A friendship really can t be saved

I used to too, holding on to my self-righteous self-esteem and breaking off friendships with friends in a fit of rage.

But the more time passed, the more I regretted it, because the more I felt that I had done something wrong.

After another year, I couldn't hold on and left him a message on QQ, and then we reconciled.

Why not? You have to believe that nothing is impossible in this world!

Since you want to redeem it, then act quickly! Do your best to touch him and let him know that you care about that friendship!

Why lose, if you feel that this friendship is worth it, then change yourself to redeem it.

Yes, you can communicate with your friends again with a sincere heart, good luck!

Communicate and talk to him a lot, and people will naturally treat you as a friend.

Here are a few things you can try to save a friendship:

Honest communication: First of all, both parties need to communicate openly and honestly to understand each other's views and feelings about the problems that arise in the friendship. In communication, it is necessary to express one's sincerity and wishes, but also to listen to the other person's thoughts and feelings, and work together to find a solution to the problem.

Admit your mistakes: If something goes wrong in the friendship, it may be because both partners have done something wrong. To salvage a friendship, you need to first admit your mistakes and try to make positive changes.

At the same time, you should also express your understanding and concern for the other person, so that the other person can feel your sincerity and determination.

Reconnect: In the process of restoring friendships, reconnecting is needed. There are some simple activities that can be used to increase the emotional connection between the two parties, such as eating together, watching movies, traveling, etc. Be enthusiastic and patient during this process, and don't be too eager or stressed.

Respect each other: In friendship, you need to respect each other's feelings and thoughts. If the other party has made a different choice or has a different opinion, you need to understand and respect the other person's decision.

At the same time, you should also respect the privacy and personal space of the other person, and do not interfere too much or disturb the other person's life.

Building Trust: Building trust is crucial in the process of salvaging friendships. To build trust, there are specific actions that need to be taken, such as keeping promises, supporting the other person, keeping secrets, etc.

If the other person feels unable to trust you, it will be difficult to salvage the friendship even if you make a change.

In conclusion, salvaging a friendship requires both parties to work together and take positive actions to change their behavior and attitudes. In communication, we should be honest with each other, understand and care for each other, maintain patience and confidence, and believe that both parties can rebuild friendship together.

You need to apologize and correct your mistakes to have a chance of being forgiven.

1.Be open: First of all, you need to be open and honest, don't refuse to talk about it, and don't hold back. Be honest with your friends about your thoughts and take the initiative to admit your mistakes.

2.Find your friend's perspective: Emotional problems are not simple, you need to listen sincerely to your friend's attitude and opinions, understand what they want and what they are worried about. Think from their perspective and draw a common conclusion, so that both parties can reach a consensus.

3.Improve one's own quality: The pursuit of friendship is not to express oneself and meet one's ultimate goal, but to strive to improve oneself, put down one's face in front of friends, and improve one's own quality. Cherish friendship, be more considerate, encourage friends, and make gentlemen's friendship as light as water.

4.Sincere acceptance and help: Friendship is also more difficult to recover than to restore feelings, so do not be impatient, to find a suitable way to improve the situation and rebuild friendship, if friends need our help, sincere and flexible to accept it, take the initiative to help and support, may help to save friendship.

Dear, if you find him, if you still have any confusion after communication, you can always find me to help you analyze, we will find a way to solve it together, I wish you a happy life.

If you want to save a friendship, you need to find the problems that arise between yourself and your friends, and then find a way to solve them.

If you feel like you're drifting apart from each other because of work, distance, etc., and you spend too little time together. You can see what your friends have been caring about lately, or what they have liked lately, and do what they like. Then slowly reminisce with him about the moments you used to be together.

Find the purest friendship at the time. This kind of friendship that has drifted away will also be found.

If you're the type who gives silently, he doesn't pay much attention to you when you're with your friends. For this kind of friend who is drifting away, you should let go.

Ways to apologize:

1. Give the other party a chance to vent their unhappiness: Let the other party scold you and let out the anger in your heart is a good way to save friendship. Otherwise, dissatisfaction will accumulate in the chest, and it will not be separated for several years, and you and the other party will never be able to repair the old relationship.

