When the relationship with the person you like is cold

She's not cold to you anymore Maybe she's been in a bad mood lately It's not aimed at you Maybe she's ignoring her friends Sometimes girls have times like this.

You can find your mutual girlfriend and the four of you go on a trip together, and then she's in a good mood, and everything will be fine.

It's clear that at the moment she's putting you in number 2. Either you wait, or you fight, otherwise this position will not change.

And then she felt bad about the problems of the two of them, and it was normal to tell you.

In general, don't ask too many questions, so as not to be disgusted.

I can't say that I can help you in any way, I can only say that I can give you advice on physical examination. You can ask from her boyfriend and find out the reason for the incident. Then find her, comfort her, and make it clear to her. After all, she is already your friend's girlfriend, and you can only silently protect her and comfort her.

Or maybe you really can't tell you about it, but if you really want to know, you can talk to him sincerely.

Bless you.

The person you like suddenly becomes cold to yourself: communicate sincerely and find out the reason for the estrangement; Say goodbye with dignity and do not force affection; Let go of the past and become a better version of yourself.

1. Communicate sincerely and find out the reasons for the estrangement

There is always a reason why a person is alienated from you, and it is impossible not to fall in love for no reason. Therefore, when the person you love leaves you and your mind is not on you, you have to find out the reason and see what the problem is. At this time, both people should sit down calmly and communicate seriously, if they can't be together, it is better to make it clear that the two sides will get together and disperse.

2. Say goodbye with dignity and don't force feelings

Love is never a one-person business, but two people working together to have a happy future. If one day, the person you love is alienated from you and no longer loves you, really don't dwell on it, but say goodbye with dignity. Because, feelings can't be forced without pants and shirts, even if you are reluctant, it is impossible to come back.

At this time, both parties need to reach a consensus, and both parties do not entangle, but make a final goodbye, and then leave freely.

3. Let go of the past and become a better version of yourself

Love will bring sweetness to people, but it will also bring pain. Smart people will definitely become better in love, they will not entangle unworthy love, and will be responsible for their own lives. If the person you love is alienated from you, you don't have to be entangled, let alone suffer, but you have to let go in time and don't be nostalgic for everything in the past.

At this time, you have to start your own life, re-manage your own beauty, and make yourself better.

In a relationship, if I meet someone I like who is unusually cold to me, in this case, I will stop the loss in time and give up continuing to pursue him. Because I believe that in the relationship, as long as the other party and I are generally moved by the true feelings, I will not be able to control it, out of instinct I want to give everything I have, and I can't wait to give all the things that I think are good to the other party. There are always people who say that love is about means, and it takes some routines to firmly grasp each other, but in my opinion, paying with heart is the respect that this relationship should have.

Many people are always obsessed with grasping the size, hot and cold, even if they control their hearts, and want to make the other party cherish them more in this way. But in fact the true love scriptures.

can't afford the test, and in just a few decades of life, the probability of wanting to meet someone who likes each other among thousands of strangers is actually super low. When you are lucky enough to meet, you should not use any routines and means, show sincerity and enthusiasm to let the other party feel your love. Even if you try your best to get a happy ending, you will never regret it when you look back one day in the future.

On the contrary, they love each other seriously from beginning to end, but the other person never responds, and they are trapped in unrequited love.

It is better to draw an end as soon as possible to gain the freedom of the mind. Maybe after you come out, you will meet your true destiny. I also hope that in every relationship, if one party does not feel excited, it is better to make it clear as soon as possible than to treat him and her warmly, although this way of dealing with it is more ruthless, and it is difficult for the other party to accept it in a short period of time, but a timely response so that the other party no longer pays too much is also a respect for the other party.

I believe that one day in the future, he will also thank you for your desperation.

Although not all relationships in our lives go both ways, you have to believe that one day you will meet someone who is compatible with your soul. And in the process of getting along with everyone, as long as you have loved seriously and worked hard, you will be unusually at ease when you leave, after all, when you love him, you really worked hard.

That's definitely not, I'm a pure Pisces, it's a fantasy for me to take the initiative to pursue others, especially if I'm still cold to me, I usually make sure that the other party has a good impression before I continue to get along.

If the person I like is very cold to me, I will definitely not pursue him, because I think that in this case, I will be very humble myself, and I don't want such feelings.

I will, I will do my best to pursue him, if it is still like this for more than half a year, then I will give up.

When you don't love, you will be very cold to the person you like.

First of all, "love" is not only the sublimation of love, but also the expression of love. Because of love, so ... It can be ruthless, but love cannot.

Once you love, the result is like Schrödinger's cat, so if you conflict with these two outcomes, you stay away from the person you like. Lai Long title.

Second, as we grow older and more knowledgeable, we are more and more able to distinguish between what is love and what is right. It's not easy to love someone, so we don't want to love easily. Once lost, we will never have it again.

So, the more we like it, the farther away we get from people. Long titles.

<> as a human being deliberately showed indifference. It may be that you are used to treating others this way, or to avoid intense frustration after rejection, everyone has an instinctive mechanism to protect themselves from harm, which is reflected in our instinct to maintain family life and avoid uncertain emergencies and events. In evolutionary psychology, this is known as seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages; Master Freud called it instinct.

Come on, your indifference lets it be revealed in secret. Even if she likes you, she will feel love when she sees your indifference. She will feel ashamed and angry, but she may like you too.

Maybe many years later, it's a pity for you. Love should be courageously spoken. Don't be afraid to fail!

Don't be upset. We will find that most people want them to do things their way when they do them. They don't want to see others interfere with them. They always think that other people will interfere with their emotions and they don't know how to do it.

For girls, when they are with the person they like, if they are cold to them now, they will interfere with him doing something, but it will make him love you too much. We like nothing more than relatives and friends, very good friends who have not seen each other for many years, do not greet each other, occasionally have a meal and go their separate ways, and are busy with their own livelihoods. In fact, this is not a cold relationship, it is for the next time we can get together decently.