How to get along with an introverted, non talkative and scheming female boss

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. Respect her;

    2. For her sake;

    3. Solve difficulties for her;

    4. Give help.

    In short, use love to give her self-confidence and ordinary feelings, and break away from the memories of the past.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A scheming person is not necessarily a bad person.

    It is used to calculate that people are stupid, and they are good at thinking about things.

    Everyone needs to be more or less scheming, and they don't think about what they do.

    I'm stupid, so why complain about the elves.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Such a woman is very deep.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm also an introvert who doesn't like to talk and isn't good at expressing myself.

    You may feel that you are not very easy to get along with an introvert, you will feel very bored, you can take the initiative to talk to him, express your thoughts, maybe your liveliness will infect him, if you are familiar with him, he will not be so restrained, will let go, will be a little more relaxed, sometimes introverted is not his fault, personality is like this, maybe he doesn't want to, so communicate more, understand each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Time will let them get along, and they won't stay silent for the rest of their lives, right?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You have to learn to be flexible before you can ......Poverty also becomes ......Change is the ......General Rule.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no lack of talk, only head speculation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then you can take the initiative to speak.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Such a person should impress her from the heart!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Separate before it's too late, don't hang yourself from a tree.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't know if you've heard of a sentence that makes perfect, and love grows over time. Everyone who comes to the company, no matter who it is, starts from 0 and has experienced it from this stage of yours. So, at the end of the day, if you can't quit your job, you have to adjust your mindset and make your mindset recognize this reality.

    What kind of mentality, is the first, understand that no matter who has the first day, the old employees also start from the new employees, and people with social circles also start from having no friends. At this time, don't socialize with others just because you're lonely, because just because you do the same job doesn't mean you're suitable for each other to be friends. The way colleagues get along with each other is to respect each other.

    You can't look down on someone because they're worse than you, and you can't be afraid of someone because they're better than you. Ability is improved from continuous work and learning, newcomers are not strong is as it should be, if the boss needs a strong person, will not let you enter the unit. So, it's all cultivated from the beginning.

    The reason why they have each other's company is actually because they have found friends who can complement each other in their work, or people who are suitable for each other to become friends. After all, people gather by like, and they are divided by groups, and your ability is poorer, and it just so happens that the colleague's ability is stronger than yours, and the content you are strong in, he is worse, at this time, it is impossible for you not to become friends. But this situation, you can't encounter it at the beginning, it's all in the work, after getting acquainted with each other and getting to know each other, it slowly builds.

    At the end of the day, it's just time.

    Therefore, introversion stems from the fact that you have too little ability to communicate, for example, you can learn to learn a musical instrument, you can read more books on communication, communication is not difficult, if you are not selfish, think about others everywhere, and don't care even if you suffer, then you will not have no friends. After all, the friends who make you suffer will not have the face to see you next time, and colleagues will not look up to see you, you treat people sincerely, they will not treat you badly. If you are knowledgeable, have any hobbies, and talk to others, you will not be distracted.

    So I don't like to talk, in the final analysis, I don't know what to say, I love to talk, hehe. Ability I said, it takes time to improve, about half a year or more, so don't worry, think about work, don't think about colleagues, this is what you should consider, colleagues will not give you a salary, the boss will, you should consider the feelings of the boss, not the feelings of yourself and your colleagues.

    In the end, everyone encouraged everyone to start from the beginning, from the unfamiliar, from timidity to boldness. Hold on to it until the end, and the sun will naturally fill your heart. Just remember to read more books to improve your literacy, learn more art to improve your communication distance with others, people who have no hobbies and interests, in the final analysis, don't know who to be friends with.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is also a period of personal growth for you, it's time to exercise, and when you come out to work, you're no longer a good baby in school! In fact, you can get along well with individuals without much talk, and they all say that the workplace is like a battlefield, but it does not summarize our usual relationship, sometimes we suffer a small loss outside, don't worry too much, and properly consider giving and taking. Suffering is a blessing, and there is a sacrifice to gain!

    Most of these words prove its meaning. You have to learn to adapt to an environment, and the environment will never adapt to you. Although we change with the environment, we must keep our heart!

    Talk to a colleague when appropriate. Talk about campus life... Tell me about that song and ask if there are any good movies to introduce it.

    In fact, many times it doesn't feel like what I intended, and after a long time, I am familiar with it, and there are more words. If the relationship is better, a lot of problems at work can be solved! Don't be too princessy when you work.

    Believe in yourself. I'm optimistic about you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Take your time, see people's hearts over time, don't get too entangled, and try to have more contact with others.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Slowly everyone will get familiar with it, and it will be good after getting acquainted.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm also a rookie in the workplace, and I haven't talked to my colleagues much for almost half a year, and I understand this feeling. So you need to take the initiative to get in.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I am also a fresh graduate this year, and this is the second week of my work. Newcomers, inevitably, I want to open, I have to endure loneliness, just go out with everyone more.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Now I know colleagues together, take the initiative to help enthusiastically, let everyone recognize you, and continue to learn things that are useful to you and improve your ability

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Why do people want change? Because at this time, I was no longer accustomed to the environment and felt out of place. In order to better integrate into society, I had to choose to change myself.

    But the premise is that the change must be planned and thought out, and stick to it, and become a habit to see results. It is recommended that you read a book on the competitiveness of introverted personality. Says a lot about the advantages of introverts.

    Sometimes you don't have to change yourself. Do you think there is any point in making sales people like to talk and have to talk for work? Talking too much can give people a sense of frivolity and shallowness.

    A feeling without connotation. It is best for girls to be quiet and maintain good cultivation and inner purity.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's okay to communicate with people more, and I had a classmate who was like this, and she also changed by slowly getting in touch with others.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Actually, I have a similar personality to you, don't say I'm honest and don't like to express myself at the post, but will you talk to familiar people very hight?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Try to understand everyone's hobbies first, and if you have something to say, you will have more to say.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No big deal! Be brave and face yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Do more exercise, talk more, laugh more, go out and have fun, don't go out by yourself and with others.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Try to get along with people first, even if it's just listening to them, and try to tell friends or colleagues about something.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, few people talk to me anyway! I don't talk to anyone else

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I'm the same character, so the neighbors think I'm cold, so they don't pay much attention to me.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I'm also a more introverted person, I don't like to talk, I'm not good at expressing myself, maybe you will feel that it's not easy to get along with an introvert, you can feel bored, you can take the initiative to talk to him, express your thoughts, maybe your liveliness will infect him, if you get acquainted with him, he won't be so restrained, he will let go, and it will be a little easier.

    Sometimes it's not his fault that he is introverted, his personality is like this, maybe he doesn't want to, so communicate more and get to know each other.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Heart-to-heart, and they will communicate with you.

    As long as you take it seriously, there is nothing you can't do.

    Have a great day.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First of all, you have to ask him to trust you and slowly become friends. Learn about his hobbies.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you want to understand him, it's easy for him to open up the conversation.

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