2. Ask someone else to apologize on your behalf: If it is inconvenient for you to come forward, you can turn to a third party for help. You can apologize or hint to another friend you both know and ask him to apologize for you. <>

True friendship is equal and mutual, if the other party cares about you, they will take the initiative to come back to you, if you don't care, no matter how much you do, it will be one-sided, so that one-sided friendship will not last.

More important than intimacy is mutual support for friends, and the key point of this support is to strike a balance between giving and giving, any kind of imbalance may cause the relationship between the two parties to collapse.

It's not something you're alone.

Just as it is not the fault of one person that a friendship is lost, there is no need for you to be alone in recovering it if neither of you has made an effort to make an effort into the relationship.

1.Learn to grieve and mourn.

Grief and mourning is an important farewell ritual, don't leave this sadness alone, take some time to "grieve" and take some time to say goodbye from the bottom of your heart.

2.The end does not mean that the past needs to be erased.

The end of friendship does not mean that you have to write off the good things of the past. The memories left by those times are still your treasures, please don't throw them away or deny them at will.

3.Don't leave things unturned.

No one knows what the future holds, and what you thought was an "old friend" could most likely reappear in your life in the future. So, don't speak ill of the relationship and leave an unknown space between yourself and the two of you.

Sitting on the cold windowsill again, the wind was mercilessly rushing against me, the rain once again wet my face, my nose was sore, and my eyes seemed like some warm liquid was about to gush out.

The rain was mixed with tears, and everything seemed to go back to the past, and the scenes appeared in front of me again. Unconsciously, we have lived together for several years, and time has taken away our immaturity and innocence in a hurry, but we still don't know it, until the homework is getting higher and higher day by day, and there are more and more things in our hearts, we may be ignorant and find that we have grown up.

I don't know when it began, the distance between us is getting farther and farther, the gap is getting deeper and deeper, and when the former friends become the enemies we are today, I don't know what to think in my heart. In fact, as long as we cared more about each other, cared a little more, and were more considerate, maybe we would still be the same.

On that day, the sun was shining, the sky was cloudless, and the gentle breeze was gently blowing in every corner, and we had a lot of fun because the teacher was not there. But the next day, you didn't come to school, and your heart was like that empty seat, always absent-minded. The teacher said that you are sick and may not come back until a week later, because without you, the whole classroom will be without your laughter, and there will be no more of your heroic figure on the playground, and every classmate is nostalgic for you, although we are often in contact with you.

A week later, you did get sick and discharged from the hospital, but it felt so strange to me, you have changed, you have become taciturn, your interests have changed, the energetic figure of the past no longer exists, and all that is left is a sick Xi Shi. You hate to study, but you want to have a new world, you are afraid of getting hurt, but you want to go to a strange world to fight, in fact, everything is not as good as you imagined.

I don't have anything in common with you anymore, the person who has been with you is no longer me, time flies, everything is changing. My suspicion made me choose to stay away from you, I felt your loss and overwhelmed, but I still didn't want to stay with you.

I stayed together for a semester again, but there was no laughter and laughter, and when I saw you fall, I didn't even have a chance to pick you up, and I didn't even have a chance to pick you up.

Time has taken away our youth, but also taken away our indestructible friendship, if it wasn't for my miss at the beginning, maybe it wouldn't have been exchanged for the current loss. I haven't experienced anything, and I don't think about the consequences. Now we are strangers, it is not what I wanted, but I chose it.

Pink Butterfly, I want to take advantage of our last time with each other to tell you out loud - I regret it!

Friendship leaves you, it is nothing more than a misunderstanding and contradiction between you, and it is not enough to untie this knot.

You take the initiative to admit your mistakes, and you take the initiative to forgive him for his mistakes, and give enough steps.

It depends! It often takes many years to warm a heart! It only takes a moment to cool a heart! Even if you can save both sides, there will be pimples in your hearts!