When did you feel that it was not easy for your parents?

Since I was a teenager and sensible, I felt that my parents worked hard every day to earn money, and I had to do housework at home when I went to work, and I felt that it was really not easy to be a parent.

I remember when I was in junior high school, when the school was far away from home, every Wednesday the family would send dry food to school, my father would come to deliver it every week, whether it was cloudy and rainy, hot or cold, it was every time I brought a lot of my favorite meals, and there was no time for three consecutive years not to come, these three years have really worked hard for the family, thank you for their hard work.

When I had my son, in order to let him eat better milk powder, I went to the brick factory to make bricks, my wife is very thin, no milk, in 01 years in the brick factory can earn 30 yuan a day, which is a lot, but too tired. My son has to eat three barrels of bird's nest milk powder a month, although he is tired, but his heart is beautiful, since he gave birth to him, I want to give him the best and do my best.

When you make money to support your family, when you raise your own children, when your parents are sick and you have no money, when your children ask for toys and touch your pockets that are cleaner than your face, when others bring their wives and children home for the holidays but they are working overtime, when other people's children look at you with a bunch of foreign debts and look at you with disappointed eyes!

Since I got pregnant, I have truly felt how difficult it is to be a parent. There is a saying: "The day parents don't close their eyes, they will never have a heart to their children." ”

When I paid the tuition in the first year of junior high school, more than 600 yuan in half a semester, and only about 200 yuan at home, I heard my parents talking at home, they said that they were going to buy pigs, and sell some food, and then ask my aunt to borrow some, it should be about the same, and it was not easy for my parents to feel for the first time.

The first time I had this feeling from the bottom of my heart was after the birth of my daughter, the end of July in Xinjiang was still relatively hot, the customs in the north confinement are not allowed to blow the wind, not allowed to take a bath, the days are really very tormenting, and then I have to keep changing diapers and changing diapers to feed, the pain caused by giving birth to a child still tortures me day by day, after the pain of giving birth and the hardships of raising children, I understand the difficulty of parents!

It is not easy for parents to start working on their own. Since I have children, I feel that it is not easy for parents.

I used to ask for money when I had no money, and at a certain moment I felt that it was not easy for my parents to earn money, and they were all fixed for a month, and the demand was reasonable. At that moment I felt like I had grown up!

When my biological brother was alive and growing up, there were many moments when I felt that it was not easy for my parents. Without the dedication of parents, there will be no good life for children, each of our children must be grateful, for parents we really can't repay their kindness. First of all, when you are immersed in work.

I remember when I was a child, there was always such a picture in my mind: my parents were buried in the fields, and their clothes were soaked with sweat. But staring at the scorching sun, the parents still buried their heads in hard work.

At that time, I was a little kid, I could only sit on the sidelines and watch my parents, although I didn't know how to understand my parents at that time, but the picture of my parents working hard was deeply engraved in my mind. Later, as I grew up, I felt more and more that it was not easy, and I will never forget the picture of my parents working hard, and that moment was the best proof of my parents' dedication to the family and their children. Secondly, see the gray hair of the parents.

I don't know when, I found out that my parents had gray hair on their heads, and at that moment I felt that it was too difficult for my parents, and the fatigue of life made them have white hair prematurely. My parents, who were young and strong in front of me, suddenly turned white, and I felt very guilty and uneasy. I don't feel comfortable accepting my parents' aging, and I also lament that life is not easy.

Again, see the wrinkles of the parents. Also, the moment I noticed that my parents had wrinkles on their faces, I suddenly felt very sour in my heart. At that moment, I suddenly felt that life was too difficult, and at the same time, I felt powerless as a child.

In order to manage the whole family, parents no longer care about their appearance and aging. They feel that their family and children are the most important, and that they have only selflessness in their hearts, not themselves. As the saying goes:

If you don't raise children, you don't know the kindness of your parents. Many people only understand the good intentions of their parents after they have children. It was only in the first year of work after graduation that I felt that it was too difficult to earn money, and I realized the difficulty of my parents.

Envy Hu Xu, so as long as he has money, he will buy clothes or other things for his parents. After I got married, I had a mortgage, and my parents never used my money. It's not easy to say that we just got by.

Now they can all make money. Later, when you have a child, the child grows older and bigger, and there are more places to use money. Mom and Dad don't even give him money.

Let me keep the flowers for the kids. It is estimated that parents all over the world think about their children like this! I have four brothers and sisters, and they all go to school.

And my parents are ordinary farmers. My father farmed in the summer and worked in the winter, so he was not idle, my brother finished college, and so did my brother, I studied secondary school. Now think about what a powerful idea dad had for us to read.

Fortunately, we also passed the test. Now mom and dad can enjoy themselves. But we can never repay the kindness of our parents!

I deeply understand the difficulty of parents. can only be doubly filial to the two of them after making molds every day. In the hearts of each of our children, there may be many moments of life, in which we find that our parents are old, that our parents are hunchbacked, and that our parents are always giving to our children.

Love your parents more and go home more to spend time with your parents.

Ordinary people have a deeper understanding until they become independent and become parents.

A parent's love for their children is the most sincere, and in order for their children to be better, parents will give everything they have. For the dedication of parents, children may not necessarily feel it, only at certain specific moments, Hu Sui's children can personally experience the difficulties of their parents, specifically, let themselves feel the moments when their mothers are not easy, including when they are parents. When I saw my mother's hard work, and the moment I understood my mother when I grew up, these three situations were these three situations.

