What should I do love in love .

From your narrative, first, you were with the first man not because you liked him, but because you were friends, or in a way, you came together because of friendship. Like you said, you gave up on the second guy you liked (maybe because you didn't like the second guy enough to want to chase him). Second, now you find out that you have always liked the second boy, but because the first boy was very good to you, you feel that you can't bear to hurt him, so you are very confused and conflicted.

Judging from your description, I can clearly sense that you really want to be with a second man, so what are you hesitating about??? You have to know that happiness is your own, and if you are forced to do so in your emotional life, you will find it tedious to live. However, if you struggle and live with the people you love with each other, it will be the happiest thing in the world.

So, brother suggests that you pursue your own happiness, don't hesitate, your first boy will still find his other half after all, don't worry too much about you, do you understand??

Think about it from the perspective of 5-10 years from now.

One says loves you, one loves you well. Do you think that one is more suitable for you? Say I love you. If you really love you, you shouldn't come to disturb your heart

In fact, it is really not easy to cherish the people in front of you and be able to walk together. The person who is standing wants to sit down, and when he sits down, he wants to lie down. If you already have it, you will feel that it is not satisfactory, and you will always look for the advantages that your boyfriend does not have in a certain boy, but what you see is one-sided, and when you are really together, after a small friction in life, you will regret not being at the beginning.

Every girl will always have a boy who is slightly more intimate than her boyfriend, he is not a boyfriend, but he can talk more, just keep this feeling in your heart, it is also good to be a good friend, smart girls will not have an affair with a boy other than her boyfriend, so you have the full initiative, contentment, you are very happy, come on!

Calm down first and think long-term. Keep a little distance from your boyfriend first, calm down with the three of you, maybe the answer in your heart will be clear, your subconscious is the answer in your heart, such as: the three people have a distance to calm down, you think more about who you think of, who you feel happier with,,, the answer will come out.

Since you know it's wrong, then divide it, otherwise things are getting more and more complicated, and you can't clean it up, but to be honest, the other one is not suitable for you, just be friends with you, dare to love, dare to chase, and only say that there is a fart.