is unreasonable, you can make a choice according to your inner thoughts.

It's up to you, do you think work is important or your boyfriend is important, whether your job is something you particularly like, if two people have to be together, there must be a person to make sacrifices, see which is more important than work or love.

I think even if it's a long-distance relationship, it can go to the end, after all, there are many long-distance relationships that have achieved positive results.

I think he's a little selfish, he doesn't care about your feelings, he has to make a choice, so why can't he make a choice, can't he go to work in your city? Let's talk about it and see if there's a better way.

Do you want to be together or not? It still depends on whether your relationship is firm enough, if you are firm enough, find a way to make one party accommodate, and the other party will go to the same city to work, and then settle down, I think it is better.

If he really cares about your feelings, he shouldn't put you in a quandary, he should take care of your feelings and think about you. You should talk to him about whether he would like to stay in your city for you, and if the area where you work doesn't affect it, and you love him more, you can choose to go to his city.

In my opinion, this matter can be tried by two people to communicate and try to try each other's urban development. But boyfriends shouldn't say that. It's like I'm pushing you.

I think if you're in a relationship, if you're in a long-distance relationship, it's really uncomfortable, so I think it's good to be together, and it's possible for the two of you to go on working in one place, and it's very difficult to have a long-distance relationship if you're not in one place.