1. When you become a parent, you will instantly feel that it is not easy for your mother.

When I was a child, I didn't feel my mother's dedication, and I thought that everything was going naturally, but when I was a parent, when I experienced the hard work of bringing a baby, I would instantly feel my mother's difficulty. This situation is most appropriately described by the sentence that does not raise children and does not know the kindness of parents. It is precisely because of this feeling that I realized the difficulty of my mother.

2. When I see my mother's hard work, I will feel my mother's difficulty.

For my mother's dedication, when I didn't see it with my own eyes, I didn't have any special feelings, thinking that everything was logical, but when I saw my mother's hard work with my own eyes, I would feel my mother's difficulty in an instant. I am very touched by my mother's hard work. The relationship between myself and my mother will also be deepened by this.

3. When I finally understand my mother when I grow up, I will instantly feel my mother's difficulty.

When I grew up, I understood the difficulty of life through my own learning and personal experience, and I thought that my mother had paid everything over the years, at that moment, I finally felt my mother's difficulty, and I had a deeper understanding of my mother's hard work, and I had more reverence for my mother in gratitude.

In our lives, there will always be a moment when we suddenly realize that it is really not easy to be parents, such as the moment when we become parents, that is to say, when we are in the delivery room, or after having our own baby, we will suddenly realize that it is not easy for our parents to bring themselves up.

In addition, when we go home for the Chinese New Year, we suddenly see that the gray hair of our parents is becoming more and more, and their backs are becoming more and more curved, and even sometimes when we come home, we find that we are taller than our parents.

In fact, there are a lot of such moments, sometimes we can see some changes in our parents, whether it is getting older, or gray hair is becoming more and more, or some other situations, at this time we will realize that it is really not easy for parents to work for half a lifetime, and sometimes, when we play ** with our parents, from some of their words, we can also hear that they will have a lot of difficulties at work or in life, and they will encounter a lot of problems. At this time, we can also understand their difficulty.

There is a saying that every family has a difficult scripture to read, which means that everyone will have their own difficulties that they often encounter, so at this time we must know how to understand each other, take care of our parents more, and let them live a good life, which is what we should do.

In our lives, there will always be a moment when we suddenly realize that it is really not easy to be parents, such as the moment when we become parents, that is to say, when we are in the delivery room, or after having our own baby, we will suddenly realize that it is not easy for our parents to bring themselves up.

In addition, when we go home for the Chinese New Year, we suddenly see that the gray hair of our parents is becoming more and more, and their backs are becoming more and more curved, and even sometimes when we come home, we find that we are taller than our parents.

In fact, there are a lot of such moments, sometimes we can see some changes in our parents, whether it is getting older, or gray hair is becoming more and more, or some other situations, at this time we will realize that it is really not easy for parents to work for half a lifetime, and sometimes, when we play ** with our parents, from some of their words, we can also hear that they will have a lot of difficulties at work or in life, and they will encounter a lot of problems. At this time, we can also understand their difficulty.

There is a saying that every family has a difficult scripture to read, which means that everyone will have their own difficulties that they often encounter, so at this time we must know how to understand each other, take care of our parents more, and let them live a good life, which is what we should do.

When you think it's easy, someone must be taking your share for you, when you're still showing off poetry and distance, your parents are reluctant, and you always feel that it's not easy for your parents.

1. When pregnant.

From the continuous retching at the beginning, to the feeling that I was going to vomit all day long, I was weak and unenergetic, to the persistent headache, and then I started to reflux acid water, and this morning I vomited bile, I feel that I have accounted for all the early pregnancy reactions. Now I really realize that being a mother is not easy.

2. There is no woman who does not love beauty.

The mother's hands are already covered with calluses, and every day she works in the water and mud, she will apply a layer of hand cream for a few dollars to the baby's before going to bed. It may not play a role, but it can only play a psychological role in comforting yourself.

3. When borrowing money from grandchildren to go to school.

When I was in school, my family was very poor, and my brother and sister were always in arrears of school fees. Once, my teacher ordered me not to come to class if I couldn't pay the tuition. I went back and told my mother, who had traveled to most of the village to borrow money for me to go to school.

I was so happy to see my mother holding the money and hurriedly not running to hand it to me. Of course, I also understand how difficult it is to be a boring mother.

4. When you are sick.

It's really not easy to be a mother, her youngest son started to have a fever at two o'clock, and until now, she hasn't dared to sleep and has been taking his temperature, wiping his body, and feeding him water. Alone with a baby, crying, laughing, breaking down, happy, there are always times when emotions become very sensitive, and Zen Chain wants to cry.

5. When you get married and have children.

When I wasn't married before, I didn't know how hard my mother was, but I only knew that it was easy to raise a child. Only when you become a mother do you know that it is not easy, know the hard work and difficulty of mother, and know that mother is the greatest person in the world when you have children.

6. There is also packing up the child's kindergarten things, looking at the handwriting on her books, and colorful pictures, I feel that she is growing up a little bit, and I also feel that her world will get bigger and bigger, accommodate more people and things, and the proportion of parents will be smaller and smaller, I can't help but imagine my reluctance and expectation when she leaves home from college, this moment I feel why every time my mother sends me away from home, I will shed tears, in the past, I not only did not understand, but even felt a little annoyed, and always thought: What is there to cry about, It's not like I'm not coming back. But now that I think about it, it seems that from that time on, the time to go home became less and less.

At this time, I really realized that it is not easy to be a mother.

Mother's love is great, no matter how difficult life is, mothers are strong in order to protect their children.

In short, we can understand the difficulty of parents through what we see and experience by ourselves! No matter in study, work is not afraid of hardship, motivated, because parents are role models! Therefore, today's children must see or experience labor in order to realize the difficulty of parents!