Tell me when you suddenly felt that your parents were unreliable?

When you let yourself do something that you don't want to do, or when you choose your own life path, you don't understand your ideals.

On the day the results of the college entrance examination came out, the test was very poor, my dad used cold violence, and he didn't say the first thing to me until the beginning of the school year, and there was so much to save on living expenses.

On the way home from school, I passed by my mother, shouting that she didn't answer, and when I got home, my mother said that I met someone who was very similar to me on the road and called her mother, which really made me speechless.

I remember that when I was eating before, my mother sandwiched a piece of meat, took a bite and found that it was not delicious, threw it into my bowl, and told me not to waste it, am I really my mother's own, it's too unreliable.

When I went home for the New Year, I found out that my family had moved, and I asked my mother, my mother said that I forgot that I had a daughter, and I really couldn't cry or laugh at the time, hey!

When you have a person you particularly like, the family conditions are not too good, but they have great potential, but the parents just look at the current conditions are not good, and feel that they are particularly unreliable.

On the day of the college entrance examination, I rode my bicycle to the exam, and met my dad on the way, and my dad asked, "Why are you going?" I replied: "College Entrance Examination". My dad came and said, "Come back early after the exam to help your mom cook." ”

When my parents let me go on a blind date, I really couldn't stand it and couldn't understand their thoughts. Always urging me to get married, am I not their own child? Whining!

In the minds of children, parents are omnipotent. But in fact, parents are also ordinary people, and they can also make mistakes and even do some unreliable things. ......Specifically, some unreliable parents will make three unreliable behaviors: leaving their children behind when they go out, ignoring their children's conditions when taking care of their children, and carelessly picking up the wrong children when picking up their children.

1. Parents ignore their children when they take them out, and leave them by themselves.

Some parents are careless when taking their children out of the house, only caring about their own things and not caring about their children. As a result, when leaving, the parents left on their own, left the child at the scene, and only after thinking about it did they hurriedly come back to find the child ......The behavior of these parents is no longer just a matter of carelessness, but a serious situation that will bring a dangerous situation to the child. Such parents are really unreliable.

2. Parents are careless when taking care of their children, which leads to problems in their children.

Some unreliable parents are very careless when taking care of their children, which leads to various situations ...... their childrenFor example, some parents do not take good care of their children at all, but run away to do other things, and as a result, the child falls alone, almost causing danger. ......There are also parents who take care of their children as child's play, leading their children to play unsafe games, and as a result, they injure their children, and they regret it afterwards.

3. Unreliable parents carelessly pick up the wrong child when picking up their children.

There are also some parents who take the unreliability to the extreme......These parents are extremely careless with their children, they don't care at all, they will even pick up the wrong child when they pick up their children from school, take other people's children home, and wait until they find out before they are caught off guard, and they can't ...... crying and laughingAlthough these parents generally take care of their children for a relatively short time, their carelessness is really eye-popping, such parents are really unreliable, and they are really not up to the task of taking care of children.

Yes, when the child cries, I still have to play with my mobile phone, I don't want to care about him, I still take care of other things.

Not yet.

We must take the initiative to take responsibility.

Unreliable parents may have the following manifestations:1No sense of responsibility:

Unreliable parents may lack a sense of responsibility and are unable to take consequences for their actions and decisions. 2.Lack of stability:

Unreliable parents often change their decisions and plans, lack stability and reliability, and are unable to give their children the security they deserve in family life. 3.Valuing self-interest:

Unreliable parents often only focus on their own interests and needs, and ignore their children's feelings and needs, which can easily cause dissatisfaction and disgust among children. 4.Irrational behavior:

Unreliable parents often make irrational behaviors and decisions, which can cause negative effects and psychological stress to their children. 5.Neglect of children's education:

Unreliable parents may lack the importance of their children's education, and lack patience and concern for their children's problems and needs. In short, Songchang's unreliable parents will have deviations and problems in education methods and behaviors, which will have a negative impact on their children, affecting family harmony and children's growth and development.

Here are some of the signs that may indicate that parents are unreliable:

1.Frequent tardiness or forgetting to confirm things: Lack of time awareness and awareness of the importance of things, or being too busy or careless, resulting in frequent forgetfulness of agreed times or tasks.

2.Inability to keep promises: Inability to keep promises, such as promising to do something, spend time with children, but in fact fail to keep them.

3.Not caring about your child's feelings: Not understanding your child's thoughts, not wanting to listen to your child's opinions, or even imposing your own expectations on your child while ignoring his or her real needs and feelings.

