Please help me, if you want to meet a lover, please be a lover yourself.

I advise you to be ordinary friends first! You should get to know her first, not to confess, you must know that a rash confession may not be good, you say that she is interesting to you, so it will be easier to do. Be an ordinary friend first and then slowly develop a relationship, find things she likes to do, talk about topics she likes, have meticulous care, but be relaxed, not too tight and not too loose, he will accept you when I think of it.

You can talk a lot about history, geography, fashion, celebrities, and life, and focus on life.

Men chase girls if there is no common topic.

Or if you can't grasp what she's interested in.

It's going to be really hard.

There was only one way left - to move her to death.

See what kind of environment she likes, go with her, if you like to watch movies, you can go find a lighter movie together, girls won't be too active, it's normal not to speak, and you won't want a woman who is too active.

Find what she likes to do If you don't know what to do, she'll get bored.

Confess, she's = you.

I'm getting impatient.

Wen Xue Hanjun.

Dear Mr. Xue Hanjun, thank you for accompanying me through joys, sorrows, and sorrows, we have gone through so many unforgettable pasts, and 22 years have passed unconsciously.

I also want to say sorry to you, I'm sorry I told you to give up on your dream of writing.

You've been through so many happy times, it's time to sober yourself up a little bit, and there's nothing about suffering, it's like coffee, we just add a little sugar to it.

You have been looking for your other half, but some things make you understand that fate can't be found. You have learned that fate is not happy, and fate is not sad.

In fact, for a lifetime, everyone can only accompany you for a ride, and the only one who can accompany you for a lifetime is yourself, another self, the self-loving self, so learn to love yourself well, and love is overflowing. I have been treated so gently by her, so you still know the rebirth that power gives you.

The rest of your life is very expensive, don't mess with your heart, don't get stuck in love, don't float in things, it's something you have to learn.

Don't worry too much about whether you have a significant other or not, God will arrange a person worthy of your protection at the right time.

So, please love yourself and learn from the feminine mindset and understand the differences. Learn to manage feelings, learn how to solve the mode of getting along, and work hard to make money.

Please be yourself first, only half of your heart is good, and the other half you meet will be good. That's right.

If you want to meet a lover, you must first be a lover.

Virtue is loaded, and virtue must be matched to be long-lasting.

Continue to cultivate your own qualities and remain sincere in your feelings.

Unprecepted Academy].

Original:

If one day, you stop looking for love, just love.

You no longer aspire to succeed, just do it.

You no longer pursue growth, you just cultivate.

It's just the beginning!

Cary Gibran.

Translated into English is:

if there comes a day when…,you no longer look for love, just love.

you no longer desire success, just do it.

you no longer pursue growth, just repair.

everything is really beginning!

cary gibra

[Extended Information]:

My own understanding of this sentence:

Unfortunately, many people may not understand this truth when they are young, so it is difficult to meet a loved one.

After experiencing a period of ups and downs, I re-examined myself in the painful heart, only to find that the years were so barren, why did you treat me like this.

Many people blame each other for the unhappiness of their marriage, feeling that they have met a bad person. Some people even say, "It would have been nice if I hadn't met you."

In fact, the unhappiness of marriage was not in that first meeting, but a long time ago, when you were still alone, in your immature soul that was still ignorant and unknown.

When you can't find the way forward, you can't find the motivation to forge ahead. In the vast sea, the people you meet at any ferry port are not good people.

If you are not the best you, how can you meet the best of him?

Wrong, the beloved is a son, do you still want to scream again?

In ancient times, husband and wife were called each other's beloved, and later it was mostly used for wives to call husbands, and in ancient times, it referred to the common people who were not slaves and maids (different from slaves and maids) and women from white families. It can also refer to virtuous and virtuous virtues.