4.Economic instability: Lack of good financial planning and management skills, spending money without planning, not assigning priorities, etc., leading to frequent economic crises.

5.Lack of trust and understanding: Lack of trust and understanding with each other often leads to quarrels and conflicts, leading to instability in family relationships.

6.Lack of companionship and education: Parents lack a companion mentally or physically, and fail to take responsibility for their children's education, resulting in poor growth and development of children.

It should be noted that each family is different from person to person, and the unreliable performance of parents may also exist in other aspects. Building a healthy, stable and warm family relationship requires mutual understanding, support and trust, not only from the efforts of parents, but also with the participation of children.

With the development of the times, people's living standards have been significantly improved. While the standard of living has been improved, the cultural level of many parents has also been improved to a certain extent.

In this way, many parents who lacked common sense and had a serious patriarchal mentality have slowly changed.

Take taking the matter of raising children as an example, many parents have said that with the change of knowledge level and psychology, the way they take care of their babies is obviously different from their parents. What's going on?

What is it like to have an unreliable parent?

Netizen: It's all up to luck that I can grow so big!

Not long ago, a netizen asked on a whim, combined with his own personal experience: how unreliable can his parents be. As soon as the question came out, netizens exploded one after another, scrambling to get it, and shouted: I can answer this question.

Netizen 1:

I feel that I have grown up so big, and I have really been blessed by God to grow up. Now when I hear my grandmother talk about my childhood, I am very afraid of my mother.

It is said that my mother took me at home alone, and my grandfather, grandmother and father all went to work in the fields, and my mother, who had never taken care of a child by herself, was obviously very rusty when she took me by herself for the first time. Because the family has pigs, my mother has to feed the pigs in the morning, and my mother looks at the pigsty after looking at me in her arms, and after struggling for a long time, she puts me next to the pigsty and goes to the house to prepare pig food.

In this way, when I was only a few months old, I kept staring at the pig. I don't know if the pig is too hungry, so it's about to run out of me. I almost fell into the pig's mouth and was rescued by my grandmother, who came home temporarily. Thinking about it now, my grandmother couldn't help but want to laugh.

Netizen 2:

I don't think anyone is more unreliable than my dad. My mother said that my brother and I are dragon and phoenix fetuses, my mother went into the delivery room to give birth, after giving birth my father walked in, came in and hugged my brother to look at it, and when I was tired of it, I wanted to sit down and rest, but I was stopped by my mother's yell, because the place where my father planned to sit down was where I was lying! Now that I think about it, I don't have anything to be angry about, so I want to say something:

Dad, how bad are your eyes, don't worry about your daughter?

Netizens have said: I can grow so big because of luck! What is it like to have an unreliable parent?

Netizen: It's all up to luck that I can grow so big! What do you think?

What do you think after reading the crying complaints of these netizens? Are your parents also the kind of extremely unreliable parents in the legend? How do you treat your children?

The most unreliable parents I've ever seen are probably the parents of a friend of mine.

When I first fell in love, my friend's parents disagreed, thinking that this man had no job, low education, and poor family conditions. My boyfriend took his elders to ask for a kiss, and was beaten out by my friend's parents. But my friend wanted to marry him, and thought he was good to her, so she secretly eloped with him.

A year later, my friend's cousin came to her and said that her mother thought she was sick and begged her to go back, and her parents agreed to the marriage of the two of them. Only then did she go back, and when she got married, her parents didn't give her a dowry, and said that it was a great loss for her daughter to spend so much money to marry this kind of man. After giving birth to a child at the age of six or seven, the parents never admitted in front of outsiders that their daughter's child was their nephew, and the daughter's husband was her son-in-law.

After a few years of hardship, when the child was six years old, my friend's husband went out to work. At this time, my friend's first love broke into their lives, and after a few meals, some rumors reached the ears of my friend's husband. Her husband came back and had a big fight.

After my friend's parents found out about this, they found out that my friend's first love had just divorced, and he had money and a good job, and he went directly to the boyfriend and said:"You like my daughter, won't you chase hard! Can't you beat her man!

You beat him away, beat him until he divorces for this!

It got louder and louder, and I couldn't live anymore, and my friend got divorced. Half a year after the divorce, my friend found out about all this, my friend left the man he first loved, and left his parents to go to Yunnan to work and rent Kai. I haven't been in touch with my parents yet.

This kind of parents don't know what to think, whether their daughter's happiness is important or their own interests and face are important, it's incomprehensible.